Dear St,John.. my father-in-law.
Where do I begin, firstly let me say how sorry I am that you were taken so quickly before any of us could get our heads around it... which in turn left lots of us in shock, disbelief and sad that we didn't get to say goodbye.. For me, I like to think of it a little differently.. I liking that I got to see you at Christmas where you were looking so well, full of jovial quips and loving Christmas with seeing Sonny, Arlo, Debbie and myself.. we were making good plans for this year and even greater ones for next Christmas.. Plus I have loads of fun memories of different times.. meeting our boys.. you with Grandad Harry and Debbie and Sonny.. 4 generations of family.. which doesn't happen very often..
You were always a kind gentle soul.. I never ever really saw you angry or upset.. you always looked to the positive side of each situation, problem, story, news moment.. just about anything really.. I think how you found happiness in simpler times..never really asking for much and showing people how it was much nicer looking after the things you had rather than the things you wanted. That is something I will take from you forever.
Now, also comes the wonderful subject of your daughter Debbie... so really I should say thank you for agreeing to let me marry her..I will never forget coming to your house to ask permission, welcomed with open arms and made to feel very much part of your family.. So with that in mind, please let me to you, that you have raised a wonderful family, and your kind daughter Debbie is doing an amazing job of which you would be so proud.. she has been a rock for Jenny and I can tell you, Jenny is in good hands and will be looked after... and I can say is that I will do my upmost to do the same for your daughter and your two grandsons..
Right now there is a "golden handshake" and in my palm is wishing you nothing but peace and serenity.
Your Son-in-law.. Tony.
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