Graham Rhys Carver (22 Jan 1952 - 9 Oct 2021)

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GrahamMacmillan Cancer Support

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GrahamSt Leonard's Hospice, York

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Location
York Cemetery Chapel 30 Cemetery Road York YO10 5AJ
Date
3rd Nov 2021
Time
11am
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In loving memory of Graham Rhys Carver who sadly passed away on 9th October 2021.

Graham faced his cancer with the same courage, positivity and humour that he did with everything else in life. No problem was ever insurmountable whether it be work, friends or family. We all loved him for his smile, humour and dependability. His 19 year career in the Royal Navy brought out his true potential and he was immensely proud to have served his country and to have achieved so much. He always looked forward to reminiscing at annual reunions with his old shipmates and is remembered for being fun to be with. As one of his old shipmates recently said, ‘Toasty (his naval nickname) was always a good run ashore’. This reputation carried on when he left the Navy and we moved to York in 1987 to start the next chapter of our lives. Graham was always a fun person to be with right until the end as I’m sure many friends and family will testify.

Graham loved to be around people, being involved in local community groups whether or not simply for enjoyment or roles such Treasurer, IT Problem Fixer or anything else he could help with. Despite all his many activities Graham always had time for family. He was a much loved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend and will leave a big void in all our lives.

The courage Graham showed in the last few weeks of his life would not have been so easy had it not been for the professionalism, kindness and support shown by the Macmillan Team and St Leonard’s Hospice at Home Team, not just to Graham but to the whole family. Me and our sons Andrew and Mark are so grateful we were able to be with him at home in his final hours. I have set up a Just Giving page for both these amazing charities for anybody who would like to make a donation. Thank you.

Robert Jowett donated in memory of Graham

One of the nicest man you ever meet, great contributor to quality of life for all.

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Sam Johnson donated £20 in memory of Graham
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Gillian Phillips donated £10 in memory of Graham

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Ann and Dave Jervis donated £10 in memory of Graham
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Julie Carver donated £287.15 in memory of Graham

The total cash donations from Graham’s funeral was an amazing £574.30. I’ve split this equally between both charities. Many thanks to everybody for all your generous donations.

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Julie Carver donated £287.15 in memory of Graham

Total cash donations from Graham’s funeral was an amazing £574.30. I’ve split this equally between both charities. Many thanks to everybody for your generous donations ❤️

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Charlotte Carpenter donated £25 in memory of Graham

Looking through all our many photos of Graham there is not one where he doesn’t have a huge grin on his face (& often a glass of something chilled!). So many happy memories together from sailing the Greek Islands together, rocking it in Hyde Park to the Warner break my dad tricked us all into! Graham, you brought love and laughter into the lives of everyone you met and we will miss you deeply. Lots of love, Charlotte & Joe xxx

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Charlotte Carpenter donated £25 in memory of Graham

Looking through all our many photos of Graham there is not one where he doesn’t have a huge grin on his face (& often a glass of something chilled!). So many happy memories together from sailing the Greek Islands together, rocking it in Hyde Park to the Warner break my dad tricked us all into! Graham, you brought love and laughter into the lives of everyone you met and we will miss you deeply. Lots of love, Charlotte & Joe xxx

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Terence and Rosemary Clark donated £20 in memory of Graham
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Haxby Helpers donated £20 in memory of Graham

Graham was a member of Haxby Helpers for only a short time but he made a great contribution to our organisation in many ways. He reorganised our telephone contact system, banking and insurance and in the process saved us much money. He also obtained a significant donation which was essential for us to continue our voluntary work in the community of Haxby and Wigginton. Of course, throughout he was his jovial, friendly and helpful self. We shall all greatly miss him. Thank you Graham

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Christine Barnes donated £20 in memory of Graham

I’ll always remember Graham being my sweet little brother who grew into a much loved and caring man to all who knew him. Christine xxx

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Paul Smith donated £20 in memory of Graham

Served with Graham on my first ship in the RN - HMS Cleopatra - RIP shipmate. Condolences to all his family and friends.

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Pauline Hebblethwaite donated in memory of Graham

In memory of Graham. we enjoyed walking with you.

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Dawn & Malcol Clark donated £30 in memory of Graham
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Geoff & Liz Ball donated £50 in memory of Graham

Initially met Graham through his financial company in Haxby and then through the
U3A. Always a cheerful soul and a privilege to know him.

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Malcolm & Susan Wragg donated £10 in memory of Graham
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David Hawkins donated £20 in memory of Graham
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David Hawkins wrote

Louise and I met Graham through Wigginton Bowling Club some years ago. We will always remember him for his wonderful sense of humour and kindness.
He will be missed by all and our thoughts are with Julie and family at this difficult time.

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Lyn and Ian Moore donated £20 in memory of Graham

We will miss your smile and humour. Rest in peace lovely neighbour xx

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Raymond Baggaley donated in memory of Graham

Top geezer, love Annie and Raymond xx

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Jean Baker donated £10 in memory of Graham
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Jean Baker donated £10 in memory of Graham

I’ll always remember your smiling face in the kitchen at the memorial hall with your pinny on x

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Michael & Sheila Grimes donated £50 in memory of Graham

Graham was such a good friend , who gave his time & advice so freely. He helped Sheila & I through some difficult times of bereavement & he fought his own battle so bravely. We will miss him greatly. So Graham Rest in Peace
Sheila & Michael

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Michael & Sheila Grimes donated £30 in memory of Graham

Graham was such a active mam in and around the community he will be missed terribly by so many people. So Graham Rest Now In Peace , Thank you to the Macmillan team , Sheila & Michael

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Dave Crane donated £10 in memory of Graham

A special man who did so much for others. Gone far too soon but will never be forgotten.

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Paul Twissell donated £20 in memory of Graham

Rest in peace Graham

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Chris, Mika & Haru Carver donated £20 in memory of Graham
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Roger & Wilma Carver donated £20 in memory of Graham

Gone but not forgotten.

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