On behalf of my dear brother John who will be sadly missed by all of the family, but never forgotten. Love Stan, Lynne and all the family xx
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John Brettell (6 Feb 1942 - 19 Aug 2021)
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In loving memory of John Ivan Brettell who sadly passed away on 19 August 2021 six months short of his 80th Birthday. John will be sadly missed by his devoted family, wife Barbara (happily married for nearly 60 years), daughter Amanda, son David, and grandchildren Matthew, Hannah, Anthony and Amy. Additionally by his brothers Geoff, Chris and Stan, extended family and close friends.
John was an inspirational man of his generation and he has been a great role model to his family who have learned a great deal from his strength of character over the years, and what it means to work hard for what you need for your family. A provider, generous and kind man who deserved the very best in return, which we as a family tried to do for him until we could do no more. John was diagnosed with cancer some six months ago, along with progressive heart failure we knew that limited time remained of his wonderful life. Close family cared for him at home together with the help of palliative nurse Mary. John will be sorely missed.
On the day of his funeral John will be leaving from his home in Hockley where he spent many happy times and memories during his lifetime. If you need to know the address please contact the family directly or via this website. The service is taking place in the West Chapel at Southend Crematorium. If you would like to send flowers we are using Hockley Florist – Flower Delivery by Christine’s of Hockley (www.christineathaynesbouquet.co.uk), or alternatively, and preferred, donations to Little Havens Children's Hospice would be appreciated. You are welcome to write something in a book of condolences at the Golf Club, or online if unable to attend. After the funeral you are warmly invited for refreshments and to share memories of John at his golf club: The Rayleigh Club, Hullbridge Road, Rayleigh, Essex, SS6 9QS.
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Cash donations of £130 yesterday from friends & family. £125 cheques to be posted to Little Havens Hospice from Sandra James & Barry Murphy. Thank you.
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In remembrance of John a neighbour and school friend.
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A privilege to have been friends for over 55 years God bless you John and all your lovely family
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Thinking of you & the family x
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John was a gentleman and a true friend he will be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him.Rest in peace John no more suffering time to catch up with all your friends who went before you.
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Our thoughts are with you all during this difficult time. John will always be within the hearts of those that loved him x
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Fortunate to have worked with John for many years, a great friend and always there to offer help and advice
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John at the bench at Trevor Tyler’s
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Thank you for sharing this picture. We have so few of when Dad was working.
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The Brettell's are a lovely family and have been my neighbours, friends and support for 40 years and I so share their and Barbara's so sad loss - John & myself became particularly close. On many occasions decisions we made between us were made without conversation - I enjoyed every moment spent with John and join with his family and all that knew him in saying we will miss you John
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Your life was a blessing your memory a treasure you are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure
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In memory of John Brettell. RIP John x
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With warm memories of Uncle John, who was kind, generous and open hearted. He will be missed by everyone who was lucky enough to know him. xx
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John, with Love x
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John at the bench at Trevor Tyler’s
Your life was a blessing your memory a treasure you are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure
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This photo always made me laugh, having the best time with a load of strangers at Songkran whilst we were all on the other side of the road. Miss you and love you Grandad xxx
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