Sue is my oldest friend. We met when we joined the Guides at the age of 11 and the, when she transferred to my school, every day for the next 5 years. we have always stayed in touch ever since and I now cannot believe I will never see her again. She is one of those strong silver threads through my life.
Such a wonderful person: very high standards of behaviour for herself but always kind and considerate to everyone else, from inept waiters to old schoolfriends; highly intelligent with a fiercely enquiring mind which never gives up; very well qualified and highly regarded in her profession yet one of the most modest people I know; with a wide range of other interesta outside her professional life from theatre, France, veteran cars, her many friends, tennis, skiing and gardening. For many years now Sue, Richard and I have met for dinner in Charlotte Street. Conversation never flags, we laugh a lot and I sometimes get help with little quandaries such as some tricky wording, a way of approaching a problem or ideas for a present for a godchild. One abiding memory is of a Girl Guide camp where we were set a range of personal challenges. One was to survive 60 minutes without uttering a word. Much harder than it sounds. Some girls gave up after multiple efforts. It took me three attempts. It took Sue just one. And not in order to beat other people but simply in order always to do her very best.
I still think and speak of Sue in the present tense which seems right somehow. After 66 years, I shall probably continue to do so.
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