Nigel Trevor Weeden (18 Sep 1961 - 20 Apr 2021)

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St Margaret's Church High Street Rainham, Kent ME8 8AN
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In loving memory of Nigel Trevor Weeden who sadly passed away on 20th April 2021, aged 59 years.

Floral tributes may be sent by 11.00 am on Monday 24th May 2021 and sent c/o John Weir Funeral Directors, 130-132 High Street, Rainham, Kent, ME8 8AR. Telephone No: 01634 373111. Alternatively, donations to Macmillan Cancer may be made via the Just Giving page.

Sadly Nigel lost his fight with kidney cancer and passed away peacefully with his loving partner and family beside him. As well as his partner Paula, he leaves behind his daughter, Louise, son, Adam, two grandchildren, Arthur and Elsie, and his mum, Marian.

Please view this tribute site to Nigel and leave any messages, memories and photos. The family would love to hear your stories and see any photos of Nigel.

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Andy Tyler donated £40 in memory of Nigel

Missing you Nige. Thoughts are with you all the time. Andy.

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  • I miss Nigel very much too Andy. Think of him every day. Doesn’t get easier. Thank you for the donation. Take care, Paula xx

    Posted by Paula on 22/04/2022 Report abuse
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Cerys Platt donated £20 in memory of Nigel

RIP Nigel. Our thoughts are with Paula and your family x

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Nigel Gale donated £50 in memory of Nigel

A gentleman to the end. I shall miss his dry sense of humour, just like mine. Its a very sad loss not only to you as a family but also to his work colleagues. My sincere thoughts are with you all.

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  • Thank you very much Nigel

    Posted by Paula on 28/05/2021 Report abuse
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Frances Hunt donated £20 in memory of Nigel

Thinking of you all and sending lots of love. Xxx

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  • Thank you Frances that’s so kind. Xx

    Posted by Helen on 25/05/2021 Report abuse
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Louise Gillon donated in memory of Nigel
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Ellie & Gal Collingridge donated £30 in memory of Nigel

Thinking of you all. Nigel was such a lovely man and he will be missed by many xxx

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Claire Cudd donated £20 in memory of Nigel

Thinking of Paula and all of Nigels family at this tough time. I may have never have met Nigel but I could see how much happiness and love he brought to Paula's life. Rest in peace Nigel xx

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  • Thank you so much Claire. Very kind of you xx

    Posted by Paula on 24/05/2021 Report abuse
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Stuart Thomas donated £100 in memory of Nigel

Had the privilege of being Nigel’s manager for a lot of years. Fantastic worker and friend, who the team and myself, will fondly remember and miss.

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  • Stuart, thank you for your donation, kind words and support

    Posted by Paula on 24/05/2021 Report abuse
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Mike Lloyd donated £50 in memory of Nigel

My thoughts are with family at this sad time.

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Timothy Gough donated £50 in memory of Nigel
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Wendy Tidd donated £20 in memory of Nigel

Love from wendy & Keith xx

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  • Thank you so much Wendy & Keith xx

    Posted by Paula on 24/05/2021 Report abuse
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Wendy Tidd wrote

Thinking of you all today Paula, I hope all goes well ❤️❤️❤️

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Beverley Ellis donated £10 in memory of Nigel

Thinking of you today and always and the love and happy memories you brought into my friends life. Your loving family and friends you have left behind but we will never forget you. Taken to young x

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  • Thank you Bev xx

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Nigel in the Lake District 2005 - One of our lovely  holidays together.

Nigel in the Lake District 2005 - One of our lovely holidays together.

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Vicki Wake donated £50 in memory of Nigel

We are so sorry for your loss. Nigel was such a lovely man and we have such lovely memories of him. If you need anything please reach out to us. Lots of love always Vicki, Terri, Simon, George and Rosie xxxx

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Mel Graham donated in memory of Nigel
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Mel Graham wrote

We were very lucky to have Nigel (and his family) as our neighbour for about 16 years. He was a lovely man, always helpful and kind, with a great sense of humour. I used to see him in his brass band on occasions, as the band often performed at fetes etc before or after the choir I am in. Huge condolences to his loved ones, he will be truly missed xx

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Helen Weeden wrote

30 years we were together ,if I recall correctly I was your first girlfriend. Your love & passion for music didn’t leave you much time for anything else. You used to say “ you get less time for murder”. I don’t think we did a bad job if I say so myself in bringing up our two children Louise & Adam. I’m pleased you saw them grow up to be the lovely considerate adults that they are both today. We were both so proud of them. As you really would be right now.
It just a shame the pandemic put pay to you spending more time with & getting to know our grandchildren Arthur & Elsie much better. I know we weren’t together in the end but you did & always will have a special place in my heart.
I’m so pleased you met Paula & could make each other happy which you deserved to be.
Sleep in peace Nigel. Taken far too soon.

Helen xx

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Karen Andrews donated £10 in memory of Nigel

I didn’t know you that well but RIP Nigel

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  • Thank you Karen xx

    Posted by Paula on 22/05/2021 Report abuse
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Steve Gower donated £20 in memory of Nigel

A lovely bloke. Rest easy my friend.

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  • Thank you very much Steve

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Christopher Cleverley donated £100 in memory of Nigel

You were a great guy and will be sadly missed.
RIP

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  • Thank you Chris. Very kind of you

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Helen Weeden donated £100 in memory of Nigel

Rest in Peace Nigel.
Taken far too soon.

Helen & Eddie

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Hayley & Chris O'Driscoll donated £30 in memory of Nigel

We are so glad that we had the pleasure of meeting you but mostly we are so happy that Paula met you and you were able to share lots of special times together. You made her so happy and she wouldn't have made it through the last year without your cooking, treats, hairdressing skills and laughter xx

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  • Thank you Chris & Hayley for your lovely words and donation xx

    Posted by Paula on 19/05/2021 Report abuse
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Wendy and Peter Saich donated £50 in memory of Nigel

Such a sad loss of a lovely son -in-law,good dad to Louise and Adam.
Nigel will be missed by so many people.God Bless.

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  • Thank you ❤

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  • Thank you for your kind donation in Nigel’s memory Wendy & Peter x

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Emma Twyman donated £5 in memory of Nigel

Will miss your smilet face, God bless

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  • We are so glad that we met you but more importantly we are so happy that Paula had you in her life and you both had some wonderful times together. You made her so happy and she wouldn't have made it through the last year without your cooking, treats, hairdressing skills and laughter xx

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Scotland 2017

Scotland 2017

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Nigel’s “ special glasses”

Nigel’s “ special glasses”

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