Really bitter-sweet seeing all these photos of Matt living his life. As his cousin, my main memories of him are from 29-30 years ago, when as an annoying and weird teenager I stayed at his family home during the Summer holidays.
I remember hanging-out with him and his gf at the time, in his bedroom, and being fascinated by the cigarette packets he’d painstakingly placed at equal intervals around the top of the wall all round the room, making a unique border. He was enigmatic, quirky, cool, slightly aloof in my eyes.
Since then, I’ve only seen him twice, at each of our grand parents funerals. I feel sad that I didn’t try harder to be in touch with Matt, and my ego is a little dented that he didn’t think I was cool enough to hang out with him, but I’m glad he found his tribe. And his bond with his brothers will always be there.
RIP cuz Matt x
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