Irene Mary Allsop (15 Feb 1932 - 27 Mar 2021)

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Location
Mansfield Crematorium Derby Road Mansfield NG18 5BJ
Date
26th Apr 2021
Time
3.15pm
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The world became a better place on 15th Feb 1932, when Irene Mary came into the world, second born daughter to Arthur and Adine Johnson in Sherwood St, Mansfield Woodhouse 

Irene – Mum, mum-in-law, sister, grandma, great-grandma, sister-in-law, friend, many things to those who knew and loved her.

Growing up in Doncaster, the location of employment for her father Arthur and mother Adine, like many of her generation, life was unremarkable, without privilege and advantage, when, still as a young child, sadness also paid a visit to the Johnson family when Irene, aged only 2, lost her elder sister, Jean, aged 5, to the pandemic of the day – Diptheria

The family faith in god, surely questioned at this sad time, was happily restored when mum’s younger brother, David, was born in July 1937 

In 1940, aged 8, mum moved into her parents Beck lane address in Mansfield, she began her education at Skegby primary school and then moved up to Station Rd secondary school, where, in 1946, at 14 years of age, with unremarkable exam results and qualifications she left and began her employment book binding at Linneys of Mansfield, followed by jobs with Grooms, and Clark and Orton in the hosiery industry, providing for herself, and, on occasion, for her younger brother, David.

In the Summer of “51” Mum enjoyed her first holiday with her friend in Blackpool, she so enjoyed this – she accompanied her family to the same destination the following year.

Then in 1956, the unremarkable was overwritten by extraordinary and exceptional, when mum realised the joy of seeing the first of her first of 4 sons – David, born in Jan 1956. The pressure and financial constraints showing little signs of relenting as she later in April 1958, gave birth to John, followed in 1963 by Robert, and lastly, and no less lovingly to Paul in 1964. 

Extraordinary, because, as a single mum, throughout our teen years, and into adulthood she took full care and brave responsibility for all 4 sons.

Exceptional, as no son had ever bought any trouble or disappointment to darken her doorstep. (Although John may wish to say something on this in a moment) 

On the contrary, mum enjoyed a full life, surrounded by the humour, loyalty and joy that only a loving family can provide, all bringing something different to the party, to fill her heart with pride.

Throughout her life Irene has always put her boys first and took part-time week-end work at Landers bakery and then became part of the cleaning team at Mansfield BT telephone exchange – add to this that most weeks she had 15 shirts to wash and iron, due to the career paths of her boys -forcing little “Me” time for mum, with the addition of domestic slavery, but, all done, with love, and without complaining, anything for her 4 sons 

Over the years and just before she passed – Mum said many times how proud she was of all her family, they came before everything else, 4 sons,2 daughter in laws, Julie and Yvonne, David’s partner Jane, Paul’s partner Jacquie, 6 Grandchildren, Laura, her firstborn grandchild, who is watching the service live online from Australia, her sister Amy, Brother and sister Alex and Anna, sisters Natalie and Emma and 9 great grandchildren, Lydia, Austin, Jacob, Noah, Clara, Lottie, Evie, Ruby and Vinny - a fine and lasting future legacy- few weekends passed by without mum enjoying some family company –
I was loved

 

       
In Memory of Irene Mary Allsop who sadly passed away on 27th March 2021

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Rob and Yvonne Allsop donated £50 in memory of Irene

Forever in our hearts

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Rob Allsop posted a picture
Rogues gallery.....I think we turned out ok mum xxx

Rogues gallery.....I think we turned out ok mum xxx

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Naomi Dexter donated £20 in memory of Irene

Xxx you will be deeply missed by all ; wonderful lady inside and out xxx

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Julie Allsop wrote

I will miss you Irene every day, you welcomed me into your family and loved me like your daughter, if I could have chosen my mother in law it would have been you.... how lucky was I! Rest in peace forever in my heart......Julie xx

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Dora Cooley donated £20 in memory of Irene

Rest in peace Irene memories remain in the heart forever, I will miss our friendship

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Gillian Dove donated in memory of Irene

A remarkable lady, the kettle was always on when you visited xx

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Natalie Allsop wrote

Such a calm "root" of our family. Don't think I ever heard her shout (apart from one meal as a child and dad wouldn't let me have a pudding as I hadn't eaten all my dinner and she bellowed across the pub "just let her have an ice cream Robert, you only live once". Think I'll watch seven brides for seven brothers later and have a little sing-a-long for you nana xx

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  • Thanks for your kind words and thoughts. She was loved and will be missed for all the things she did, she was the the family rock xx

    Posted by Yvonne on 27/04/2021 Report abuse
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Amy Green wrote

The most unassuming lady who just cracked on with life - whatever it threw her way. Proving to us all everyday her resilience and determination. Her strength is the thing I will remember the most about her. Love you always Gran. Love Amy, Phil and Lottie.

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  • That was our mum, gran she just rolled with life and whatever life threw her way, She was loved x

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Laura Walker wrote

There was never a stronger, more inspiring and kind lady. It is with such great pride I got to call her Grandma. Thank you for the hundreds of leg tickles "psss psss psss" and memories made with love and laughter. You will forever be in my thoughts and heart. Love always. xxx

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  • Whilst you could not be there, your love for our mum shone thru. She was loved by all and will be sadly missed. Take care and see you soon xx

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Alex Allsop wrote

You will be forever missed and never forgotten will always remember the good times we had and miss ur toast and am so proud to call you my Nan love you now and always xxxx

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Anna Long wrote

I feel privileged to be able to call you my Nan. I will treasure all the amazing and special memories we had. I'm so glad Jacob, Noah and Clara got to see what a special Great Nanny you are. Love and miss you always xxx

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Susan Colbourn donated £20 in memory of Irene

In loving memory of a very special lady, she will be sadly missed by all her family and those that knew her best.

God bless Irene ... Susan.

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  • Thankyou Susan for donating ..... along with your lovely words for our special Mum it means a lot Love from Paul and the boys xx

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Pamela Davies donated £30 in memory of Irene

Always remembered and loved, Irene will be sadly missed by family and friends. Until we meet again. All my Love from Pam

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  • Thankyou Pam for donating ... and your lovely kind words it means so much Lots of love and see you soon .....Paul and the boys xx

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Dee Brindley donated £50 in memory of Irene
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Dee Brindley wrote

I feel so privileged to have known the lovely Irene and to witness just how proud she was of all her lovely family x You are all in my thoughts and prayers bless each and everyone of you x The sun will always shine on you Irene so keep on smiling and rest in peace lovely lady Xxxx

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  • Thankyou Dee .. for your lovely message and your donation it means a lot in memory of our special mum love Paul and the boys xxxx

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Samantha Billings donated £35 in memory of Irene

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  • Thankyou Sam Molly and family ... its very kind of you all .. Love from all the Boys xx

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