Benjamin Mark Shaw (29 Jul 2009 - 23 Mar 2021)

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Location
St Mary's Church Valley Road Fawkham Longfield Kent DA3 8ER
Date
20th Apr 2021
Time
3pm
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Gravesend Crematorium Gravesend Road Shorne DA12 3JH
Date
20th Apr 2021
Time
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In loving memory of Benjamin Mark Shaw who sadly passed away on 23rd March 2021 after a short but determined fight against a rare paediatric brain cancer.

Benjamin was diagnosed with a rare brain tumour known as DIPG last August. He underwent two brain surgeries and a course of radiotherapy. He had gained a place at Dartford Grammar School and was so determined to be there for the first day that he did so and continued to attend throughout the radiotherapy and beyond. In December we had the devastating news that the tumours had spread to his spine. Benjamin never stopped fighting no matter what and he was the bravest person we have ever met. He passed away peacefully, at home, surrounded by family.

The funeral will be held on 20 April 2021 at St Mary's Church, Fawkham, followed by a cremation at Thamesview Crematorium. Sadly, due to Covid-19 restrictions, attendance is limited though we are hoping to share a recording of elements of the service.

In lieu of flowers, we would prefer donations to be made in Benjamin's honour. We will be supporting two charities at the funeral and in the coming months. Firstly, Abbie's Army (https://www.abbiesarmy.co.uk) who are a small brain tumour research charity focused on making progress in the fight to find a cure for DIPG tumours - Amanda, the founder, sadly lost her own daughter to DIPG and works tirelessly to support work and resources across the UK. Secondly, The Royal Marsden Cancer Charity (https://www.royalmarsden.org). The team at The Royal Marsden, Sutton supported Benjamin and the wider family throughout his treatment with the utmost care and compassion - the work they do is truly invaluable in the hardest of circumstances and we can never thank them enough.

We have been thankful for and humbled by the support we have received since Benjamin's passing, but if you would like to upload any comments, photos, memories, or stories to this page, that would mean a great deal to us as we do everything we can to remember the joy that Benjamin brought to us all.

Dearest Benjamin - our very own superhero.

David Osimade donated £10 in memory of Benjamin
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Jessica Stearn wrote

Benjamin was a lovely young boy who once appeared at Sutton at hone primary , he was always kind and helping around the school , we miss u , rest in peace x

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Helen Newstead donated £40 in memory of Benjamin

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RGA UK wrote

RGA UK have made a bank transfer of £1,000 to the Royal Marsden as our employee, Sandra Said, and her son, Michael wanted to recognise their valued work and support. Apologies we cant donate via this JustGiving page, but we know this donation in Benjamin's honour will be put to good use by them.

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  • Thank you so much! That’s amazing! 🧡🧡

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Benjamin, I will love and miss you forever. I’m so lucky I got to be your big sister and you will forever hold the most special place in my heart 🧡🧡I will treasure our memories forever and I promise to make you proud. Sleep tight my angel, I love you xx

Benjamin, I will love and miss you forever. I’m so lucky I got to be your big sister and you will forever hold the most special place in my heart 🧡🧡I will treasure our memories forever and I promise to make you proud. Sleep tight my angel, I love you xx

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Lauren Maddison donated £5 in memory of Benjamin

My sincerest condolences. I hope you can take solace and pride in the immense positive impact Benjamin has inspired, and I wish you all the love in beginning your journey of healing as a family.

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Gemma Rayner donated in memory of Benjamin

Dear Sam, Mark and Family I’m so sorry for the loss of your gorgeous boy ❤️ all my love to you always xxx

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Mark Shaw donated £20 in memory of Benjamin

In loving memory of Benjamin - donation from Kirstie May

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Mark Shaw donated £60 in memory of Benjamin

In loving memory of Benjamin - Donation on behalf of Fran Adkins

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Rose Edwards donated £10 in memory of Benjamin

In memory of Benjamin Shaw

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Andrew Neeson donated £50 in memory of Benjamin
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Tina Solliss donated £10 in memory of Benjamin

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Nicola Tremain donated £100 in memory of Benjamin

Benjamin - you were taken from us far too soon .
I love you and will miss you every day xx

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Nicola Tremain donated £20 in memory of Benjamin

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Mark Battison wrote

So sad to hear of this terrible news.
Love all the Battison’s

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Teresa Barton wrote

Such a wonderful brave young boy

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Linklater Opticians donated £500 in memory of Benjamin
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Malcolm Frodsham wrote

Thinking of you at this terrible time

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Mark Shaw donated £30 in memory of Benjamin

In memory of Benjamin, from Pauline Hale

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