Retnambal Krishna Rao (10 Nov 1932 - 21 Feb 2021)

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In loving memory of Retnambal Krishna Rao.

Retnambal was first and foremost a loving, supportive wife to her husband of over 50 years.​

She was born and raised in India, meeting her future husband, Krishna, under tragic circumstances. They fell in love and were married within a few years, celebrating that love with the birth of a baby girl, Ranjini. Retnambal’s devotion to Krishna and his work took her all over the world – to Hawaii, California and then later to settle in London where Retnambal also worked as a research technician in prominent universities.​

She became a grandmother at the age of 50 and was fortunate to have 3 grandchildren who adored her. She showed her love for them through her food.​

Retnambal and Krishna travelled all over the world but never forgot their roots, visiting family and friends in India as often as they could.​

When Krishna passed away in 2006, Retnambal’s strength and love for her remaining family grew. She continued to visit India every year, celebrating others’ good fortune.​

Retnambal was fortunate to see her youngest granddaughter get married and to meet her great granddaughter.​

However, at the age of 88, her health deteriorated rapidly and she sadly passed away in her sleep on 21 February 2021, in the same hospital where her husband had died.​

Retnambal was an amazing woman who will be missed by all who knew her. We take comfort in the knowledge that she will be welcomed by lost loved ones and reunited with her husband, which was her only parting wish.​

She leaves behind her daughter, 3 grandchildren and her great granddaughter.​

Maya Sandhu wrote

A candle lit for you today, Amma, a month since you said your final goodbye. I hope you are not only at peace and resting now but reunited with Bava and having a marvellous time - you are both forever in our thoughts. Yours always, Maya 💕💗💞

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Jaya Sandhu donated £50 in memory of Retnambal

We hope that this small donation helps other people struggling with the effects of ageing.

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Sally Bishop donated £20 in memory of Retnambal

In memory of Retna, a wonderful neighbour and friend.

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Ranjini Sandhu donated £280 in memory of Retnambal

A small donation in honour of my Amma, Retnambal. Om Shanti 🙏

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Nandini Sankar wrote

We will always cherish our fond memories with you at Valiasala during your yearly visit to India. We will sadly miss you dear
Retnakka! Our Pranamams!!

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Sangeetha Goswami wrote

Will miss you very much, Doddamma - your grace, your wit and the twinkle in your eyes. You will remain in my heart as a lovely memory
You have been and will always be one of my role models for being strong, resilient and having an independent opinion - thank you for that.
I am glad we celebrated your life and not mourned your passing yesterday because I think that is the kind of person you were. Rest in peace.
With you in prayers Renji-akka, Maya, Gobind and Jaya.

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Maya Sandhu donated £880 in memory of Retnambal

A little something - to help others, for each completed year of my Amma's beautiful life. Age UK's information and services helped guide us through some of the challenges faced by the elderly, for which we are ever grateful.

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Maya Sandhu wrote

To my dearest Amma,

HE saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be
So HE requested Bava put his arms around you​
And whisper "Come to me."

With often tearful eyes I came to see you
But you were slowly slipping away
And though I loved you more than words
I couldn't help you enough for you to stay.

Your golden heart eventually stopped beating
Your tired body put to rest
HE broke my heart to prove to me
HE only takes the best.

And when that Sunday I saw you in your final sleep,
So peaceful and free from pain
I could not wish you back,
To neither suffer any longer nor ever again.

To HIS garden you are surely bound,
There to sit with my Bava and the rest of the very best,
With all my love, and yours, always - Maya
Please now be calm, relax and rest.

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Raji Balram wrote

Om Shanthi🙏

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Will miss you a lot. Love you.RIP

Will miss you a lot. Love you.RIP

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Minh Nguyen wrote

Thanks to Ranji’s family - it’s a beautiful service of remembrance to your wonderful mom

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Minh Nguyen donated £40 in memory of Retnambal

Celebrating a marvellous life of a wonderful lady. Let’s toast with her favourite champagne

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Jillian Humpage wrote

Love from Jill and family

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Saroja Ammukutty wrote

We express our deep condolences on the sad demise of RetnaMami
May her soul rest in peace
Saroja and family. Trivandrum

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Anuradha Rao wrote

I will miss you all my life. I will miss my birthday cards from you . I am sure you are happy to join all lost loved ones there. Stay Happy wherever you are !

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Mahesh Rao wrote

Rest in peace Retnakka... U will be missed... By all of us at home... We can only pray u have gone to a better place now

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Nirver&Cheryl Sandhu donated £100 in memory of Retnambal

In memory of Retnambal . Rest in peace.

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