These Old Walls by Nanci Griffith
If these old walls, if these old walls could speak
Of things that they remember well –
Stories and faces dearly held,
A couple in love living week to week, rooms full of laughter,
If these walls could speak.
If these halls, hallowed halls could talk
These would have a tale to tell –
Parties and people raising hell,
Children playing at hide and seek from floor to rafter,
If these walls could speak.
They would tell you that I’m sorry for being cold and blind and weak,
They would tell you that it’s only that I have a stubborn streak.
If these walls could speak.
If these old fashioned window panes were eyes
I guess they would have seen it all,
Each little tear and sigh and footfall,
And every dream that we came to seek or follow after,
If these walls could speak.
They would tell you that I owe you more than I could ever pay.
Here’s someone who really loves you. Don’t ever go away –
Is what these walls would say if they were not so meek.
If these old walls could speak.
Nancy Gilman (10 Nov 1924 - 7 Feb 2021)
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Annie (Nancy) Gilman – 10th November 1924 – 7th February 2021, aged 96 years. Although to most of her friends she is known as Nancy she was named Annie.
Nancy was born to Hilda and Ernest Crich of Burn Street, Ilkeston, Derbyshire. Nancy was the first of 3 children to Hilda and Ernest. Nancy’s father worked down the mine and her mother worked as a machinist.
Nancy became a sister on 10th January 1926 at age 2, to Kenneth and again on 4th April 1929, age 5, to Edna.
In 1944, she met her beloved Jack whilst visiting a neighbour’s house, as Jack was an apprentice painter and decorator, and he was undertaking some work there. It was love at first sight for both of them. Their love for each other survived the war and once Jack had returned from Egypt, they married on 21st November 1946.
1948 saw the birth of Nancy’s first child, John. Her second child, Alan was born in 1950, and finally Anne in 1954
As well as looking after her own three children, her home, her husband and her father, Annie also offered to look after her sister’s child, Paul, so that her sister could return to work. Annie spent a vast majority of her life caring for her family and friends, often putting her own desires on hold.
1977 saw the birth of her first grandchild Zoe, followed by Eleanor in 1979, twins Richard and Wade in 1982 and finally Dominic in 1983.
In 1987, Nancy and Jack celebrated their Ruby Wedding; they had a party at their house and all family members were invited.
Very sadly on 10th December 1995, she lost her true love and life was never quite the same for her again.
August 1999 gave this wonderful woman a new title - great grandmother as Fane, her first great grandchild was born followed by Cameron in August 2002 then her first great granddaughter, Errin, in November 2003 and finally her last great grandson, Theo in 2018.
Another sad loss was to follow, and Nancy lost her dear sister, Edna in 2003 and her brother, Ken in 2017.
At the grand age of 96, Nancy had outlived most of her family and friends. She lived a simple but fulfilled life as her life revolved around her family and friends. She was a devoted wife, dedicated mother, caring auntie and an outstanding grandmother and a doting great grandmother – she was and always will be one of the best and will never be forgotten and we are all very lucky to have shared our lives with her.
We welcome you all to share your thoughts of Nancy and photos on this site. Please free to donate, light a candle, or join us for the funeral on the 8th March at 11.35 remotely. The link will be posted on here before the day.
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