Margaret Lilian Bowen-West (5 Aug 1938 - 26 Jan 2021)
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- Location
- Epsom Cemetery Ashley Road Epsom KT18 5BP
- Date
- 12th Mar 2021
- Time
- 1pm
*Attending the funeral on 12th March is by invitation from Tracey & Robert only as we are strictly limited to 30 mourners*
**St Anns Church now have live streaming - so Mum's Funeral will be live streamed**
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClLFUlW-UooFpulE1a9jbnA/videos?view=57
Margaret Lilian Bowen-West, born on 5th August 1938 at 26 Howards Road, West Ham, London.
Mum was the second daughter to Robert Charles James Southwood, a house decorator, and Lilian Margaret Southwood nee Frewin all residing at 103 Prince Regent Lane, Plaistow, London.
A little later the third daughter arrived to complete the family; Angela, Margaret & Barbara.
During the war Bob was on active service and Lilian and the girls were evacuated to Westbury, Wiltshire. They were initially billeted in the vicarage but over time moved to their own home, Brookhaven, just outside the churchyard that backed on to the brook. The girls would reminisce over the years about their church cleaning antics; Angela, a good pianist, playing the Harry Lime theme on the church organ whilst Mum & Barbara both with dusters tied to their feet would skate round the church to polish the floors!
Once in their late teens the family moved back to London, but Mum was appointed a post to care for and support the boarders in the local school in Westbury where the girls had attended themselves. Bob and Lilian agreed and so for a few years Mum resided at the school and worked there.
After a few years Mum moved to be with the family in London. Mum got a clerking job in an office at Hyde Park Corner and it was here that Mum caught the attention of a young man. After a few walks along the river, cups of tea in Joe Lyons Cafes Margaret & Peter (Dad) had their first date to see The Boyfriend at The Wyndhams Theatre on 6th May 1960.
On 24th February 1962 at St Patricks Church, Plumstead Peter West Bowen-West, an oil installation supervisor, married Margaret Lilian Southwood, a fashion house clerk.
This day started their married life and their travels to many homes in the UK as Dad was promoted through what was Shell-Mex & BP which then split, and he worked for BP Oil until retirement.
They lived in Clapham, Gravesend, Swansea, Bristol, Fareham, Cheam and then Banstead.
Their daughter Tracey Margaret Bowen-West was born in Gravesend.
Their son Robert Lygon Bowen-West was born in Swansea.
Mum was a housewife. Both Mum & Dad were known as a couple who would always welcome you to their home, and when they did you were well fed and watered, you often stayed over and frequently joined them for games of bridge, scrabble, north sea or carpet golf!
Whilst in Cheam they enjoyed travelling together across the globe once Dad retired and celebrated both Tracey’s marriage to Chris and Robert’s marriage to Caroline. They then downsized and moved to Banstead where they welcomed their two grandsons Max and Mathew.
Mum enjoyed many years playing both badminton and tennis at least three times a week and loved to go to watch tennis at Eastbourne and Wimbledon, where she went with Dad and friends. Mum’s other passion was gardening which she spent a lot of time over and was immensely proud of.
Since Dads death in 2006 Mum gave up playing tennis and badminton and took on the church garden at St Anns which flourished under her green fingers.
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