From the Kent Active Retirement Fellowship
Pamela Ives (19 Dec 1931 - 26 Dec 2020)
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In loving memory of Pamela Louisa Ives who sadly passed away on 26th December 2020.
Pam was born in Lambeth, within the sound of Bow Bells so a true cockney, but Welsh roots with LLewhellyn as her maiden name, before moving to North Cheam. She learnt the piano and had a love of music and could also play the accordion. When she finished school she went to secretarial college and learnt Pitman and Typing going to work for Hancock and Scots, Solicitors where she meet Dad at the age of 16. They married in 1953 and lived in Croydon moving to South Norwood where they had Graham and then moved to Rolvenden Road, where both Sue and Colin were born.
Pam was a member of the Women’s Guild, involved with Christian Aid, help set up junior church as well attending other church groups, helping with Fete’s, and other events. She also supported Ken in his roles of server and Churchwarden at All Saint's Church Frindsbury. Every year Pam would host a meal for the sacristans which they loved.
Pam spent many years running a Guide group, helping and supporting many girls through their teenage years. When she left, she received many cards of appreciation for her dedication.
Pam returned to work, working for Medway Council in their legal department until she retired.
Pam and Ken spent their retirement travelling the world including South Africa, New Zealand, Corfu and America. They also travelled throughout the UK, continuing to support All Saints church in various roles.
Pam and Ken moved to Tonbridge in 2019, into sheltered housing due to Pam's health where Pam lived until her death.
Pam leaves behind Ken Her husband, 3 children, 6 grandchildren. and 3 great grandchildren.
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![We will miss Nanny and her giggles. We always enjoyed when Annabelle pranced around on FaceTime doing all the filters as Nanny could have watched her for hours! So glad she got to have some time with Annabelle and to enjoy her too. Sending lots of love.x](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/ZIxD14UtRPv1nSdMfj7L2jP2PwE=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/42748612-4842-4a17-9534-a4a7d7568c11.jpeg)
We will miss Nanny and her giggles. We always enjoyed when Annabelle pranced around on FaceTime doing all the filters as Nanny could have watched her for hours! So glad she got to have some time with Annabelle and to enjoy her too. Sending lots of love.x
![Pamela Ives](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/qBCvzaK8t7c65QkiZUqU7qjw-wY=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/be1f355f-0370-46ac-b1e7-07910d06bb0d.jpg)
![We will miss Nanny and her giggles. We always enjoyed when Annabelle pranced around on FaceTime doing all the filters as Nanny could have watched her for hours! So glad she got to have some time with Annabelle and to enjoy her too. Sending lots of love.x](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/ZIxD14UtRPv1nSdMfj7L2jP2PwE=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/42748612-4842-4a17-9534-a4a7d7568c11.jpeg)
We will miss Nanny and her giggles. We always enjoyed when Annabelle pranced around on FaceTime doing all the filters as Nanny could have watched her for hours! So glad she got to have some time with Annabelle and to enjoy her too. Sending lots of love.x
![Many happy memories of Pam from various holidays from 1970 through to this last visit to Cape Town in 2015. Thoughts and prayers are with Ken, Graham, Sue, Colin and all the families. RIP Pam.](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/VIUEnm8XyV3ciYN_XMWfrqQtphU=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/a50f9fdb-334f-4b12-a355-32c453a79f54.jpg)
Many happy memories of Pam from various holidays from 1970 through to this last visit to Cape Town in 2015. Thoughts and prayers are with Ken, Graham, Sue, Colin and all the families. RIP Pam.
![Many memories of Pam going back to various holidays, from 1970 through to this last visit in Cape Town in 2015. Thoughts and prayers are with Ken, Graham, Sue, Colin and all the family. RIP Pam.](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/sBSA97U97z8xgIcJoUMfg_jtiYM=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/eac27893-d25f-411e-b384-e635d66eafdb.jpg)
Many memories of Pam going back to various holidays, from 1970 through to this last visit in Cape Town in 2015. Thoughts and prayers are with Ken, Graham, Sue, Colin and all the family. RIP Pam.
![We fondly remember having the pleasure of seeing Pam at many special occasions for the Phillips family. She was always so charming to be with and clearly had tremendous love & affection for her family. She will be sadly missed.](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/bIToSDdQIwTRFfHADwXEqrre-iA=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/f6ab3780-6448-43e2-a3f9-da6658a658e2.jpg)
We fondly remember having the pleasure of seeing Pam at many special occasions for the Phillips family. She was always so charming to be with and clearly had tremendous love & affection for her family. She will be sadly missed.
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