Darren Rainey (16 Oct 1977 - 11 Jan 2021)

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In loving memory of Darren Rainey who sadly passed away on
11th January 2021.

Darren will be remembered for being a fantastic playful & loving dad
who adored Harley, Nevaeh, Leyla & Mason who were all close to him. His children were so important to him & he loved taking the young ones out bringing them back caked in mud!

Darren also had a beautiful girlfriend Mellissa in his life who had the same generous, gentle & loving personality. Melissa always had Darren’s best interest at heart & they had so much fun together with Melissa booking great weekends away for them & days out with Harley & Nevaeh. They both shared with me how much they cared & loved each other that they were soul mates.

Darren lived with support from wonderful people who knew him well. He was shown respect, love & care & he always said he wanted to live in his home with their support forever! They are amazing, generous spirited, naturally caring people - thank you to everyone of you.

We must remember Darren for all the great times we had with him. Darren is one of those rare special people you meet in life who loves people & always puts others ahead of himself. He’d light a room up too with his presence, commanding an audience for his jokes, poems & artwork - amazingly talented!

Darren had two brothers Stuart & Shaun (nephew/nieces Josh, Kirsten & Jess) as well as a sister Amanda & her daughter his niece Taylor. He loved them all even though they weren’t all in regular contact with him. He has 5 uncles an aunt & 8 second cousins, all scattered over England, Ireland & with one in Oz.

Darren originally came from Folkestone, Kent & he lost his father when he was a toddler & his mother 9 years ago. Darren would phone his mother regularly & visit he felt a great loss at her passing. It is hoped that Darren will have the love of both parents Chris & Brian with him in heaven.

On a sadder note Re the funeral :
Due to the current restrictions on numbers regrettably, Darren's funeral will be by invite only & it’s important for all attending to follow Covid rules and stay in their bubbles keeping their distance in the chapel.

We are so sorry we cannot invite everyone whose expressed a wish to attend & hope that you can watch via the webcast. Sadly numbers are limited to 30.

Leann Fox wrote

Happy heavenly birthday Darren, I miss ur smile, cheeky laugh. The kids love u and miss u so much, their sending u up ur bday balloons , with their heart filled messages xx rip till I meet u again

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Janet Rush wrote

My dearest Darren
Happy Birthday Hun!
Miss you so much & wish you were still here with us. I hope you are still dancing with the angels, entertaining everyone with your jokes & wanting to make everyone happy.
I’m sure mum, dad, nan & grandad are all with you giving you all of the love you deserve.
I love you s much!
Aunty Jan
XxxxX

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Leann Fox wrote

Darren it’s ur birthday tomorrow, I can’t believe u’ll be 47. I can hear ur voice, like ur here . Saying “ I’m nearly 50 , an old man “. I wish u Wer here , with us celebrating ur birthday. I miss u and the kids miss u so much, more than u know. We all love u always xx

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Janet Rush wrote

Still missing you dearly! Yesterday I had a psychic experience whereby this great sadness came over me & with tears & I was remembering you, your mum Chris & I just wanted you back in my life to be near you, to share things with you. It was like you were there but I couldn’t have you.
Hey one day in the future - give me time though!
Love you all… Darren, Chris, mum & dad xxxx

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Leann Fox wrote

Darren, I can’t believe it’s 3 yrs.
Harley and Nevaeh are growing so fast .
I see u in them every day. They love u so much , miss u more than anything.

Mason and Layla are doing well in uni big adults now. They miss u too and live u .

Till I see u again xx

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Nicola Carey wrote

Darran I was shocked to learn recently of your passing... I know that you are going to be missed by so many... it was only by chance that I got to meet you way back approx 2003 through Rob and Ash and you were such a lovely kind and friendly person with a fantastic sense of humour and such a love for life even though you had your issues... fly high angel... my condolences to your family I am so sorry for your loss x

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They love you so so much xxx

They love you so so much xxx

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Leann Fox wrote

a whole year has passed by and it’s still very difficult. Was our daughters birthday on Wednesday she was 10. She had a great day but later had a tear for her daddy. Harley doing well but misses u terribly. Mason and Layla are well, doing good. We all miss you Darren, the children love you always xxxx we’ll meet again

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Jan Rush wrote

Darren you were in my thoughts & we had a chat all day yesterday whilst hiking. I felt some of your pain, I’m sure it was so much more than any of us could ever imagine, but I’ll now focus on what a fab nephew/man I had in my life. I thoroughly enjoyed the trips out we had, your humour & love and care for others especially your children. Know you were deeply loved & missed by so many - until we meet again. Love Aunty Jan xxxx
PS Teddy’s fine & misses you too!

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MR B wrote

Thinking of you today Darren. You left us too soon. You'll always be remembered, deep in our hearts, and very much missed. The best of mates. Fly high with the angels, and leap above the clouds! Keep shining fella! x

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Krystal Maze wrote

Thinking of you all today, family, friends (Ash) especially and of course you Darren. We know you’re always with us, as death is just another phase in life that just represents the body. The soul is infinite. Fly with the angels xxxxxxxx

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Melissa Bird wrote

Love you xx

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Aunty Janet Rush wrote

Darren darling... we had a good close 3 final years together. I love you dearly dear nephew & you will hold a v close place in my heart forever! I love you dearly, I miss everything about you; your smile, your jokes, your sincerity - just you! I wish I could have deleted your torment that we know of & made everything ok! That was the least you deserved as a warm hearted loving human being! My nephew dearest... until we meet again! XXXXXX

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Krystal Maze donated £50 in memory of Darren

Let’s end the stigma surrounding men and mental health ❤️

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Krystal Maze wrote

RIP Dazza. You were a top dude. Was only talking about you in December with a mate in Victoria. You had a good heart. I know you struggled and at times life wasn’t easy but you’re with the angels now. Ash told me of your passing. Bella and Bruno passed on too. I remember you accidentally broke the scratching post in Chiswick and were so apologetic and offering to replace it. Bless you. You take care and don’t be a stranger ❤️❤️❤️

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Melissa Bird wrote

Happy valentine's day x

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Melissa Bird wrote

Love you x

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Taylor-Nicole Douglas wrote

Missing you Uncle D, think about you everyday :(

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