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Tarlochan Singh Dhingra (11 Feb 1933 - 3 Jan 2021)
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In loving memory of Sardar Tarlochan Singh Dhingra ji, 87, who sadly passed away on 3 January 2021 after a severe stroke. He was strong-willed and showed signs of recovery but sadly succumbed to the Covid virus.
Tarlochan ji was born on 11 February 1933 to Bhai Saran Singh & Atma Kaur Devi ji in Mian Channu, Punjab, now in Pakistan. He was the youngest of a large family and only four brothers and a sister survived the move from Pakistan. His parents passed away when he was just three years old and was brought up mostly by his siblings.
In 1947, with the partition of India and the creation of Pakistan, he was amongst the many millions that migrated to India from the now Pakistan. He witnessed many horrible travesties which he always struggled to recount and share because of the huge emotions that it invoked. The family was separated and they lost everything in the move apart from the clothes they were wearing. Fortunately they were reunited in Amritsar and subsequently moved to Jalandhar.
He married Surjit Kaur on 25 February 1958 in Delhi, and they have 4 children. The three sons, Inderpreet, Harpreet and Kulbir were born in Jalandhar, and daughter, Janakdeep, was born in London.
He recognised the importance of education early on and was the only one in his family to go to university where he studied Chemistry. He went on to become a Lecturer at the Leather Tanning Institute of India. He decided to continue his education and had admission to study Leather Technology at Leeds University in the UK. Unfortunately, due to poor health he was unable to proceed.
Tarlochan ji migrated to England in June 1966 staying initially in East London. He shared a house with people that he considered very dear friends, just like family. His wife and children then joined him in the UK in August 1967.
Coming to the UK was one of his most significant life decisions and a clear reflection of his commitment and desire to ensure his family had opportunities that perhaps were not available to him when he was younger. After working at BT during his early years in the UK, he started his own small business during the early 80’s and remained a self employed businessman right up to his retirement in 2000. He held himself to exceptionally high standards and his integrity and work ethic were obvious to see by everyone. Likewise he continually instilled these values in his family and surrounded himself with a like minded circle of friends and colleagues.
He was a very social person and always loved to have large gatherings at his family home. He built up a community of friends from the moment he stepped into the UK. Many remained a part of his life to this very day with some friendships going back to his childhood in India. His humble, friendly and gentle manner was always accompanied by a twinkle in his eye that ensured a joke would never be too far whilst enjoying a nice drink!
Tarlochan ji was inseparable from his wife of nearly 63 years of marriage. He cared deeply for his wife who was in the advanced stages of Parkinsons and continued to look after her until the very last day before his stroke. He always wanted to share all his experiences with his wife, whether it was a hot cup of tea or a trip to Australia. His love and dedication to his wife was a beautiful example of his heart-warming and selfless nature.
He was fortunate to be able to travel to numerous places around the world visiting family and friends as often as he could. On many trips he would go out of his way to make time to visit friends en-route, even if it sometimes meant a long detour. It was this effort and welcoming manner that also encouraged old friends to come by simply to say hello - his door was always open.
Tarlochan ji was a very spiritual man and always saw the good in everyone. He was compassionate, kind, caring and generous, always there to help anyone in any way he could. Without a doubt these were his hallmarks, as can be seen by the many messages received remembering him for his generosity and love.
He is survived by his wife, Surjit Kaur ji, 4 children and 11 grandchildren. Through his family and friends he leaves a great legacy of Kindness, Care, Compassion, Generosity and Love.
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We send you our deepest sympathies. Our memories go back many years to so many social gatherings together. He was such a sweet and loving man. Always had time for everyone and always with his lovely smile. We will miss him dearly. Love from Jolly family and Paul family
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From Jit Singh and Raminder Jolly and Surinder, Gunita and Karan Paul
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Dear Kulbir,
Our heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family on the loss of a fine patriarch.
At the same time we share in your celebration of his life.
A life replete with loving and giving.
Little by little the loss subsides...but the love and 'shiksha' remains.
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This was the first time I met my future inlaws in 2005. Little did I know what an amazing warm welcome I would get from such a warm and loving couple. From day 1 I always felt included and part of the family.
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Sitting in a tent which was erected by Uncle Ji himself in his back lawns for our children to play.. The kind of affection and love showered by him is unparalleled.. He is always in our thoughts. 🙏🙏
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May uncle ji's soul rest in eternal peace and his memory last forever in our hearts.
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London 2002 (approx)
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Dearest Family,We want you to know that our thoughts are with you. Uncle ji was such an amazing man who touched the lives of many. Everyone who knew him will miss him. We remember the time spent in London with him, his jokes, his big heart and the lovely cup of tea and snacks under the tent put together for us on our each visit there. It took him hours to assemble it . He ‘d say “ you guys go for sightseeing and when you are back we will have tea together”. He wanted to do it to give us a feel of warmth under it like his soul. He lived a good and productive life with his children besides him always.The measure of his life well-lived is through the lives he has touched and the sorrow left behind. Memories of his life will never leave us. he was indeed a strong man. May his gentle soul rest in peace. Raman and Nin
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Satsriakal Simran. Plz don't say Thanks. He was like my father too being best friend of my dad. Since my childhood I have seen them together and appreciating each other. I still can't believe that he is no more with us physically yeah but uncle ji will live in our hearts forever. I really used to wait for uncle's visit to india. Used to play cards with him.till late at nights. I remember uncle threw a welcome party for us when me and shunty went for our honeymoon to London.And many more sweet memories.last I met uncle was at my dad's home. I'll always remember his sweet smiling face. U can't imagine how much I'm going to miss him. Take care of aunty ji and stay in touch. Wish we all could meet. Convey my regards to aunty.🙏🙏
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Unforgettable memories with Uncle Ji. A picture from 2002. 💕
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Great memories with Uncle Ji.. A picture from 2002..
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Tarlochan uncle was a really genuine person , humble , loving and caring person. I have fond memories of him and aunty ji at my elder sons wedding in Delhi . God bless him peace and tranquility 🙏 RIP
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Thank you Harpreet, the adage that the fruit does not fall far from the tree, couldn’t be truer, and even though I do not have the pleasure of meeting the rest of your 3 siblings, I see that your father has passed on his qualities of Compassion, Generously, Care and Love through you. May he continue to smile down, and live through you ... I can surely say that he made the world a better place, and left his children with some fine values. Our condolences and at the same time congratulations on a life well lived! Best wishes, Sabina & Mitul
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In loving memory of Dear Dhingra uncle from Bhatia family in Derby and Coventry
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It was a great privilege to have met uncle ji on a few occasions and it was always a great pleasure to meet him and listen to his soothing voice. On my first meeting the family had recently bought a Volvo estate and uncle ji had allowed me to drive it to let me have the experience of driving a new car. I shall always treasure the trust he placed in me on our first meeting and it was always a lovely experience to meet him on special occasions related to family events. I pray that his soul has found eternal peace and he is bringing joy in this dimension as he did when he has with us all. My sincerest condolences to all the Dhingra family and friends. Sarabjit Sahi
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To the man with the biggest heart! RIP.
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Learnt a lot from him! Will miss you so much!
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Love you Nanu
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Will miss you Uncle Ji
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May care and love of those around the family provide comfort and peace to get the family through the days ahead. My most sincere condolences.
I first met Dhingra uncle when I came to UK in early 2003 and was amazed by his personality and kindness. In this day and age its hard to find people like Dhingra uncle who are so selfless and would go to any length to help and support others.
From very early days myself, and my wife Kulmeet, looked up to him as our guardian, more like guardian angel. He was always there for us and guided us in every possible way. He was there when we bought our first Car and our first house and held our hand every step of the way. Dhingra uncle was the only reason we bought our first house in Newbury Park. Just because, we could be closer to him. He was the one who picked up the keys for our very first house. Newbury Park never felt the same after he moved away from there.
I always will miss and cherish the memories I have of us having those long chats about new technologies and gadgets. I wish I would have met you much earlier and had spent lots more time with you.
Rest in peace Uncle ji. If God loves his children, I am sure that you would be his favourite child.
Will miss you and you will be in my heart forever.
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Condolences to all the family, from Gudi &Amarjit Ahluwalia
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Our deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences to our loving Dhingra family.
We are privileged and blessed to have been Dhingra veerji's friends of over 40 years. He was kind, caring, compassionate and full of life. He will be greatly missed.
May Waheguruji give strength to you all to bear his great loss. Please look after yourselves. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Our Ardas to Waheguruji to rest Dhingra veerji's soul in peace.
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This was the first time I met my future inlaws in 2005. Little did I know what an amazing warm welcome I would get from such a warm and loving couple. From day 1 I always felt included and part of the family.
Sitting in a tent which was erected by Uncle Ji himself in his back lawns for our children to play.. The kind of affection and love showered by him is unparalleled.. He is always in our thoughts. 🙏🙏
London 2002 (approx)
Unforgettable memories with Uncle Ji. A picture from 2002. 💕
Great memories with Uncle Ji.. A picture from 2002..
To the man with the biggest heart! RIP.
Learnt a lot from him! Will miss you so much!
Love you Nanu
Will miss you Uncle Ji
Memories of a typical daytrip with traditional picnic
Blessed memory with Chacha Ji & Chachi Ji
Love from the Bhatia family. Picture is take in Sutton, April, 2017
Dear Uncle, so many great memories with you and of you. So glad that we got to see you in Derby in Sep 2019 and celebrate the lives of old friends. Lots of love from the Bhatia family.
Earliest memories of old & good friends (Dhingra Uncle and and Mr Avtar Singh Bhatia). Heartfelt sympathies and deepest condolences from the Bhatia family in Coventry and Derby and elsewhere
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Will miss you dear jija ji
Sweet memories of sweet company
Dhingra Family Tree
Our sincere condolences to the family. It was an honour knowing Papi Ji, a wonderful and Inspirational person. Always spreading positive energy to everyone around him, it was a pleasure to spend time with him and Mummy Ji. Bhavini, Sirish, Parth
Will miss u Chacha ji
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We will miss you. You will always be in our thoughts. Parmjeet, Harpreet, Priyanka and Karan
Beautiful memories, Dhingra uncle will be deeply missed xxx
🌹We miss you lots Daddy 🌹😢😢🙏
Mohansingh, Jit jolly nagrath & Dhingra bhraji in dish party
Manor Park party. August 1977
Gurpreet (Vity) Birthday. Barking, November 1977
With Dimple. Barking, 2nd July 1979
Memories of 1977 with my parents from India and uncle and Aunty Dhingra. Love you all Nina
My guess this was taken in the late 70s
Jyoti loved and was loved by them both !
Loved them both <3
Will miss both my Dads .. They did so much for their families
Dad, you will always, always be remembered for your loving kindness. That smile, the twinkle in your eye and your love...I miss you so much. With all my love, Sylvia x
Your kind and loving nature will live on in our hearts.
I will always remember growing up with our three families with fond memories. You will never be forgotten and are now with my dad. Uncle Ji, rest in peace.
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