Dear Angela.
You may not remember me but I worked with Paul at Berry Whitehouse many years ago, 1989 to 1993 I think. I have only just found out about his sad passing and wanted to wish you and your family my condolences.
I was very fond of Paul and in my youth really looked up to him and appreciated his talents and learned a great deal from him.
I think your words perfectly capture the man I remember. I was lucky enough to meet Paul again by chance in the pub at Car Carlston a few years ago and it was truly lovely to see him again after many years. I will treasure that chance meeting.
It was a pleasure to know Paul.
Ollie
Paul Barton (10 Sep 1960 - 28 Nov 2020)
Funeral Director
In loving memory of Paul Barton who sadly passed away on 28th November 2020.
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Thank you. Angela, Paul's wife.
Paul was a loving husband and my best friend.
A father bursting with love and pride.
A grandfather utterly besotted by Hollie and Sophie.
A raconteur who enthralled.
He was a jester with a sharp wit and who made people laugh.
A friend ready to drop everything and help.
A chef who created amazing meals out of love for whoever visited.
Paul was a man who loved to dance… and who actually had rhythm.
He was generous beyond belief.
He was kind.
Paul had old-fashioned values and for forty years he opened doors for me, walked on the outside of the pavement nearest the road, carried my heavy bags and always offered me the last portion of food or square of chocolate.
He was stylish without trying.
Family was his beginning, middle and end.
He was a poet, albeit his masterpieces were mostly sad.
He was unafraid to show emotion; letting tears fall unselfconsciously during sad films or songs.
He was a talented designer who has left behind an awe-inspiring legacy of buildings and artwork.
He was a hard worker, sometimes pushing himself to exhaustion.
He had a presence.
Paul was a gentle man – and a gentleman.
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