Terence Edward 'Terry' Clare (18 Sep 1937 - 4 Sep 2020)

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In loving memory of Terence Edward 'Terry' Clare who sadly passed away on 4th September 2020, aged 82 years.

Terry will be so greatly missed by his loving wife Patricia, children Michael, Stephen, Catherine and Robert, extended
family and many friends from far and wide.

Family Flowers only please may be sent by 8.00 am on Friday 9th October 2020, c/o John Weir Funeral Directors, 130-132 High Street, Rainham, Kent, ME8 8AR. Telephone No. 01634 373111. Donations for 'The Friends of The Wisdom Hospice' may be made by cheque made payable to the charity and sent c/o John Weir, Rainham or made online via this page. Thank you.


Terry was born in Oxford on the 18th September 1937.

He went to Harrow County School and left in 1954 to start work in the Foreign Department of the London and Lancashire Insurance Company in Chancery Lane where he met his wife Pat.
Terry moved on during his working career to Glyn Mills & Co. (Merchant Bankers), and then to a Share Registration Company and finally to the RAC where he was Manager of the Membership Department and then finally Manager of Specialist Car Clubs.
His career came to a sudden end when he sustained a head injury at work which resulted in Epilepsy.

Terry married Pat in Beckenham in 1962 and then moved to Rainham in Kent where the Vicar of St Margaret’s Church James Clifford asked Terry to set up a club for the young people of Rainham,
He started Rainham Youth Club which became the largest ‘open’ club in South East, this also led to Terry becoming a member of Gillingham Youth Leaders Council and Chairman of Upbury Manor Youth Wing.
His interest in helping young people continued when he and his wife fostered teenage girls for over 20 years.

Terry had always been interested in Ants, Bees and Wasps, he attended a beekeeping course run by Ken Beevor.
From then on Bee’s were his Life !.
He started Beekeeping about 40 years ago and slowly built up his experience, expertise and number of hives.
In 1995 when the Verroa mite arrived in Britain he lost most of his colonies, however undaunted he built and expanded his colonies further.

Terry loved imparting knowledge and in the early part of each year he ran a ten week ‘Introductory Beekeeping Course’ which ran for 20 years, the last course was in 2017.
Locally he gave talks about beekeeping to most of the women institutes, Gardening clubs, Horticulture Societies and Beekeeping associations.
He was on the Beekeeping Committee of the Kent County Show and supplied all the bees for the very popular live bee demonstrations.

Terry travelled widely lecturing in Beekeeping and Queen rearing to Associations in Scotland, England , and the Island of Ireland. He went to Dublin, Germany, Austria, Switzerland, Slovenia and Norway.
His interest in the ’native bee’ resulted in him becoming President of BIBBA (Bee Improvement Bee Breeders Association).

Terry’s year started with a visit to the Ulster Beekeepers in February for their Conference, then in April to the BBKA Spring Convention where he did a workshop on Queen rearing, then onto the Kent show in July. In August he went to the FIBKA conference in Gormanston near Dublin, another visit to Belfast in October and finally to the National Honey show in November.

Terry lived a full life with enthusiasm and at full speed, even during lockdown he remodelled and replanted two large herbaceous borders in the garden.

Terry felt unwell and became ill at the end of July and was admitted to Hospital for a number of weeks and then onto the Wisdom Hospice for the last twelve days of his life and passed away peacefully on the evening of the 4th September at the age of 82.

Terry leaves a widow , four children and 12 grandchildren and many friends.

In appreciation of the care, consideration of Terry and also the whole family by the Wisdom Hospice in his remaining days the family would like all donations in his memory to The Friends of the Wisdom Hospice Rochester.

Please find attached instructions to make any donation you can.

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Pat and family Sorry to hear sad news R. I. P Terry. x x x

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R L donated £50 in memory of Terence
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Simon Marshall donated in memory of Terence

What a lovely man.Thanks for your friendship Terry and all things bee related.
Love Simon, Gill and family

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  • Thanks Simon, Dad had a good send off and went out to the music 'flight of the bumblebee' Thanks Michael

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Paul Lawrence donated in memory of Terence

Lovely man who many owe so much to. He will be greatly missed.

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  • Thankyou Paul, Dad had a good send off, Michael

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Michael Clare donated in memory of Terence

Night Night Dad and Grandad, we will miss you lots

love

Michael, Julie, Betheney, Hollie, Elliemay and Noah XXX

It was good to see you today Dad and have a final chat, you looked very peaceful

love Michael xxx

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John and Jan Bentley donated £20 in memory of Terence

A good and fine gentleman

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John and Jan Bentley wrote

I had known Terry for several years as the local bee keeper and after I completed a Bee keeping course at Hadlow in the early 1990s l then became friends with Terry who sorted me out with all the gear and bees
Jump forward till 2017 and Terry was still helping me out
He was a good teacher and had great patience. His knowledge was vast and he freely gave everyone the benefit of of that knowledge
He will be greater missed by myself and the local community
Our love to Pat and all his family at this trying times

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Christine Searle donated £20 in memory of Terence
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Theresa Watkins donated in memory of Terence

From our first meeting and association through the Kent Farmers markets 20 years ago, Terry became a great friend, colleague and confidant to me. He ignited my interest in Beekeeping and with his mentoring and support introduced me to many enjoyable aspects of rural life and the communities within it. His knowledge and enthusiasm shone through everything he acheived. I feel priveliged to have shared so many great experiences with him. Rest in Peace.

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Andrew James donated £50 in memory of Terence

Terry will be greatly missed. I’ll certainly miss the chats, advice, help and anecdotes we’ve shared over the 50+ years that he’s been my neighbour. Our condolences to Pat and all the family. Andrew & Suzanne

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  • Thanks Andrew, wow 50 years, and don't forget dad didn't have to go through the pain of teaching me how to drive in a bright orange Marina...!!!I you did... don't think dad would have lived as long had that not been the case..! Michael

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Sheila Stunell donated in memory of Terence

Terry will be sadly missed as a mentor and friend. My thoughts and prayers are with his family at this time

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  • Many Thanks Sheila, Michael

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Maz and Anita Laban donated £20 in memory of Terence

Our condolences to Pat and the family. Terry will always be in our hearts. Maz and Anita

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Terry was such a unique and special man. He was so knowledgeable and had so many stories to tell. He was my mentor and friend. He taught me so much about bee keeping and he was fun to be around. He will be greatly missed.
Maz

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  • Many thanks Maz, Dad spoke very fondly of you on many occasions, Thanks Michael

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Mel Henbest donated in memory of Terence

On behalf of myself and Joan we wanted to say we are thinking of Terry’s family at this time. We would like to thank Terry for the beekeeping knowledge he imparted to us and many other beekeepers.

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  • Many thanks Mel an also Joan for you thoughts and kind words, Dad will be proud knowing he passed on his knowledge with all things Bee's Michael

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