Josephine Margaret Duffy (21 Feb 1972 - 22 Jun 2020)
Funeral Director
In loving memory of Josephine Margaret Duffy (Jo) who sadly passed away on 22nd June 2020.
Josephine grew up in Calverton, Nottingham. She attended Colonel Frank Seely school and went on to study English Literature in York. She worked as an accountant for several companies in Nottingham.
Josephine loved reading and travel and had enjoyed many adventures.
Josephine was a loving daughter, a fabulous sister and a wonderful aunt. She was a kind, loyal and fun loving friend who would always be there when needed and your biggest supporter. There are lots of people who feel privileged to have had her in their lives.
Taken suddenly and far too soon. Josephine will stay in our hearts ❤️
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Remembering Josephine on 21/02/21 what would have been her 49th birthday... just 3 weeks older than me. Still can believe you’ve gone. Hope they have Prosecco in heaven x
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So very sad to hear of Jo’s passing. Fun memories and good times with a lovely lady. Condolences to Jo’s family and all that knew her. Beautiful soul taken far too soon. Xx
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Very sad to hear this news. Although I didn't know Jo very well, I will always remember her interviewing me for a job at DFG and will always be thankful to her for giving me a chance.
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Sorry to hear of Jo passing away I am shocked and sad that her journey in life has ended way too early.
I do have fond memories of working with Jo at The Money Shop, although one of my first encounters was an interesting one, I remember being told off for writing too many cheques 😄!
I saw her as a hardworking strong independent lady, who was never afraid to speak her mind but also had a very kind heart with a passion for living and loving life, Jo always made time for everyone.
Someone to aspire to be like.
I enjoyed conversations about exercise, something we both shared a passion for and miss those work curry nights out we had. We had some great times.
Sending all my love to Jo’s family and close friends at this difficult time xxx
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Remembering the fun work curry nights we had and the after drinks, wish I had more photos of these nights 💓
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Despite only knowing Jo through working at TMS she made an ever lasting impression. I remember her big contagious smile and laugh in the office, how she always took the time to make conversation with everyone no matter how busy she was and mostly her complete enthusiasm for life...it was a conversation with Jo which inspired me to keep moving forward in finance and to never give up on my goals...you'll never be forgotten Jo...Fly high xxxx
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Jo has been a part of my whole life. We were born 8 weeks apart and she frequently ( after a few lemonades) would tell me “ we have been friends since we were in the womb!
We may not have always spent all our time together but we always drifted back to each other. We have shared good and bad times together, holidays , houses, and always lots of fun. Far to memories to list on here but they will be spoken about often as will she to keep her memory alive. Love you Jo xx
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Such sad news Jo was such a lovely lady. it was a pleasure to know and work with her
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I am so sorry to hear about Jo's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends. I had the great fortune of working with Jo albeit from the US. I did, however, get to meet her personally many times on my trips to the UK. She was always full of energy and a great person to be around. She will be greatly missed.
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Very sad news. Jo was extremely bright, very personable and always had a smile. She was great to work with and will be missed by all.
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I just want to say how saddened I was to read on Facebook that Jo had passed away. Sending my deepest sympathy to her family at this sad time. I had the pleasure of working with Jo at Allders of Nottingham and DFG. Jo bought joy, happiness and laughter to all who met her, She was a wonderful caring lady who will be deeply missed. Rest in peace Jo xx
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It is saddening to hear of Jo's passing so suddenly. Although not working so close with her I was aware of her as a great person who was very good at her job whilst still showing her wicked, dry sense of humour. She will be sadly missed.
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I’m shocked and saddened by Jo’s sudden passing. However, its great to see all of the pictures and wonderful stories about her. I worked with Jo for several years while on the other side of the pond. She was so dependable, and the go-to person who always got you an answer. We had a lot of great non-work conversations over the years and I’m very grateful to have met and “hung-out” with Jo the couple of times she came to the U.S. I can tell from all the posts that Jo was very loved and will definitely be missed.
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Remembering the fun work curry nights we had and the after drinks, wish I had more photos of these nights 💓
Always fun to be around and make you smile
Chatting at one of the many parties
"Revising"
Lost and late on our way for birthday meal
Whenever I drink bubbles Jo will be there - I can count on one hand the times we did not have champagne or prosecco. No excuse was really needed to celebrate. I am grateful that we shared so many moments and were within one another's inner circles.
Jo & I were the same when it came to reading - no matter where we were or what adventures we were involved in we would both find time to quietly escape into a book. I never had to explain, we just gave one another space for other worlds.
A women's weekend in August 2019 for Secret Cinema's 'Casino Royale'. Tessa, Lynne & Louise joined us for a glam night on the red carpet within an interactive theatre setting. Unknowingly this was our last in person connection. Quintessentially special.
At Starting Over in Puerto Vallarta Mexico in November 2018 Jo connected meaningfully with other women through shared workshops. Jo used this long weekend as a chance to deeply consider who and what she truly valued. It was a privilege to be with her.
Our motivation for Mexico in November 2018 was to attend the 'Starting Over Retreat' facilitated by Bonnie Muenz. Held in Puerto Vallarta on the Pacific Coast. We made the most of pampering offered by the hotel - spa treatments and great food on the beach
In November 2018 on holiday in Mexico City we went on a food tour as it is a wonderful way to connect with the culture and people of the local area. Jo relished the chance to try fried grasshoppers which Mexican's eat like pop corn!
Our biggest adventure together was our week in Mexico in November 2018. We both fell in love with Mexico city - food, history, architecture, art and people.
When there was silly fun to be had Jo was always a YES. Tessa instigated the Wye Float in Hereford in August 2018. Louise & Tracy joined us. We each invested in a suitable inflatable - Jo got a toucan with matching eye wear. Floating is quite a workout!
In June 2018 Jo stayed with Gareth & me to appreciate time together. We visited Chartwell to learn about Churchill's life and went to Greenwich for brunch. As always we talked a whole lot of palaver as well as diving in deep.
The last time Jo made it to one of my festive celebrations was in 2017. We had a Bond theme as we were commemorating Judy Dench's birthday and she dressed as Pussy Galore. A wonderful chance to catch up with our adventuring friends - Tessa, Lynne & Tracy.
When I made the decision to start my own coaching business Jo was a huge support, believing in me even when I struggled with doubts. Her & Nicola travelled to London for my launch event in April 2017. Jo was interested in Phenomenal Women & mBraining.
I loved when I was able to share a new experience with Jo, even in her own back yard. In September 2016 on a Midlands weekend we explored the caves under Nottingham's town centre! Quite the senior moment ;-)
August 2016 we met in the Peak District to celebrate Nicola's 40th with a 70s theme. Tracy joined us as we went to a local pub on Friday evening and joined in the village quiz. We won with full points, followed by winning the first two prizes for bingo!
Another immediate YES was when we decided to go to the opening of Carnivale in Venice in January 2016! As well as a food tour of this ancient city we decided to have a gondola ride in between water based parades and meandering the different districts.
Tessa & I used to have an annual camping trip each September ... in 2015 Jo brought Louise as we were going to do ziplining & trampolining in caves in North Wales! Here we are on the Sunday having a full cooked breakfast!
When Gareth & I had our 'not wedding' celebrating our love for one another as evidenced by our joint mortgage in August 2015 Jo hunted high & low for a dress that tied in with our 'Leather & Willow' theme. She was very proud of her cow print discovery!
Invited to a posh evening of High Society at the Old Vic in June 2015, Jo immediately said 'Yes'! Starting with a lovely meal at a Michelin starred Polish restaurant. At the theatre I was awed at how many champagne glasses Jo could hold in one hand!
Another festive visit in December 2012 to London, this time getting 1920s glammed up for Candlelight Club!
In January 2014 we fulfilled life long dreams by going with Tessa to Swedish Lapland for a surreal week of adventures - sleigh rides, ice fishing, snow shoeing, ice hotel, dog sledding, ski mobiling, moose, reindeer, fires and saunas!
July 2013, first time Jo & I had a weekend away ourselves - we met in Manchester for culinary delights, theatre (Macbeth with Kenneth Branagh) and museums. Jo booked us at this Michelin starred restaurant where we proudly ate very expensive steak & chips
Jo was fabulous with kids - whether her nieces & nephews, her godchildren or her friends kids. When I visited in May 2013 we had a lovely couple of hours with Iain and his daughter, Molly ... playing chase in the garden, reading stories and enjoying tea.
Our trip to Rome in 2009
My hen do in 2011
Chelsea Flower Show 2019
Jo enjoyed a festive weekend in London with me. In 2012 we went with Samir to the Prohibition Christmas Ball at Battersea Power Station. There was circus performers, jazz musicians, casino and dancing ... and litres of bubbles!
Jo was a generous host. I frequently stayed with her when there was a Razzell function or a theatre thing or I was popping up to Yorkshire to see family. Here we are celebrating August birthdays (2012) at Nic's in West Bridgford
I loved how Jo would make it work when there was something she wanted to do - in Aug 2012 coming to London mid-week to join Tessa & I at a Lost Lectures where we had to sit on inflated life rings in a warehouse and listen to people share their adventures
As part of the week for Jo's houseparty in 2012 we also had a surprise celebration dinner for Paul & Becky who were both trying to pretend they were not turning 40 that year too ;-)
In June 2012 to celebrate her 40th birthday Jo invited a group of her loved ones to a holiday in Devon. Iain (TLI) insisted that her and Nic do their workout for the week by learning to body board!
In May 2012 Jo & Nic joined 11 of my other friends in supporting me to do the London-Brighton Night Ride to raise money for the British Heart Foundation following the success of my 2nd open heart surgery. Jo stuck with me inch by inch ensuring I made it
In April 2012 we came together in Nottingham to celebrate Bill's 55th birthday - a lot of raucous behaviour followed - including breakdancing!
Was an absolute joy to celebrate the Razzell's wedding with so many loved ones in October 2011.
In August 2011 we did NOT celebrate my 40th with a weekend based at mine in London (now in Wandsworth). We did many of my favourite things ... Portbello Markets, boat down to Greenwich, open air theatre in Regents Park, cycling and high tea in Victoria.
Our second weekend away was in June 2010 and we welcomed Tessa to our adventures together. We decided to stay in the UK and found a cottage in Ambleside in the Lake District. We ate, mooched, rambled, played cards, drank and talked about everything.
I have a festive party every year. The first one Jo came to was in 2009 when I was living in East Putney, London. She and Nicola would make a weekend of there time together in the big smoke.
Our first weekend away together was with Nicola and Tracy in Madrid in June 2009. We walked miles, ate fabulous foods, admired architecture, history and art. We people watched and drank litres of Spanish wine.
As a mapgie who collected quality that reflected her taste for a wonderful life - Jo was completely open to trying on jewellery at a party at Nicola's in January 2008
I first met Jo in June 2007 when Nicola invited her to join us for Go Ape in Sherwood Forest. We clicked immediately and a beautiful friendship was born!
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