TRIBUTE READ AT CHAS'S FUNERAL (LONG VERSION)
I’m still struggling to believe that Chas is truly gone. It seems like just yesterday that he was speaking as best man at my wedding, cracking jokes and giving me a massive map to find my way back to my house from Kingston St Mary! He was not just my best man, Chas was best man at four weddings, I think that says everything about him. I know there are a huge number who would have liked to be in here in person to pay their respects. I hope that soon we will be able to get everyone together and say goodbye in the way he really deserves.
Chas was a genuine, warm, funny and caring guy. He always encouraged others when they had lost belief and supported all his friends to be the best they could, whether that was surfing or advice on work. He would talk to absolutely anyone, mostly in a pub, but in fact some of his closest friends have come from exactly this; Trevor, Lauren, Jon & Marco.
Chas loved buying things, from golf clubs to fishing rods and every time I saw him, he had a new pair of trainers, even if half the time he brought them in the wrong size. He was so generous, whether it was the first at the bar to buy a round or the time when he picked up the bill for his group of friends at a Curry night.
He was an amazing best friend; like a brother to me and our lives have always been connected, since we met at School over 30 years ago. We worked together, went to the same college and university, lived together in our bachelor pad, played football together, went on holidays, enjoyed live music from U2 to Foo Fighters – three times. When I look back now, we always seem to follow in each other’s footsteps, a testament to the strength of our friendship, that we were never far from each other.
Chas loved all of his family dearly, especially his role of big brother to Tom, Grace & Joe. He was protective and also so proud of their achievements.
I have never seen Chas so happy than the day he married Katie, she was and always will be the love of his life and we knew that the minute we met her. Katie has been a rock for him, especially the last few years and her support for him has been unwavering. He truly could not have found a better person to share his life with. Katie, your friends are here for you now, and we always will be.
Chas was so courageous, dignified and a fighter. He will always be there through the music we all loved, the running man dance, the photos and his memories will carry on and I hope my kids grow up knowing what a best friend means and I hope they have one as amazing as Chas. Although the grief will never disappear, we can only hope that over the years it will get gentler. I feel so proud and honoured to have known Chas, he was a special person who touched all our lives in different ways. Bear – Goodbye my friend, we will miss you so much. You will never be forgotten.
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