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David Lloyd Hinde (31 Dec 1957 - 5 May 2020)
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In loving memory of David Lloyd Hinde who sadly passed away on 5th May 2020
David was born 31st December 1957 in Doddinghurst to Lloyd and Eileen Hinde, in a bedroom at a New Years Eve party! He dined off the fact that the whole world celebrated his birthday on this day for the last 62 years.
David grew up in Basildon being the second eldest, junior to Lorraine and older to Mark and Karen.
He often spoke of how he was an undefeated boxer in Basildon, won 1 and drew 1!
as he was entering his teens he moved with his family to Hawkwell and this was the beginning of the longest friendship of Steve McCarthy who is the brother of Karen who would go on to be his wife of 42 years.
At 16 Dave joined the army and was always proud of this, however true to the David we all know and love, it was too much for him to be away from his family and so an army career, it turned out, wasn’t for him. Not all was lost as later in his life he would dedicate his free time to the army cadets and mentor many teenage children, here he made lifelong friends and was a part of his life that he was so proud of, regularly reminding us he ‘has medals ya know!’
Dave had strong work ethics and worked hard his whole life, starting out working on the highways with the council, moving in to the world of metal fabrication with his friend Steve where he perfected the skill and became well known for his craft. Again here, he made life long friends.
In 1977 David married Karen McCarthy and so began the family Dave, Karen, Steve and Dawn.
Not content there Dave and Karen went on to foster teenagers and children and dedicated their time to support them in whatever way it was needed.
Then naturally the family grew to the birth of his grandchildren, Thomas and Harry. His proudest moment yet.
Dave loved his entire family and friends and befriended everyone he met. nothing was too much trouble and would always help anyone where he could.
He was generous and caring not to mention protective of all who he cared for.
He enjoyed life, he loved seeing the world as much as he did being at home with family and friends and every party will be a little quieter without him.
for someone who was generally healthy and strong, he became very unwell recently and was admitted to hospital with renal failure, here he was diagnosed with Cancer which we were told he wouldn't be cured, luck was not on his side and the fates weren't finished, while in hospital he contracted Covid19 and unfortunately after giving it a good fight, it was stronger than him, not much was.
The passing of David seems untimely and unjust and whilst we will sorely miss him, we all have different memories of him, so please feel free to share them below, it’s these memories that we should seek comfort from and remember his words ‘what you grizzling for?’ as he hated to see anyone upset and often if not always went out of his way to make you smile.
We will be saying our formal farewell to David 2nd June, 3:40pm at Southend Crematorium. Due to the strange situation we are finding ourselves in there are restrictions for attendance and so sadly, at this time we ask you to stay at home and pay your respects however you feel you need to. When we are allowed to be together we will be holding David’s interment and celebration of life in the way he loved most. Being together with everyone and smiling.
So today we ask that if you see it as appropriate, not to buy flowers, but to donate to the Neptune Ward at Southend. They are looking to make a special relaxation area for the teenage patients. Something that is much needed and something Dave would have supported as he had already given so much for teenagers During his life.
God bless you Dave.
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Sorry for you loss. Thinking of you all.
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Thank you Enrico for your kindness xx
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Donation received from Mr Sandwich owner Ian and his family Who are also mum and dads neighbours. Thank you for the spread and the kindness you have shown us. Your kind gesture will not be forgotten
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This donation was received from the very kind Mr Sandwich owner Ian and his family, who are also mum and dads next door neighbours. Thank you so much for the lovely spread and the very kind gesture.
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Thank you to Ian and his family for their kind thoughts and generous donation.
All our love Karen and family
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Thank you so much to Ian and his family. For your kind thoughts and your contribution.
From Karen and family
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Rest in Peace Dave.
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You have been taken far too soon and will be missed so much. Rest in peace Love Amanda Hinde x
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Thank you both for your very kind donation and thank you for all the love and support you showed us yesterday xx
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David you are a beautiful soul who gave so much to others and the community- your legacy is your amazing family and grandchildren- sleep well dear man xxx
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Such lovely words and a kind donation xx you are a lovely lady thank you Liz. X
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Still can’t quiet believe it. Heart broken for you all. Sending you all so much love and thinking of you all. Rest in Peace Uncle Dave xx
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Love Jenny and Ellie xx
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🤍🤍🤍 RIP Uncle Dave xxx
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Thank you both so much for your kind words and donation xx
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Rest in peace uncle Dave. Still can’t quite believe it. Heartbreaking. Sending you all so much love and thinking of you all xxx
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Having worked with Dave for 23 years, he always had a listening ear for your troubles. You knew you could talk to him and get some great solid advice and he would never betray your confidence. A top guy who would always look out for you.
He thought the world of his family and would always tell you so.
He will be missed by many.
Patrick and Lorraine
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Thank you so much for taking the time to share your kind words and memories xxxmuch appreciated and love to the family xx
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Thinking of you all x
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This is so kind of you my friend thank you xx much love to you and the family xx
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Always in our thoughts. Love Mum & Dad xxx
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Thank you Nan and Grandad. Our hearts and thoughts go to you both xxx
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This picture is so lovely xx
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Rest in Peace my darling Brother. Until we meet again..... xxx
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Thank you so much for your donation xx sending all our love and comfort your way xx
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Thinking of you Dawn and Family. Sorry for your loss. Love Jenny.xx
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Thank you for your kindness. Much love to you all xx
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It was a privilege to have been Daves brother in law. My life was better for having known him and the world is poorer without him.
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Times were always funny with you both xx thank you and much love xx
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It was a privilege to have had Dave as my brother in law. I became a better person from having known him and the world is a poorer place without him. Bless you Dave.
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No words still, just a lot of lovely memories xxx
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Thanks Kelly xx my appreciated and much love to you all xx
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RIP uncle Dave. You will be missed so much by all of us. ❤️😘
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Thank you my lovely xx much love to you both xx
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Rest in peace Dave
Thank you for your life long friendship and many many happy memories
Love Steve and Sally xx
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Thank you so much for your very kind donation xx he thought so much of you all and I still love the stories from when You were younger xx sending you all our love xx
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Sending so much love to you all. He was a wonderful man and certainly kept Dan company at the school gate! Always here for you and the gorgeous boys xxxx
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So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all In these difficult times.
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Thank you Scott for your kind donation xx much love xx
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You were the most kindest man with the biggest of hearts and you were taken far too soon. May you rest in peace. Sending love to all the family xxx
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Thank you Louise For your lovely words and kind donation xx sending you and all the family out love cx
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My thoughts and love are with you all, Rest In Peace Dave.
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Thank you Jeff xx sending the family our love xx
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Our sincerest condolences to all the family. Dave was a kind and gentle man. It’s been such a shock to hear of his sudden passing and we wish him peace and send you all our love
Clare and Del Govey
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Thank you for your kind words and donation xx Much love xx
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Uncle Dave, we miss you terribly. You really are one of a kind. You will live on in our hearts and in our memories forever. Louise, Gareth, Maisie and Eden xxx
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Thank my lovely for your kindness xx sending you an international hug xx
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Having read Dave’s obituary it doesn’t surprise me that he was a wonderful man who helped so many youngsters. His sister Karen is my best friend and Eileen and Lloyd allowed me to share their home when I was a teenager. Kindness and love run deep in this family. My heartfelt condolences to you all x
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Thank you so much xx
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