Raymond William Bird (6 Apr 1929 - 12 Apr 2020)

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In loving memory of Raymond William Bird who passed away peacefully on
12th April 2020 aged 91.

Raymond was born on 6th April the only child to William and Maud Bird. A premature baby weighing around 3.5lbs, Ray was lucky in those times to survive those early days and happily went on to live a long and full life. During his childhood years he was evacuated to Somerset and returned to his family in Dagenham just prior to the end of the war. He excelled at school and went on to earn a scholarship for engineering. His first job was with Kelsey Hayes which later became part of Fords where he worked in the wheel plant for over 40 years. He was very popular with his work colleagues and on retiring was presented with a mounted wheel bearing with the words 'run a rule over that Ray' a tribute to the precision he applied to his work and subsequently to everything he did.

After retiring, he went on to work at FitzWimarc School in Rayleigh as a woodwork technician. A job he thoroughly enjoyed and where, again, he was popular with colleagues and pupils alike.

Ray was a keen sportsman and played football and cricket in his early years. He joined the local youth Club in Dagenham and this is where he met Joan, his future wife. Romance blossomed and they married in September 1954, moving to South Benfleet to start their new life together and a new family. In June 1961 their son Michael arrived followed shortly in April 1963 by their daughter Glenda.

Ray and Joan spent many happy years with their family, moving from their original bungalow in Selbourne Road to a bigger house and their current home in Wavertree Road.

In later years Ray enjoyed his garden and would spend many a happy hour pottering in his greenhouse and at the local Horticultural Society. Having spent years working with metal he turned his skills to working with wood and loved the feel, texture and beauty of the different grains. He also had a love of playing music, from early days playing an accordion in a band, he bought an organ and would spend hours playing happily to himself. Ray and Joan also took up bowls and joined a club where they competed as part of the team against other local clubs.

Ray was a kind loving and loved husband of Joan, father to Michael and Glenda and grandfather to Gemma and Danielle and will be greatly missed.

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Jack Thomson donated £20 in memory of Raymond

Ray it was a pleasure knowing you and being a part of your family. And will always look after Gemma. Will always remember you as a warm, friendly, kind, gentle man. Love Jack

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One of my earliest memories or Grandad. He did wait years to finally watch the rescuers. I’m not even sure he enjoyed it that much when he did. Love you Grandad xxx

One of my earliest memories or Grandad. He did wait years to finally watch the rescuers. I’m not even sure he enjoyed it that much when he did. Love you Grandad xxx

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Gemma Thomson donated £50 in memory of Raymond
Grandad was kind, warm and compassionate man. Fiercely intelligent with a real love of nature and of trains. He loved being around his family, never demanding, just a quiet, calming and loving presence. I am so grateful to have had him as my Grandad. I will love him forever and miss him always. I hope you are at peace Grandad. XxX

Grandad was kind, warm and compassionate man. Fiercely intelligent with a real love of nature and of trains. He loved being around his family, never demanding, just a quiet, calming and loving presence. I am so grateful to have had him as my Grandad. I will love him forever and miss him always. I hope you are at peace Grandad. XxX

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John Harlett donated in memory of Raymond
In loving memory of Uncle Ray, will always remember your warm smile, love from John, Sarah, Miles & Finley xxxx

In loving memory of Uncle Ray, will always remember your warm smile, love from John, Sarah, Miles & Finley xxxx

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  • Sleep well Uncle Ray! I always remember the amazing wooden toys you made us! They are dotted around throughout out family. Lots of Love Leanne & Mollie xx

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Janet Shepherd donated £30 in memory of Raymond

In loving memory of Uncle Ray. With love from Janet, Chris, Leanne & Mollie xxxx

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Pauline Harlett donated in memory of Raymond

In loving memory of a dear brother in law,Ray. Love from Pauline xxx

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Grandad and I celebrating his 90th Birthday.  Always so full of love, laughter and warmth. Will miss him so much and I feel so lucky to have had him in my life ❤️ Xx

Grandad and I celebrating his 90th Birthday. Always so full of love, laughter and warmth. Will miss him so much and I feel so lucky to have had him in my life ❤️ Xx

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In loving memory of Uncle Ray. Lots of love Janet & Chris xxx

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Janet and Chris Shepherd wrote

In loving memory of Uncle Ray. Lots of love Jan & Chris xxx

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Pauline Harlett wrote

I loving memory of a very dear brother in law xx

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Pauline Harlett wrote

In memory of a very dear brother in law xx

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Raymond Bird made this wooden Hippo for my son Callum. It will always remind us of a kind, funny and gentle man

Raymond Bird made this wooden Hippo for my son Callum. It will always remind us of a kind, funny and gentle man

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Ray with Joan larking about at The Grimsdyke Hotel.

Ray with Joan larking about at The Grimsdyke Hotel.

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Happy times ♥️

Happy times ♥️

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  • Glenda's 21st at Ray and Joan's house (with all the family) - What a lovely photo and what great times - You were always so friendly and spread such love (and yes Ray, I will always look after your lovely daughter - Glenda). It was a privilege to have known you and to be part of your family - Thank you!! With love Colin xxx

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  • This must have been the first time we met Ray and Joan and all their lovely family. We have had such pleasure and fun meeting up with them over all the years since then. Ray has always been so caring and considerate, we have enjoyed his company, knowing that he would always greet us with a smile and a joke. A lovely man who is going to be sorely missed. Love from Ann and Ken xx

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