Robert Richards (1 Jun 1953 - 11 Apr 2020)
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In loving memory of Bob Richards who sadly passed away on 11th April 2020
Bobby was born in Virginia, USA and moved frequently in his younger years due to his dads job in the Marines. He considered ‘home’ being North Carolina, where many of his loving family still reside. He leaves behind two brothers- Chuck and Steve and three sisters- Lorraine, Linda and Bonnie. At this time, the distance feels greater but Bobby was grateful for the internet and loved keeping in touch with his family- the FaceTime calls and conversational emails meant a lot.
He kept his southern accent despite living in England for all of these years and this was part of his charm! His favourite things in life all triggered fond memories of being ‘back home’ - hotdogs, baseball, Big cold drinks with stacks of ice to name a few.
He met his sweetheart Rosanna in Minster Lovell, Oxfordshire back in the 1970’s. They married in 1977 and shared 42, nearly 43 years of marriage. They have four children together - Lisa, Kari, Jodi and Jaryd. Despite a spate of illness, he managed to attend all of his children’s weddings and he felt so thankful to be part of these occasions. Bob and Rosanna share five grandchildren- Laila, Matteo, Mila, Gracie and Jamie. Their sixth grandchild is due in June.
As a daddy, he was our hero. He encouraged us to do our best, he showed us how important it was to provide for yourself by being an absolute grafter throughout his life, and wanted us all to pursue worthwhile careers. He bought excitement, noise, a huge amount of laughter and most importantly, the best bear hugs on the planet!
His grandchildren adored him and on many occasions referred to him as ‘the best Grampy’ - but he liked to call himself ‘Grumpy’! He was controversial in his thoughts, often claiming that he was concerned his grandchildren were being fed too many unnecessary fruit and vegetables- he countered that by ensuring they had plenty of secret visits to McDonalds! He enjoyed walking his grandchildren to school, watching them play football, discussing maths problems with them, doing the dishes while holding them one handed, under arm and cuddling up to them. They in turn, loved his quirky ways, his tickles and bear hugs.
Bobby was a sports fan. He loved playing and watching golf, watching football (avidly supporting USA every World Cup and trying to convince his grandchildren that they should support USA too!), playing baseball in his younger years and watching it as he grew older - we like to think he’s up there now somewhere ‘hitting balls’ with his younger brother Billy.
Bob spent most of his time in England, living in Sawtry. This is where his children grew up and where he set up ‘Carolina Bobs’, a car garage well known throughout the village. It was a sad day when he had to sell the business due to illness. He was touched to receive so many words of thanks back then, so we know he would have been overwhelmed by all of the kind words and memories people have shared with us since his passing.
We have set up a fundraising page to honour Bob. He was a generous man throughout his life, and we hope to be able to give a generous donation in his memory:
https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/inmemoryofbobrichards?utm_term=xDQn85PA6
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