Margaret Hemsley (22 Oct 1954 - 12 Mar 2020)

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Gorleston Crematorium Oriel Avenue Gorleston-On-Sea NR31 7JJ
Date
3rd Apr 2020
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In loving memory of Margaret Hemsley who sadly passed away on 12th March 2020 at Beccles Hospital after a long fight with brain Cancer, she wasn’t in any pain but her passing was not expected at this time.

Margaret Susan Hemsley (Marg, Maggs, Maggie) was born 22nd October 1954 in Lowestoft to Peggy and Frank Shreeve.
Sister to Beverley Ann Lee.
Son Kris
Daughter Kelly
Granddaughters Rosie, Daisy, Talia, Maia.

Maggs was a very warm and lovely person, she was loved by so many, her family and many friends from all over the world expressed their sadness at Maggs leaving us so soon.

Maggs early life was in Lowestoft, Suffolk, went to schools in North Lowestoft.
Finishing at Harris Girls School.
Started a hair dressing apprenticeship at Hilarys hair salon, Lowestoft.
Attended Great Yarmouth hairdressing college.
Became a very good stylist, entered competitions and qualified for a national final.

Met Paul Hemsley and married October 4th 1975.
Bought their first house July 1975, the terrace house was modernised and became their first family home.
1978 25th July - Kris Neil (son) born.
1979 November. Moved to Calton Colville, Lowestoft.
1980 16th January - Kelly Marie (daughter) born.
1981 November. Moved to Bradwell, Norfolk.

Joined Hillside first school parents association became an active member in fund raising and participated in shows and events over the next few years. Kelly remembers her doing a whole dance routine to 'Rock around the clock' and 'Daisy Daisy’.

Summer weekends were spent with family and friends with regular trips to Blythburgh ‘Toby walks’. The school summer holidays were spent on Lowestoft beach after Maggs had organised a beach hut rental from the local council.
The beach hut is still in use to this day.

Maggs enrolled Kris and Kelly in the GY swimming club. Kris and Kelly both became regular members of the swimming team, competing across the country in club and open galas.
Maggs became a regular and recognised spectator on the poolside.
1987 May: Moved house (Bradwell).
1988, Maggs decided to go back to work. Wanted to work from 10 AM to 2 PM so she would be home when school finished. Started at Adams children’s wear and moved to Thorntons Chocolate shop (bringing home weekly delicious treats) and moved to Peacocks clothing shop (1998) working full time.
Maggs enjoyed working in retail, colleagues and customers alike warmed to her smile and friendly nature.

In 1988, the family had a family holiday of a lifetime (with Nannie Peggy) in Florida USA and Walt Disney world. Many other holidays over the years to Tenerife, Malta, France, Majorca, Ibiza, Cyprus, Grand Canary, Portugal, Spain, Greece.
2000 October - Paul and Maggs 25th wedding anniversary was in New York, USA.

Many of the Schlumberger wives remember Maggs for her great sense of humour and giggling at the company celebrations and Christmas parties.

2002. First granddaughter Rosie born.

2003 Paul and Maggs left the UK and moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma, USA.
Quickly found an apartment which became their home.
Maggs figured out the roads in Tulsa very quickly, using the car compass she made her way around Tulsa and loved driving her jeep around Tulsa.
Maggs joined the Schlumberger Spouses Association and had many laughs and giggles with the other women living in and around Tulsa.
They were visited by friends and family over the 5 years in Tulsa and took everyone to see the Oklahoma City Memorial without fail.

Many holidays - San Francisco, Las Vegas, Chicago, New Orleans, Memphis, Grand Canyon, Mexico, were taken while in the USA. While in Tulsa Maggs won her one and only gold medal, a two hour endurance go-kart race with 3 others. Maggs was very happy to win the medal, her smile was radiant.
Maggs would be the only female on many of Schlumberger training school leaving dinners. Many technicians still remember Maggs for her smile and happy nature.
Maggs loved the ‘float trips’ down the local rivers.
All day spent floating down the river on a raft, laughing and giggling even when falling in the river.

2005. Second granddaughter Daisy born

In January 2008, Abu Dhabi beckoned, Paul and Maggs relocated to the other side of the world.
This was the to become an exceptional time in Maggs life.
After joining Abu Dhabi Ladies, many long lasting friendships were forged, the ‘famous five’ still talk about Maggs smile and happiness today.
Finally, after driving for 30+ years, Maggs finally got a convertible car, and she quickly mastered Abu Dhabi roads and had great fun driving around the capital.
2008 saw the start of Maggs love affair with Ikea with so many hours walking around the store.

Lots of visits from the family and friends, Maggs loved to take people around UAE.
Many holidays around the region and beyond to Lebanon, Cyprus, Singapore, Thailand, Tokyo, China and Australia.
Number 1 on Maggs bucket list was to walk up the China great wall. In 2012 and despite the distance Maggs ticked off this task. Maggs completed the walk to the top and was delighted.
A road trip to Oman with the roof down, wind in her hair and sun on her face.
Maggs enjoyed many weekends away in 5 star hotels in the UAE.
Loads of hours walking around the shopping malls in Abu Dhabi and Dubai.
Maggs liked concerts and went to many during the ‘concert sessions’ at Yas Island.

Watching F1 car racing was another passion and Maggs purchased tickets to the Abu Dhabi Grand Prix more than once and was a huge fan of Lewis Hamilton.
The F1 weekend was a fantastic show, the race, many concerts, loads of laughs and giggles.
So many glorious memories.
Maggs also liked a cup of tea, shopping days would start with a cup of tea and cake, many times the shopping trip would be rushed as talking, laughing and giggling would take over and so leave very little time for shopping.

Trips home to the UK twice a year, Maggs looked forward to Christmas with the Family.

Maggs was not good at accepting change but once she got use to her new surroundings she was a delight to be with. Maggs was also very shy, once over the shyness Maggs would relax and people saw the lovely person that Maggs was.

In November 2013, Paul and Maggs transferred to Paris, France.
Moved to a 2 bed apartment South of Paris which was quickly turned into a home.
Moving to Paris meant easier trips home to the UK and for visitors to come to Paris

Many road trips, either back to the UK or throughout France.
Maggs organised tickets for Spanish GP in Barcelona. A 2 week vacation was taken driving along the Mediterranean coast.
Weekends in Nantes, Champagne region, Normandy, Tours, Atlantic coast, Christmas Winter market, Strasbourg.
Many weekend hours walking around Paris, Luxembourg Park…Maggs favourite Paris park, so full of colours, life and happiness.
Trip to Koh Sami, Thailand. Nephew Arron and Becky's wedding on the beach.
Trip to Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam.
Summer days and nights on the Seine, bottle of wine and French Baguettes.
Music concerts.
Trips to Ikea, either to buy stuff or just to ‘have a look’ and to have cups of tea.

Italian Grand Prix in Milan, followed with a road trip to the Italian Mediterranean Coast.
Visiting Bergen, Norway, Paul setting alight to Maggs coat.
2017….Finding out Maggs had a tumour and her first brain operation.

2017. Third granddaughter Talia born,

2017 October, Paul and Maggs returned to Bradwell to continue her fight against cancer.
2018…Finally got to visit the set of Emmerdale.

June 2019, Moved back to Lowestoft to be near family and friends.
2019. Fourth granddaughter Maia born - delighted she got to meet her.

Maggs was a fighter, fought the cancer for over 3 years, the doctors called her a miracle.

Thanks to all the medical and support staff in Paris, Norfolk & Norwich hospital, James Paget hospital, Big-C, Beccles Hospital, Bradwell Medical Centre, Louise Hamilton Centre, Marie Curie nurses and East coast nurses for all their care and attention over the last 3 years.

Maggs....Gone but never forgotten, love you loads.

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Farewell Maggs, we Fab 5 will have you always in our thoughts and hearts. This photo is taken from the Chapel at Vaughan Park, where I work. The view is over the Long Bay Beach, Auckland, NZ. Feelin heart broken xx

Farewell Maggs, we Fab 5 will have you always in our thoughts and hearts. This photo is taken from the Chapel at Vaughan Park, where I work. The view is over the Long Bay Beach, Auckland, NZ. Feelin heart broken xx

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Always in my thoughts xxx

Always in my thoughts xxx

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Christmas 2012 xxx

Christmas 2012 xxx

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Maggs and Nannie Betsy feeling the warm Arabian Gulf water.

Maggs and Nannie Betsy feeling the warm Arabian Gulf water.

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Maggs and her Tina Turner attitude

Maggs and her Tina Turner attitude

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Jenni Barnard wrote

My dear little friend Maggs....i miss talking to you.
I remember going to Abu Dhabi Ladies meetings on Wednesday mornings all on my own and thinking that i wasnt going to fit in here at all. Then i sat opposite you at the table during the Chairwoman's speech and your phone started ringing. Your panicked face! "Pretend it isnt yours" i whispered.....then we got the giggles. Then i heard your friendly Norfolk accent.....and that was it, we were mates!!
On my 60th birthday, when i walked into my lounge and there you were!!! Then shortly after that you came to visit with Paul....what a lovely time we all had....cowboys and fiestas and Lawrence of Arabia.....I will always miss you my friend. Miss our chats and our laughs.....i am so glad we sat at that table that day.....thank you.....xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Posted by Paul Hemsley on behalf of Robyn Smith - UK.

Dearest Maggs.
Thank you for being the beautiful, kind friend that you were.
You always made us laugh with your wonderful humour.
It was a pleasure and a honour to have spent those few years with you and Paul.
So many happy memories.
Rest in peace, lovely lady.
Forever Famous Five we shall be.
Robyn.

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Entered on behalf of Jillian Kucyk, Melbourne, Australia.

Maggs was an absolute sweetheart.
I met her after a short time in Abu Dhabi.
She was full of fun and laughter and adored her life with Paul and always talked of her family.
She had her next holiday ‘home’ planned well ahead, and it was the very thing which kept her going.
Christmas was always super special for Maggs.
She loved being with her family and was so proud of her grandchildren.
She was delighted when Kelly’s children arrived on their return to UK.

We had many hilarious experiences over the years, mostly with ‘our gang’.
Endless coffee catch ups, balls, dinners and lunches, day trips to wonderful places....always loads of fun.

Will always treasure our happy times with Maggs and Paul.
Loved her dearly and think of her often...always with a smile.
Miss her heaps.
Forever in our hearts ♥️

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With Maggs and Paul one sunny morning by the Seine enjoying some wines and the great memories together from Oklahoma and Abu Dhabi. As usual, Maggs was a delight to be with.  I enjoyed the long walk  afterwards looking for a metro station.

With Maggs and Paul one sunny morning by the Seine enjoying some wines and the great memories together from Oklahoma and Abu Dhabi. As usual, Maggs was a delight to be with. I enjoyed the long walk afterwards looking for a metro station.

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  • Thanks Hector, it was great to meet up in Paris in the summer. Walking along the Seine was a favourite pastime for Maggs and I, made more special that you were with us. Wine was good as well.

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Treasured memories of our Ibiza holiday July 1996

Treasured memories of our Ibiza holiday July 1996

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  • Thanks for the pics Emma, Ibiza 1996 was a great holiday, many giggles and memories. My memory; picking you and Kelly up from the nightclub at 4 AM. We spotted you in the crowds and you were both soaking wet. A.Marg said that you had been in the pool. No...I said, they have been dancing and get a bit hot. Then you told us you jumped in the pool. :-) Great memories

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  • The club was brilliant! Great holiday!

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Maggs waiting for a cup of Tea...2019

Maggs waiting for a cup of Tea...2019

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Kelly and her mum

Kelly and her mum

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Memphis...good music in the bar

Memphis...good music in the bar

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Maggs looking thoughtful

Maggs looking thoughtful

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Maggs and Guinness tasting...didn't like it.

Maggs and Guinness tasting...didn't like it.

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Maggs....first snow for Kris, 1979

Maggs....first snow for Kris, 1979

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Maggs, messing around 1982

Maggs, messing around 1982

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Christmas celebrations with the Halls

Christmas celebrations with the Halls

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Miami 1988

Miami 1988

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Burgh Castle - we need to hold the wall up

Burgh Castle - we need to hold the wall up

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Disney World 1988

Disney World 1988

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Maggs 'Rocking around the clock' around 1986

Maggs 'Rocking around the clock' around 1986

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Ibiza 1987

Ibiza 1987

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Tenerife 1995

Tenerife 1995

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  • Loved this holiday!!! The surf, the whales, the beach and great company!!!!

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Lifeboat Ball...early 1990s

Lifeboat Ball...early 1990s

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  • I remember this dress and being 10 thought it was the height of sophistication!

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Maggs other love...Corrie

Maggs other love...Corrie

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Hill walking in  Yorkshire around 1990s

Hill walking in Yorkshire around 1990s

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  • She wore shell suits 😂

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Us two...all nighter - 1999 to 2000

Us two...all nighter - 1999 to 2000

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