You look across at the empty chair, in vain for the one who isn’t there
No shared comments to make you smile, just being together made life worthwhile.
'Time will heal,' or so they say, just don't tell me that today.
No card to come on your special day, no words to speed you on your way
No one to bring the cup that cheers, no one to soothe and calm your fears,
Only memories of bygone years.
The simple things are what you miss - the loving hug, the goodnight kiss
The opening door - the words I'm back', the coat still hanging on the rack.
The hopes and plans we made together, we thought they would go on for ever
Are just a dream for now and ever.
The house is empty, cold, austere, you open doors and no one's there.
'How could they do this, how could they leave, abandon you to cry and grieve?'
Then a little hand slips into mine, and says 'Don't cry, you will be fine.'
For love abounds and through your tears the sun comes out to quell your fears.
The love of family and true friends will see you through and make amends.
And then the world begins to sing, as you recall the precious things
You held so dear when you were two saying 'you can start anew'.
So now when I see the empty chair
ln my mind, you're always there.
Eric John Brand (5 Jun 1933 - 15 Apr 2015)
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- Location
- Garden of England Crematorium Sheppey Way Bobbing, Sittingbourne, Kent. ME9 8GZ
- Date
- 5th May 2015
- Time
- 4pm
Eric Brand, a loving family man, died at the age of 81 on 15 April 2015. Eric was married to his childhood sweetheart, Marion, for 61 years and was the father of 4, Grandfather of 7 and Great Grandfather of 3.
Eric was born in Croydon in 1933, and was a wartime evacuee to South Wales as a child. Although he had no natural family and did not have the best of childhoods, he made the most of his life and took every opportunity to better himself. As a teenager, he met his first and only true love and married her in 1954 – one of his proudest moments in life was receiving a congratulatory message from the Queen when they celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary. Such was the love between Eric and Marion that all who met them found them a source of inspiration, and they formed a role model for others in what a real and loving marriage should be.
Eric worked as an electrical engineer until taking early retirement aged 55, and throughout his life ensured that his family were well provided for.
Throughout his life, Eric had many interests and hobbies – from repairing anything electrical and mechanical, to driving steam traction engines – but his main passion in later life was sailing. On his yacht “Rose Marie” he learned seamanship and navigational skills, and with his trusty crew sailed the East Anglian coast as well as venturing to Holland, Belgium, France and the Channel Islands.
Eric was also keen to give back to society, and spent several years as a Magistrate as well as voluntary work as a prison visitor, and as a driver for the Red Cross. He was a long standing member of St Matthews Church in Wigmore, and was the Verger there for several years. His strong Christian belief supported him in times of difficulty.
Eric will be missed by a wide range of friends, but will be remembered most as a strong, supportive and loving family man.
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