Frederick Alan Butler (8 Jun 1941 - 7 Nov 2019)

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Location
Fenland Crematorium Knights End Road March PE15 0YJ
Date
25th Nov 2019
Time
1.30pm
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In loving memory of Frederick Alan Butler who sadly passed away on 7th November 2019. Fred (Alan) Butler was born in Northallerton Yorkshire in June 1941. He spent he's childhood in Bexleyheath with his parents parents Ivy and Fred and his younger Brother David. It was a happy childhood, he started school with Dellia Smith and although he passed the 11 plus to got to Grammar school didn't quite manage to secure a place. He did however secure a place for technical college were he got his O'level's he had many happy memories of being in the sea scouts (although he never learnt to swim). After school he worked at the post office but spent as much free time as he could youth hosteling with the Dartford group, cycling hundreds of miles at the weekends, hitchhiking, rambling and collecting a lamp post on a pushbike. For a while he was also a warden for the Youth hosteling Association in the Lake District which always remained one of his favourite places. In time he met Margaret and that got Married in July 1971. They had 3 children Angela, Martyn and Phillip.

During this time he was a milkman in the Kettering area and would cycle to and from work everyday.

He shared his love of youth hosteling with his 3 children and after his and Margaret's 25th Wedding anniversary they had many adventures abroad. Including trips to New Zealand, Australia and America to visit friends. He also had a keen interest in Genealogy and found many lost relatives. In time his Children had their own families and he had 6 Grandchildren, James, Mia, Edward, William, Polly and Faye.

His larger than life character will be missed by us all. As a family we would like to thank Macmillan nurses and Especially the staff at Sue Ryder Thorpe Hall Hospice for the care he received in the last few weeks.

The family would like to invite you to attend the Funeral and reception afterwards at the Black Bear in Walsoken. Please avoid black as bright colours were Fred's favourite and his wish.

Paul Riley donated £100 in memory of Frederick

Fred was such an amazing person, a real hard working genuine family man. I had the pleasure of getting to know him better in the last few years. I never heard him complain about his illness once, he was always positive and just focussing on his next planned holiday! He was blessed to have my cousin Margaret for a wife and visa versa. Margaret you gave him all the love, care and support that he needed and made his last few years rich in love and happiness. Sincere condolences and also lots of happy memories; we will never forget him! Paul, Sandra, Lowenna and Kerensa Riley.

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Margaret, Fred and myself at Orewa, New Zealand in 2011.

Margaret, Fred and myself at Orewa, New Zealand in 2011.

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Margaret Butler donated £40 in memory of Frederick

On behalf of Joanne Tasker-Marsh

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Joanne Tasked-Marsh wrote

In Memory of Fred

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Alan Riley donated £25 in memory of Frederick

A donation from Linda, Alan, Claire, Nat, David, Sharon and children

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Linda Braun wrote

Margaret , you and your family have my deepest sympathies. Your strength was an inspiration to me as I care for my husband in his battle with this beast. Thank you for sharing the journey with me.

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Norma Howell wrote

Margaret, you and your family are in my prayers. Console your selves with all the love and good memories Your dear one generated. God bless you all.

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  • My deepest sympathy to you and your family. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers today for comfort and peace. Fred is cancer free and in God's care & amazing grace till you meet again. God Bless!

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Mathew and Adreana Latimer donated £26.57 in memory of Frederick

I’m glad Fred tracked down my dad and we were able to meet both Fred and Margaret. RIP Fred. You have a lot of time to catch up with dad now.

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Tracy Spires wrote

I am sorry for your loss. Prayers and hugs.

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Alison Lindley donated £5 in memory of Frederick

Im glad i met Fred. X

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Funeralcare Wisbech wrote

We are so sorry for the loss of Fred.
Please accept our condolences.

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