Peter John Abernethy (15 Jan 1934 - 18 Mar 2015)

Hi Ian I don't normally do this kind of thing but the night we got the phone call to say you had gone was a shock to say the least after watching you fight for 19 weeks so bravely i guess it was time for you to join sheena as I know how much you missed her .I have so many memories you always made me feel welcome in to your family sorry I didn't come to see you in the chapel of rest but it's my way of doing things until we meet again goodbye adi xxx

Ian always made me smile.whenever I saw him he would always say he didn't recognise me and had I changed my hair colour.Bless him he is sadly missed by all x

To be honest, I don't know how to write one of these so I'll just ramble on. I don't remember many things but he did tell me some stories, like when I was young he use to take me for a walk along the canal, took me to watch trains leave and arrive at a station and many other things. He always told me he liked my hat and that would make my day. It's such a shame I will never hear him say it again :( but I guess where there's death there's life, ayy Chris and Jo. RIP my handsome and amazing granddad!

I can remember when Derby were playing forest away and my mum and dad went there. I was sat on the rug next to grandad listening to the radio and he always told me to stay away from girls. Miss you grandad

Hi Ian,it's me,mandy,
So it's you that's finally got me to chat on the Internet.cant believe it!
The Angels came and took you away from us last week and their gain is our loss.you lovely lovely man.A light has gone out in our world.iv lost someone very dear to me and life will never be the same again. You never forgot our birthdays or Christmas and made it very special. And it was you that got me through any bad times.You were always there for me.every day.Thank you Ian,for everything.Youre the nicest,kindest,most decent person iv ever known and I feel blessed that you were in my life.You were always so kind and thoughtful,caring and compassionate,generous and giving and I will miss you dearly.my rock,my shoulder to cry on,my strength and support.You were such good fun and always made me laugh.What a great sense of humour! Thanks for all the wonderful times we had and all the lovely memories.immissing you like crazy.Hope you're reunited with you're beloved Sheena,Petie and Cara.
R.I.P. Dear,dear friend,sleep tight and God bless
I love you with all my heart,now and always.
Thank you so very much:
For what you say
For what you do
For being so kind
For just being you !!

Night,Night sweetheart
Love you loads
xxxxx

Hope they are serving you the best Sunday dinners up there! Thank you for never forgetting me every birthday and Christmas without fail! I will miss you lovely cards you sent. Always in my thoughts. Kathryn

I can remember him taking me to a football game when I was at school in his Citroen bx, I'm sure he didn't like football but he watched the whole game and gave us a pep talk at Half time. The best bit was the ride home with him not realising he'd put the cars suspension in off road mode until we got home. Looked like a monster truck my mates loved it.