Barrie Sydney Oakes (17 Aug 1941 - 19 Jan 2019)

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Location
Bramcote Crematorium 'Serenity Chapel' Coventry Lane Bramcote NG9 3GJ
Date
5th Feb 2019
Time
2.45pm
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In loving memory of Barrie Sydney Oakes who sadly passed away on 19th January 2019

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Julie Birch wrote

5 yrs Dad! Miss you so much. Just wanted check you are happy and at peace. Love you ❤️ ❤️ RIP have fun. So long since I saw and heard you in life, but I still know your kind face and voice.

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Julie Birch wrote

Happy birthday Dad. 82 today. Love n miss you x x ❤️ 💕

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Happy Fathers day Dad x 💙 ❤️

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4 years Dad! Wish we could have just one day together, to hear your voice, see your face and laugh at all the silly things we experienced together ❤️ ♥️

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Happy birthday Dad x x ❤️ 💓 💛
Love you, miss you 😔

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Julie Birch wrote

Happy fathers day, Dad. Miss you 😔 😢 x x

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Julie Birch wrote

Aww Dad, can't believe three years have passed! Miss you sooo terribly. Hope you are happy and in peace up there. Love you always 💓 💗

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Happy 80th birthday Dad. Love and miss you so much. Special day today with us all together. Hope you like the place you have been set free to. X x ❤❤❤❤❤

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2 years today Dad. Miss everything about you, your humour, kindness, your voice and just being here! Heartbroken daughter, Julie x x

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Julie Birch wrote

Dad, I cannot believe this is the 2nd Christmas without you. Love n miss you dearly. So glad you not here to endure this global pandemic. Sending you all my love x x

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Louise Oakes wrote

One year already wow! That’s the first anniversary of every event passed now but I do believe the next future ones will hurt as much. Miss you deeply dad things have changed so much for me over the last year and I wish I could share it with you, but if this is where I have to say I love you then here goes! I love you with every breath and heart beat I have in me and I hope you will be waiting for me up there. Oh and I am looking after your flowers don’t stress 💐

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A whole year without you Dad! Gone but not forgotten. Missed but loved. Hope you are enjoying your planting, growing and harvesting in your beautiful garden up there. Love always. Julie x x

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Faye Birch wrote

You were such an amazing, selfless and inspirational man Grandad. You always took care of Grandma no matter how ill you became even when you could no longer take care of yourself. I rememeber as a child we'd come round every Wednesday and watch Midsomer Murders together and you'd always make sure the biscuit tin was full so we could dunk them in cloudy lemonade😂😂 You'd pick me up and look after me everytime I took ill or my narcolepsy was bad at primary school. I remember you'd always tuck me into bed in the spare room and put a film on for me to watch whilst I'd try to nap. Though a lot of times the film you'd choose weren't always appropriate "Here you go Faye this looks like a good kids film for you" it was only bloody Carry On Camping!😂😂😂 We'd sit on the edge of Grandma's bed whilst she watched tele holding hands and take it in turns to squeeze eachother's fingers. Last time I saw you I squeezed your fingers but you never squeezed back. I will miss you forever. I love you Grandad 💖

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  • This is lovely Faye xx

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  • Made me cry xx

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Laura Birch wrote

You know all through my childhood, right through to being an adult you NEVER failed to make me laugh, sometimes uncontrollably. You always made such an effort to take care of us when we came over, taking us out shopping and you always had our favourite biscuits and cloudy lemonade on hand! We were so lucky to have you. I'll always cherish the time you spent with my kids, watching you and Ava in your little greenhouse picking tomatoes in the summer and you giggling at her chasing Tommy up the garden, holding Ronnie for the first time and telling me and Brad how much you thought he looked like Ava. We all loved you very much and you won't ever be far from our thoughts. Rest now and be free ❤
Love you lots Grandad
Laura, Brad, Ava, Ronnie and Zeus xxxxxxx

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  • 💓 xxxxxx

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The most loving, caring man ❤️

The most loving, caring man ❤️

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Kerry Winter wrote

Grandad,
You were an amazing human being. Always a kind, caring, loving and generous gentleman without fail. You loved teasing everyone and were very good at it and your laugh was infectious. You always welcomed everyone into your home with open arms. I've never heard and still don't hear a bad word said about you. All my life I saw how much you loved your garden you treated it with as much love and care as you did people and it showed. I remember how more often then not especially if it was decent weather we'd come to visit and find you working away in your garden and remember as a kid at times helping you pick the tomatoes and green beans. Love and miss you forever x x x x x

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  • Beautiful Kerry.xx

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  • Love this one.Barrie you look so different. Its so sad that two very special men that are in this photo are no longer here with us.Both hyson green lads too.I heared the story about shipstones horses so many times and maybe in many years to come when we meet again,i will hear them all again.hope you're listening to some Gloria estefan up there Barrie ? ( see I remember our conversion all those years ago ) will try and play some for you at the Rose. Missing you xxx

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  • This is one of my favorite photos. Always makes me smile when I look at it.I can't remember what he said to me,but it was obviously something funny.I still can't believe he's no longer here.its never going to be the same without him. X

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