From Eddie Warren.
Over my life time I have experienced many heartbreaking moments, the death of my father, the deaths of my aunts and uncle as well as my cousin from cancer. I have also experienced the loss of many comrades on active service, these deaths as strange as it may seem are the easiest to deal with. They don’t hit home until we are away from the theatre of conflict.
Last Tuesday morning I woke at 1:00am here in California to see text messages from Ian, Andrew and Jean saying that my friend my mate my brother from another mother had passed away ay 7:30am in Glasgow. This was only and hour and a half before I woke. I had to drive the 60 miles to work after receiving this news. Luckily for me at that time in the morning in LA the traffic is light, I thought of my mate Phil my eyes would tear, then I would think of some of crazy stuff that had happened to him or he had done and I would start smiling.
Phil liked to remind me that I was the first guy he met when he joined 45 Commando from 40 Commando in 1973. He would tell me I was the main gate sentry when he arrived at Condor (better memory than me there Phil). I think we first really and truly bonded as good friends when we were in Northern Ireland in 1974. Phil was Zulu Company Int. I was a sniper in Recce Troop we were working some tasks from Newry, where Zulu were based. The bond that happens between Marines on active service is like no other friendship. It was then that Phil, Harry Culley and myself created our greeting and farewell od Sarramarra. This became our greeting whenever we met or phoned, it was also our way of saying goodbye.
Over the next 44 years we were as tight as any brothers can be. There are so many stories I can share and some I definitely cannot say here . The one story I will tell is in 1979 Phil and myself were the corporals on a specific task that the Royal Marines undertook in Northern Ireland. There were approx. 20 of us, Lt Ian Dunn our O.C. Sgt Yorkie Malone our detachment sergeant. Phil and I would take turns around doing 10 days onboard a RN vessel on Carlingford Loch and 10 days on the ground operating once again from Newry. On August 27th, Phil with his team were assisting a search operation in Warrenpoint docks, I was on the Carlingford Lough with my team. We were informed on the ship that there was an incident in Warrenpoint. At this time we had no idea of what was truly happening. On arriving South of the roundabout Phil came to meet me and give me a sitrep (situation report). He informed that they were on task when he heard the first bomb, he thought it was at the gates to the docks so he sent a couple of the lads to investigate. They informed Phil that it was outside the docks North of the roundabout close to Warrenpoint mansions. Phil got all the RE search team and RN personnel together with his team and went to the scene and set up the ICP (Incident Command Post). Phil had his signaler call in the casevac helicopters for the wounded. Phil then took charge of the whole situation. When the QRF (Quick Reaction Force) arrived from Support Company 2 Para in Newry our boss Lt ian Dunn was with them. Phil called the boss over. The QRF had stopped by the gatehouse to the Mansions, as Ian met Phil the second IED was detonated. It was situated in the gatehouse, the 2 land rovers of the QRF were destroyed along with their occupants including the Commanding Officer of the Queens Own Highlanders Lt Col Blair and his sgnaller who had flown in from Bessbrook having heard pf the initial incident in the Ops Room there.
The former Chief of the Defence Staff, General Jackson who was then a Major and a Company commander in 2 Para was also there. Even with these officers present at the scene, Phil was the one taking charge of the incident. Interestingly Jackson makes no mention of Phil or the Royal Marines in his recall of the incident in his book. Phil was rightfully awarded a Mention in Dispatches for his actions that day. Phil was 24 years of age at the time, it is a measure of him and the way he took command and control of the that dreadful incident (the highest casualty count to the military in Northern Ireland). Phil didn’t talk of this I know the story as I was there another testament to Phil that he kept it quiet.
I wanted to mention this story just to let everyone know the type of man he was. He was also one of the craziest people that I know and if there was something going to go wrong then it was going to happen to Phil. As mentioned previously Phil and I would do 10 days about on the Lough and on the ground. While we were on the Lough our job was to d carry out boardings of vessels coming into the Lough. These vessels varied in size from small boats to container ships heading to the docks at Warrenpoint. We were issued with immersion suits, this is basically a waterproof onesie. In the event we fell into the water we would float. Phil loved wearing his immersion suit. One day he was standing on the deck of the ship wearing his immersion suit looking at the water. Carlingford Lough is heavily infested with Jellyfish. Phil looked down saw a Jellyfish and being Phil decided he wanted to take his wrath out on this Jellyfish. So, he jumped from the deck down onto the jellyfish, forgetting, that what goes down in the water pops back up. Phil did so but now he was wearing a Jellyfish on his head. I was on patrol at the time we received a coded message to head to one of our RV’s (Rendezvous) to pick up a casualty.
We immediately headed there as quickly as possible not knowing what the situation was. As we waited on the shore at the RV, we watched as the rigid raider came speeding towards us with one person sat there with a head like a Belisha Beacon. Yes, it was Phil, as he approached me the first thing he asked was could he sit in my seat in the rover as it was protected by a windscreen. Now at that time there were daily reports published daily called NIReps. NIReps were the daily casualty reports for the Security Forces for that day. So on this day we had eg Guardsman jones 1st Battalion Welsh Guards GSW (Gun Shot Wound) to the upper chest. Fusilier Smith RRF Shrapnel injury to head IED, then Corporal McGlynn Royal Marines Jellyfish sting to the head. This managed to give the army units some chuckles at the expense of the Royal Marines cheers Phil haha.
A couple of different stories of Phil the different characters that made up my mate, my brother.
When I retired from the Corps in 1995, I remained in the South West for a few years. In 2001 I immigrated to California, I met my wife and settled here. I had lost touch with Phil on leaving the Corps. Partly my fault and partly Phil’s, Phil was a bit of a technophobe. He didn’t have email etc, I believe it was Andrew who posted on a royal Marines website Once a Marine that I managed to get a contact number for Phil once again. About 3 years ago when with my wife we were in Glasgow we met with Phil it was as if we had never been apart. he met my wife Dianna and immediately bonded with her. Last year we met up with Phil again to take him to the 35th Falkland Islands reunion to be with him over those fewds were days that will stay with me for the rest of my life. I would try to call Phil at least once a week and just basically check up on him. We had planned to go to Spean bridge in November for Remembrance Sunday. When he told me about his drastic weight loss I kept on at him to see the doc. I tried to remain optimistic right up till the end. On my last call to him his final words were as always give my love to Dianna.
To my brother we laughed together, we joked together, we cried together, we fought together, I miss you a large part of my soul has been taken,
God Bless, Sarramarra.
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