Kathleen Mary Phethean (15 Feb 1927 - 1 Aug 2018)

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Location
Wilford Hill Crematorium Loughborough Road West Bridgford NG2 7FE
Date
13th Aug 2018
Time
12.20pm
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Location
Wilford Hill Crematorium Loughborough Road West Bridgford Nottingham NG2 7FE
Date
13th Aug 2018
Time
12.20pm

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After a short illness, we've had to say goodbye to an incredible woman, Kathleen Mary Phethean...Kathy..or Katy.
She passed peacefully on 1st August 2018, in her own house, in her own bed, with Guy and Mandi holding her hands.
She enjoyed 91 years of good health and up until 2 months ago, she was walking into the village three times a day (complete with cheeky banter to the many who knew her), being completely independent at home and doing crosswords and puzzles like a demon - the sharpest brain in the family, that's for sure - and she kept that sharpness right to the end.
She was an amazingly strong woman, selfless, kind and generous with a streak of quirkiness and fun.
After her beloved husband Kenneth died in 2013, she used to love go with Mandi & Guy to her house in Spain where she would enjoy the food, wine, sun and everything she also used to enjoy at home! (ie Pointless and Eastenders!!)
She was a great, supportive, honest and proud mum, a loving and stylish 'Nana' and an exceptional great-grandparent too.
We're going to miss her daily calls and voicemails which NEVER started 'hello, it's mum/Kathy' as she always launched into exactly what was on her mind at the time!! A real character!!
Finally reunited with husband Kenneth, eldest son Richard, brother Eddie and all her long-standing friends from the war.
Safe onward journey x

Deb Winson (Kennedy) wrote

Mandi and Guy - I had no idea, until yesterday (31/08), that your wonderful mum had passed away. On behalf of Jo, Ruth and Tim, I'm sending our heartfelt condolences and sympathies. Your mum had such a vibrant personality and was one of Ruddington's truly unique characters. She had a zest for life that's for sure and certainly lived it to the full. I last saw your mum at, appropriately enough, a quiz night at Stanton on the Wolds golf club - she regaled me with the ins and outs of her 90th birthday celebrations, which she hugely enjoyed. Will any of us ever forget the Ruddington quizzes? The bi-annual task of setting the questions to try and outwit the Phetheans (which, of course, we never achieved!) became more and more challenging as the years went by - scarred us for life it did! Both your mum and dad were such prominent figures in Ruddington and very much a positive part of our lives. I think we still have some cine footage of one of the many picnics we all had in Bradgate Park - and a trip to Burghley House - will have to try and dig them out. They were good times and carefree days and we're blessed to have such fond and happy memories.
Love to you both and all your family.

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Matt Goulding wrote

I only knew Kathy for about 4 years, but she was a lovely lady with a great sense of humour and it was always a pleasure to meet her. She will be missed!

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Mark Oldham wrote

I will fondly remember Kath as her postman for many years. We would laugh and joke, her smile was that bright that at Christmas no decorations were needed on Kirk Lane as she lit the whole of it up with her smile.
Kath was so overjoyed when I had to get her to sign for a letter, it was a voucher win from "Take a Break" puzzle magazine.
Kath eagerly waited for the delivery of the Countryfile calendar, it was always a gift for Brian the gardener.
She was immensely proud of her family and again couldn't disguise her radiant smile when telling me about the recital of a member of the family at George Clooneys wedding.
Her wonderful zest for life, her friendliness has gone but will always be remembered.
God bless

Postman Mark.

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  • Thanks Mark, that's beautiful.

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Mark Oldham wrote

I will fondly remember Kath as her postman for many years. We would laugh and joke, her smile was that bright that at Christmas no decorations were needed on Kirk Lane as she lit the whole of it up with her smile.
Kath was so overjoyed when I had to get her to sign for a letter, it was a voucher win from "Take a Break" puzzle magazine.
Kath eagerly waited for the delivery of the Countryfile calendar, it was always a gift for Bruan the gardener.
She was immensely proud if her family and again couldn't disguise her radiant smile when telling me about the recital of a member of the family at George Clooneys wedding.
Her wonderful zest for life, her friendliness has gone but will always be remembered.
God bless

Postman Mark.

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  • I have resent as this had typographical errors in it.

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michelle lacroix wrote

I always looked forward to Aunt Katy and Uncle Kens visits to Canada. Many great memories, Aunt Katy always so generous with her affection and her humour. Cheers Aunt Katy. To a wonderful life!

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  • Ken and Kathy's Spanish posse, also known as Pudding Club. They cherished their trips to Nerja and the wonderful friends that accompanied them.

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  • Ken & Richard. All now reunited with Kathy.

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  • Mutual love. Granddaughter Isabel.

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  • Sister-in-law, Pam. Yes, it's Christmas.

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  • A rare meeting of the Canadian and Scottish clan.

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  • Friday? It has to be fish and chips.

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  • Nephew Jon from Canada and oldest son, Richard.

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  • With the Scotland clan at Andrew and Ellie's wedding.

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Pat and Peter Read wrote

We first met Kathy with her Husband Ken in 1981, when we journeyed to Spain together and we have been very good friends ever since..Many times we have driven down together Ken and Kathy in their camper van and we in our car aconnected by CB radio, Kathy would buzz through ..coffee time and we would then pull in to the next service area. Many meals together. Great times. Goodbye Kathy.

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  • Thank you for such a lovely tribute. x

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  • Going to see Mama Mia in the West End on her 90th was, she said, the best birthday ever.

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  • Taken in April 2018 during our last trip to her beloved Nerja, Kathy looks glamourous and healthy.

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  • Only Kathy would dare to ask Strictly's Aljaz for a jive like she did in the war! Minx!

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  • Kathy & Ken on their diamond wedding anniversary.

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  • Together again ( as Colin has just said ‘ like gin and tonic ‘ ) leaving us with some wonderful memories, both in Spain and in the UK. Will miss you both, Gillian and Colin

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