Sidney Lewis Ottey (25 Mar 1940 - 30 May 2018)

Location
Alford Crematorium Mile Cross Hill Alford LN13 9LH
Date
9th Jul 2018
Time
12pm
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In loving memory of Sidney Lewis Ottey who sadly passed away on 30th May 2018. Sidney was born in India as his father worked in the goldmines and his mother was from an army family. He himself enlisted in the Royal Engineers but was medically discharged having been wounded in action in Oman and then found to have TB. Over the years he worked in the building and transport areas . He married Carol Mander and they had 2 daughters, Shona and Cheryl. Both Carol and Sid were competitive fencers and that was how they met. In later years that competitive streak went into showing their Komondor dogs. Sid was also a great Jeremy Clarkson fan. On a higher note he was a kind and caring grandfather to his grandchildren from Cheryl and Ed , Amelia, Isabella, Byron and Lawrence and will be sadly missed by the grandchild to be due to Shona and Richard.

Cheryl Ottey wrote

We miss you and your catchphrases - won’t repeat them here xxx

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Cheryl, Edward, Amelia, Isabella and Byron lit a candle
Cheryl, Ed, Amelia, and Byron lit a candle
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We all miss you dad. Tabby asks why you don't visit from the sky. It never gets easier, not seeing you xxxxx

We all miss you dad. Tabby asks why you don't visit from the sky. It never gets easier, not seeing you xxxxx

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They just missed out on you. I will tell then every story you told me even if it drives them crackers. You would have loved them.

They just missed out on you. I will tell then every story you told me even if it drives them crackers. You would have loved them.

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Thinking of you at Xmas x

Thinking of you at Xmas x

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Shona Clapson wrote

Second Christmas without you, dad. Wish you hadn't left me. Miss you every second of every day. I wish I could have saved you xxx

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  • Thank you Shona. I went today and put all the things we had.

    Posted by Carol on 24/12/2019 Report abuse
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Sidney Lewis RIP

Sidney Lewis RIP

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Shona Clapson wrote

You should be here. I miss you so much, dad. Who’s going to watch Mary Poppins with me at Christmas or laugh at Gonzo in Muppet Christmas Carol? Really wish I could talk to you again. xxxxxxx

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Shona Clapson wrote

I miss you so much. You broke my heart leaving us xxxxxx

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The time you loved.

The time you loved.

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Your colours. Love me and Richard xxxxxxx

Your colours. Love me and Richard xxxxxxx

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Lovely flowers for a last goodbye

Lovely flowers for a last goodbye

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Goodbye husband you had a good send off

Goodbye husband you had a good send off

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Shona Clapson wrote

Final goodbye today, dad. I hope that I did you proud. I miss you every second. Just doesn't feel real that I won't see you again. Love you so much.

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  • Great flowers

    Posted by Carol on 10/07/2018 Report abuse
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Some of your flowers from those who love you xxx

Some of your flowers from those who love you xxx

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Once upon a Christmas

Once upon a Christmas

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Birthday 2014

Birthday 2014

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From 1985 Kent County Championships

From 1985 Kent County Championships

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  • I was there too, Carol

    Posted by Carol on 4/07/2018 Report abuse
  • You blooming weren't there mum if you were supposedly having me!!! #adopted.

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As it used to be

As it used to be

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She is still there

She is still there

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Last trip to the sea. Can’t believe I won’t see you again. I miss you lots xxx

Last trip to the sea. Can’t believe I won’t see you again. I miss you lots xxx

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Taking you out for your birthday. You are everything but the afternoon tea. 😂 Miss you always.

Taking you out for your birthday. You are everything but the afternoon tea. 😂 Miss you always.

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Ruby Wedding Anniversary

Ruby Wedding Anniversary

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Family foto

Family foto

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I hope they are now together again xxx

I hope they are now together again xxx

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