In loving memory of Natasha Elizabeth Victoria Abrahart, 20, who sadly passed away on 30th April 2018. It feels so wrong, having to write an obituary for one so young, and very few people will understand the immense pain and heartache that her family and friends are suffering. The circumstances surrounding her death are tragic. It is difficult to imagine things being so bad that she opted to end her own life, seeing no other way forward. Natasha had a great many friends, and was loved by all of them, perhaps more than she ever realised. She had other key strengths: being independent, self-reliant, well-organised and very good at keeping on top of things. Natasha was also a good listener and was always there for other people, but was herself a very private person, with a strong focus placed on solving any practical problems that came her way. She was, indeed, extremely reluctant to ask for help – she invariably managed without it. Unfortunately, over the past few months, her determination to sort things out for herself, had failed to resolve the numerous simultaneous challenges that faced her.
The kindness and support that her family have received from longstanding friends has been absolutely amazing. The beautiful words and cards expressing how much you care have brought tears to our eyes.
Natasha lives on in our memories - our lives are so much richer for having known her.
"The song is ended, but the melody lingers on…"
Mum, Dad and Duncan
I never knew this young person with the contented smile. I can imagine she had a lovely sincere nature. My youngest was born on 2nd Nov 97. My heart goes out to you. I will never forget your name Natasha. Your beautiful smile bore into me and will never leave. The 8th Nov was a good day for humanity and should have remained so for a lifetime. A shy young women lost to all of us.
I listened to your tragedy on the radio today and cannot begin to imagine your pain but also your pride for your daughter. Unfortunately Universities these days are more focused on business than welfare, maybe there is an opportunity to do something to change this as young people like your daughter should never be put in this position it is a heartbreaking travesty.
Hello.. I have only just heard about the tragic death of your daughter Natasha. My heartfelt condolences to you. I have 2 teenagers eager to attend university and I am concerned about the pressures that will bring. I'm sure that Natasha's tragic death will ensure that other vulnerable students receive the help and support they need to succeed at university.
Kind Regards, Nick
Natasha was a big part of our flat last year and I can't imagine it without her. She was a lovely, caring girl and I've yet to meet someone as gifted at baking as her. I'll miss her a lot but will always be thankful of the many happy memories I'll keep of us as a flat.
A lovely picture of a young Natasha and Duncan
Natasha and Duncan Jesse Gray Primary
A lovely picture of a young Natasha and Duncan
Natasha and Duncan Jesse Gray Primary
BBQ Summer of 2015
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