Gary Andrew Todd (14 Oct 1965 - 7 May 2018)
Funeral Director
- Location
- West Essex Golf Club Bury Road, Chingford, London E4 7QL
- Date
- 23rd May 2018
- Time
- 1.30pm
Sadly Gary passed away on Monday 7th May after a painful battle of Sarcoma cancer. There was never a time that Gary didn’t have something to fight and over come. From 3 massive lung operations, chest wall resection, continous chemotherapy whether IV or tablets, radiotherapy, passing out, double pneumonia, clinical trials and sadly the toughest battle at the end that made him so incredibly weak. Throughout Gary’s 3 year battle he was my warrior and fought it with everything he had. No human being should go through what he did. It was a battle from start to finish as he never had a time when he heard good news.
Gary was everything a person should be, he was the best person I have ever met. No nastiness in him. Always put others first, friendly, caring, loving, funny, extremely talented, dedicated to his family, generous, independent, loyal and above all my soul mate who I’ve lost forever.
We were blessed to have a good life together and make 3 beautiful children who are going to carry their dads legacy.
We want to celebrate Gary's life as he made an impact on so many people whether through family, friends or work.
Please can you respect that we dont want anyone wearing black unless its just the bottom half. If you can please wear a block colour and try to avoid heavy floral or patterned prints.
For flowers we are asking for family flowers only and for them to be sent direct to the funeral directors as we would like the car filled with the flowers. For friends there will be a just giving page set up on this page and you can donate if you wish too.
Can everyone please bring a single red steamed flower which you will be able to lay down upon Gary as your leaving the crematorium. This represents your love to Gary and his love for Liverpool!
You will see above there is a link asking if you are attending. I would be grateful if you would respond so I have an idea how many people are coming and how many in your party are attending.
There are many ways you can leave messages for the family on this link. You can post your own individual message, light a candle and post as many photos as you like. This link will be live for a year so you can re enter information as and when you would like to. This is a massive contributor for my family healing processes. We will get great comfort from reading your messages and seeing photos of Gary that we might not of seen before. After the year is up, all this information gets collated and is presented to the kids and me in a beautiful bound book. Please help be part of this wonderful keepsake for us all.
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