Duncan Farrell (24 Jun 1963 - 5 Feb 2018)
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In loving memory of Duncan Farrell who sadly passed away on 5th February 2018
Duncan was born on 24th June 1963 in Glasgow Scotland, to parents William and Violet Farrell. Duncan was the youngest of their children, he has two brothers and one sister. He has five nieces and 3 nephews, plus many great nieces and nephews. He is brother in law to some, a true friend to others and a much loved husband and soul mate to Sharon.
His family moved from Glasgow to Telford Shropshire, where Duncan’s mum later moved to Nottingham following the death of his dad. Duncan joined her a little later as he stayed behind with Kath and Bill until he had finished his education at Madeley Court school.
Duncan would babysit for Kath and Bill and entertain his nephews with the human typewriter. Which involved a great deal of laughter, sitting on their legs and pretending their stomach was a keyboard. When he came to the end of the typing line, he would push his nephew’s head to the left with his right hand and say ‘ding’ fun and laughter had by them all. Around this time he didn’t like being called Uncle Duncan as he said it made him feel old. This fun would carry for many years onto his younger family members all loving the fun with ‘Uncle Dunc’
Earlier memories of Duncan were building go-carts out of pieces of wood and old pram or bike wheels. There were also recollections of talking Duncan into letting Linda and Carol have a go on his much loved chopper bike, when he’d been told not to. When one of the girls fell off, boy did he get into trouble.
There are also memories of doing a concert in grandma and granddad's living room in Telford along with Duncan and Dave.
Duncan and his nieces Carol and Linda were always together, on one occasion when they stayed out one night at a party Duncan as the oldest got the blame, but there is more to this story and he was not the one to blame, he tried his best to make amends by sending his sister Linda a bouquet of flowers, it took a lot of grovelling to get over this, but they were soon up to their tricks together again. These two nieces later became known to Duncan as his ‘Kray Twins’ which he loved to tell all about there tales, not to the love of Carol or Linda!
Duncan loved weird and wonderful concoctions he loved to dip cold toast into his tea whilst sitting on a Saturday morning watching Tizwas and banana sandwiches dunked in hot chocolate for supper all fond memories.
After leaving school he worked for many years in various jobs from Supervisor at Daunts, Regional Sales Developer at Golden Wonder, Team Leader at Mayfair vending, sales rep for the Evening Post, Children's Worker with children and families in the County, to being the manager in Nottingham City Homecare of staff teams working with adults with dementia.
Duncan returned to education at college during his working life and succeeded in studying and passing his CACHE Diploma in Childcare and Education in 2002 and later went onto gaining his NVQ 4 in Registered Managers Award on 2008.
However he found his true vocation in life in his many roles as Santa both for charities, local services, family and friends and the County Council, where he would always state if he could do this role every day he would of. His passion and commitment in this role was evident with all the families he met and brought a Christmas cheer too, all the people who only came to see him year after year if it was going to be the ‘happy jolly one they loved and had seen the previous year’. This passion did not just take place at work but extended to him decorating the whole house in Christmas lights and cheer much to the love of all the local children when the outside lights were turned on. He would even decorate his car and drive around with tinsel, fairy lights and decorations on, loving every minute especially when it brought a smile to passers by.
Duncan and Sharon met at one of the ‘Weir infamous New Years Eve Party's’ where he proceeded to ‘annoy her fondly’ all night, and the rest they say is history!
Together for 26 years, they married in 2011. The night Duncan proposed to Sharon the family were out for a celebration in Sherwood. He borrowed a ring and proposed, and as you know, the story unfolds into one lovely devoted couple. Duncan planed the whole of their wedding, how super he is, that’s one devoted individual.
They enjoyed so many happy times together, Honeymooning in Kenya, long breaks in ‘Bony Scotland’ to walking Gus on the beach.
‘Boo’ is always the life and sole of any event, he loves singing and dancing, laughing and crying, playing tricks and keeping secrets – say no more Wendy with her Lion King show and Linda with the ‘No Kilt for my wedding’ cover ups, but all in the name of true love. They spent all their time together and are true sole mates forever
Unfortunately Duncan's health began to deteriorate and only after long lengthy assessments and stays in hospital it was deemed he required a transplant. He was admitted to the Queens Medical Centre on 5th December 2017 and suffered from sepsis, stomach infections, liver and kidney failure but recovered to a level to be transferred to Cambridge on 5th January 2018. There he was under further assessments for a transplant where his health improved slightly but only to deteriorate again and he suffered from infections, anaemia, and a heart attack which led to chronic kidney failure.
Sadly Duncan passed away on 5th February 2018 in Addenbrookes hospital, Cambridge in the arms of his wife and family.
Forever he will be in our hearts, your wonderful memory is kept, to love, to treasure and never forget, my true love and my Mr Christmas, love Sharon.
Duncan Farrell
24th June 1963 – 5th February 2018
Now at peace in the arms of his loved ones gone before him.
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A great memory of us both chilling with friends, at a music festival laughing, joking and having fun together xxx
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Imagine if I was given one moment, just a single slice of my past.
I could hold it close forever, and that moment would always last.
I'd put the moment in a safe, within my heart.
I could open it when I wanted, and only I would know the code.
I could choose a time of laughing, a time of happiness and fun.
I could choose a time that tried me through everything we've done.
I sat and thought about what moment would always make me smile.
One that would always push me to walk that extra mile.
If I'm feeling sad and low, if I'm struggling with what to do,
I can go and open my little safe and watch our moment through.
There are moments I can think of that would lift my spirits every time.
The moments when you picked me up, when the road was hard to climb.
For me to only pick one moment to cherish, save and keep
Is proving really difficult, as we've gathered up a heap!
I've dug deep inside my heart, found the safe and looked inside
There was room for lots of moments; in fact, hundreds if I tried.
I'm building my own little library, embedded in my heart.
For all the moments spent with you before you had to part.
I can open it up whenever I like, pick a moment and watch it through.
My little library acts as a promise I'll never ever forget you Boo,
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Together on honeymoon in Kenya xxx
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I read this poem and it made me think of you Boo..
I have come to the end of my road, and the sun has set for me
Now I am gone, release me, let me go, its all part of a master plan
I have so many things to see and do, as I step on the road to home.
You mustn't tie yourself to me with too many tears, but be thankful we had so many good years.
I gave you my love, and you can only guess
How much you've given me in happiness.
I thank you for the love that you have shown,
But now it is time I travelled on alone.
So grieve for me a while, if grieve you must,
Then let your grief be comforted by trust.
It is only for a while that we must part,
So treasure the memories within your heart.
I won't be far away for life goes on.
And if you need me,
Just call me and I will be there.
When you are lonely and sick at heart
Go to the friends we know.
Laugh at all the things we used to do
Miss me, but let me go.
Though you can't see or touch me, I will be near.
And if you listen with your heart, you'll hear,
All my love around you soft and clear.
And then, when you come this way alone,
I'll greet you with a smile and a 'Welcome Home'.
Love you always xxx
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Dunc and I xxx
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To my uncle Duncan The day God called your name it broke my heart in two But heaven needed a Angel and the one he picked was you I just wish he could of waited and let you stay with me But you have left memories in my heart and that is where there always be I wish I could rewind the clock or make it turn real slow I could have hugged you one more time before you had to go No matter how much time will pass I miss you so much every day Keep shining bright in heaven so you can light my way God bless you I miss you so much uncle Duncan xxxxx
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My Darling Boo xxx
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My Darling Boo…
When God saw you were getting tired
And a cure was not to be
He put his arms around you
And whispered come to me
He didn’t like what you were going through
And he gave you rest
His garden must be beautifual
He only takes the best
And when we saw you sleeping
So peaceful and free from pain
We wouldn’t wish you back
To suffer that again
On this day a year ago we had to say goodbye
As you took your final breath
It has to be said that garden must be beautifual
Because you were the best
I will always love you xxx
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I love you xxx
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Amazing memories xxxx
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In camp on Safari in Kenya xxx
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Thank you Boo
For loving me true
For being no one but you
For holding my hand
And helping me stand
Thank you Boo
For never giving up
And never getting stuck
In the dark times
Where only love shines
Thank you Boo
Now and forever
Remember, I'll never
Stop loving you
What I say is true;
I mean it from my heart
Even when it's dark
I will always love you
Thank you Boo
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Family celebrations xxx
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Happy on holiday xxx
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Love and smiles xxx
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Just checking, cheeky Toy Story ones xxx
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Dunc taking five mins xxx
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Always a smile xxx
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On our first holiday together in Ayr xxx
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Out at a party together xxx
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Our amazing Wedding day, which Dunc said was his proudest day xxx
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What amazing day this was xx
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Boo..
I don't think you will ever fully understand how you've touched my life and made me who I am.
I don't think you could ever know just how truly special you are, that even on the darkest nights you are my brightest star.
I don't think you will ever fully comprehend how you've made my dreams come true or how you've opened my heart to love and the wonders it can do.
You've allowed me to experience something very hard to find: unconditional love that exists in my body, soul, and mind.
I know we shared such love, but I'm sure you'll never realize you've been my will to live.
You are an amazing person, and without you I don't know where I'd be.
Having you in my life completed and fulfilled every part of me.
Love always
Your Babs
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Partying in Lanzarote xxx
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Many years ago xxx
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Dunc, the life and soul of any party this time on holiday with our friends in Ibiza xxx
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Together and happy xxx
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Not sure who was training whom but I’m sure Gus won! xxx
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Who could not love these 2 as they just loved everyone xx
A great memory of us both chilling with friends, at a music festival laughing, joking and having fun together xxx
Together on honeymoon in Kenya xxx
Dunc and I xxx
My Darling Boo xxx
I love you xxx
Amazing memories xxxx
In camp on Safari in Kenya xxx
Family celebrations xxx
Happy on holiday xxx
Love and smiles xxx
Just checking, cheeky Toy Story ones xxx
Dunc taking five mins xxx
Always a smile xxx
On our first holiday together in Ayr xxx
Out at a party together xxx
Our amazing Wedding day, which Dunc said was his proudest day xxx
Partying in Lanzarote xxx
Many years ago xxx
Dunc, the life and soul of any party this time on holiday with our friends in Ibiza xxx
Together and happy xxx
Not sure who was training whom but I’m sure Gus won! xxx
Love always xxx
Together at a Forest match, Dunc won the competition for the signed football too xxx
Many years ago on the log flume xxx
Dunc trekking across Kenya xxx
Dunc taking part in the warrior dance in camp xxx
Well its true, we all loved the Womble’s xxx
Look no hands xxx
My very own Masai Warrior xxx
Together on our amazing honeymoon in Kenya xxx
Propped up snoring, fast asleep on Gus’s bed xxx
Any excuse and Dunc would be up dancing xxx
What were these two up to! xxx
How cute xxx
Out and about with Olivia xxx
Happy as always xxx
Boo loved to sing xxx
On honeymoon, together in Kenya on Safari with Dunc holding the spare just in case the crocodiles moved xxx
Happily in love as always xxxx
Cheeky xxx
Brothers xxx
Memories from Dublin xxx
Celebrations xxx
And play some more xxx
And play xxx
Always wanting to play xxx
The big catch xxx
Winter walks xxx
And more knees xxx
How cheeky is that smile xxx
Oh those knees! xxx
Together x
The thinker xxx
Robin Hood, Robin Hood xxx
Brotherly games xxx
Howdy partners xxx
It’s a stick up xxx
Where did those coats come from! xxx
Fancy dress again for Children in Need xxx
On our return visit to the Burns Memorial many years later xxx
On our first visit to the Burns Memorial many years ago xxx
Fun for some! xxx
Richard and Jen's wedding x
Duncan meets Des and wins the ball x
Weir celebrations x
Family celebrations and one of many Hawaiian Shirts xxx
Love always xxx
Involved in the joke as usual xxx
Celebrating Dunc’s Birthday whilst visiting The Burns Cottage xxx
The brother’s together again xxx
The brother’s together xxx
Family celebrations xxx
Dunc with the baby of the family and one of his proudest moments xxxx
Always the joker xxx
Many years ago together on the Brig o' Doon crossing the River Doon xxx
Santa goes everywhere x
Santa saves the day x
Santa chilling with Robin Hood x
Like son ………...
Like father …………………….
Here comes Santa Claus xxxx
Santa in his grotto x
‘Its not Christmas until you see the Coca Cola add on TV’ I remember Boo you said this every year, this meant the start of Christmas celebrations for you.
Happy times x
Family Holidays x
Even more happy, party times you loved x
Trick or Treat x
Halloween party time x
One of the many outfits you wore to work on this special day x
House decorations from top to bottom as always x
Dunc with his ‘Kray twins’ xxx
Forever Scottish xxx
My dancing Scotsman xxxxx
And always laughing xxxxx
Always wanting to have fun xxx
'Cheat' at crazy golf me never lol xxx
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Happy birthday Duncan love and miss you your brother Bill and Kath. X.
Duncan December 1971 at bill and Kath’s wedding
Duncan December 1971 at bill and Kath’s wedding
Duncan December 1971 at bill and Kath’s wedding
Birthday games and celebrations in Ibiza x
Birthday celebrations in Lanzarote x
Another birthday celebration in Wales x
Birthday celebrations in Dublin x
Birthday celebrations in London x
Birthday celebrations whilst on holiday in Scotland x
One of many amazing birthdays x
All those years ago x
Family times
Duncan and his mum x
Sailor boy x
Always smiling and happy together x
Happy times on holiday in Ibiza x
Dancing away as always on holiday x
Always wanting to dance x
Party time!
Duncan with Gus x
Happy as always x
My handsome Scotsman xxx
Happy times x
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My Husband Boo x
Always happy together x
Duncan with Gus x
Family fun!
The Brothers
Our Burns picture x
Happy together x
Mum and Dunc
Mum, Dad and Dunc
Boo and I xxx
As he shouted 'Yes did it' x
My first photo I took and memory of Boo all those years ago. Xxx
Our amazing wedding day. February 12th 2011
School picture all those years ago with that cheeky grin. X
Dunc's love of all things 'Toy Story' will live 'to Infinity and Beyond'
In loving memory of Duncan Farrell aged 54. 24th June 1963 – 5th February 2018. An amazing man, loving husband and soul mate, son, brother and uncle, brother-in-law, son-in-law and true friend.
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