I didn’t have a standard up bringing; I was raised by my mum in my grandparents houses. This, in my eyes, meant I had 5 parents and my Grandad Keane was, therefore, one of my Dads.
I spent time with him nearly everyday up until I was 14. I would come home after school and we would watch cartoons sat in front of the fire together.
Over the past year I had the opportunity to help look after my grandad whilst his health and mobility declined. In the early days it wasn’t easy but by the back end we had a routine together and he allowed himself to be comfortable with receiving my care. My grandad trusted me. By doing this he taught me to have faith in myself and he made me feel like I had worth. We looked forward to seeing each other and he always wore a smile for me.
I feel an overwhelming need to explain to the world how thankful I am. I’m thankful for having a grandad who treated me like his own son. I’m thankful for the fact the past year has given me a mind full of memories that I can treasure and look back on. Mostly, I’m thankful to be full of pride at being your grandson.
One of the last clear, coherent things you said to me was “Hello, Josh” and that was all I needed. For you to see me and acknowledge me right there with you.
I hope you left some of yourself behind because I think you’ve taken a bit of me with you, grandad.
No, I didn’t have a standard up bringing; I was raised by my mum in my grandparents houses. But I wouldn’t have had it any other way.
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