I've been asked to post the reading from the celebration of Dad's life on Thursday. Here it is ....
Family isn’t always blood. Family is the people you want in your life, who want you in theirs; the one’s who accept you for who you are and love you no matter what. Just because you weren’t born into a family, it doesn’t mean that you don’t love them the same or that they love you any differently to as if you were their own.
Dad was a family man. Having been brought up in a loving family himself, he moved in with his Mum, Nanny Radford, when him and Mum got married and it wasn’t long before they started a family of their own. As kids, we were like any other family, we all had our roles – Julie was the sensible, clever one; Trudy the naughty one; me the joker and entertainer and Jason, the Blue Eyed Boy. Mum looked after the house, taking jobs that fitted in with the family life, whilst Dad worked hard to ensure that we were provided for. He took on additional jobs, delivering coal and pop to pay for the family holidays.
We loved the holidays! First Yarmouth and later, Cornwall and Devon. Dad loved his cars as much as he loved his family and I remember the prized white Ford Cortina where we’d all cram in the back with Jason on someone’s knee. And as the family expanded, boyfriends, husbands and grandchildren joined us on these holiday…. and still, we’d all cram in the back, tumbling out at the caravan site. We’d leave home early in the morning to drive to Cornwall, Dad driving through the night. We’d stop ½ way at Frome, so that Dad would take a rest and get a bit of sleep before we continued the journey.
Then there were the evenings entertainments – we’d all get dressed up, Dad in his suit and tie, and head off to the Club House. I first learnt to ‘dance’ at one of those club houses – with Julie and Trudy - to a song called Young Girl. It may have been more putting one foot in front of another at the time, learning to really dance was when Dad taught me how to rock and roll. And to see Mum and Dad rock and roll a couple of years ago at James and Julies wedding was a real treat! I even went to dance lessons once, but I could never dance to Rock and Roll like I could with Dad at the Working Men’s club on a Christmas or New Year’s Eve. What would we all give to have one last dance with you now Dad?
I am proud to have been considered your daughter Dad and I’m proud to be here with my brother and sisters so that we can say Goodbye to Our Dad together. Thank you for all you did for us and all you taught us – we will always miss you. Sleep Well Dad.
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