Thank you to everyone who attended Arthur's funeral today and the reception afterwards. It was a true celebration of his life. I shall remember my Uncle Arthur for his warmth, his humour, his generosity, his thoughtfulness, his independence of mind and his indomitable spirit. I shall never forget the support that he – and Joan- provided for me and my Mum after my Dad and brother died so soon after a wonderful family holiday at Widemouth Bay when my Dad and Arthur had had us all in fits of laughter. It was a privilege to do whatever I could for him myself in later years. When the opportunity came, in 1990, to move with my job to Chertsey the fact that we would be so close, living in Chobham, to Joan and Arthur was a major plus. Arthur became like a grandfather to my daughters, Paula, Jennifer & Adèle – their own grandfathers having died long before they were born. He saw them grow up and they were devoted to him. He was always interested in what they were doing and particularly enjoyed hearing about their travels to parts of the world he hadn’t seen although he and Joan did holiday extensively in Europe. He was fascinated by new technology and particularly the wonders of the internet. He showed me a letter that Joan had written to him when he was away during the war. In the letter Joan mentions going to see a Don Ameche film and how much Arthur looked like Don Ameche. I was able to google the film and photos of Don Ameche for him – and yes he did look like Don Ameche, described on Wikipedia as a handsome, debonair, dapper, moustachioed leading man. Yes that was Arthur! He was a keen angler, preferred rugby to football, he loved helping us to count the money after Macmillan Cancer Support charity collections, the weather was always perfect in Horsell however much it was raining in Chobham, he had never had a speeding or parking ticket in his life, he never took a driving test, he knew his way round Surrey like the back of his hand, he enjoyed going out for a decent pub meal, popping into ‘Charlie’s Place’ on the way to Windsor. Hardly a moment goes by without us noting some connection to Arthur – places visited, interests shared, things he enjoyed – his passing leaves a huge void but one that is filled constantly with the happiest of memories. A very special person who will deeply missed.
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