Doris Alice Burns (26 Jan 1927 - 6 Sep 2017)

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Lincoln crematorium Washingborough Road Lincoln LN4 1EF
Date
29th Sep 2017
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12.30pm
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In loving memory of Doris Alice Burns (nee Guy) who sadly passed away on 6th September 2017. Doris was the fourth of five children to Henry and Winifred Guy in 1927 Liverpool. Charles Lindbergh was yet to fly the Atlantic and Al Jolson to appear in the first 'Talkie' movie. She saw many changes and outlived all her siblings, Ronnie, Eric, Marjorie, Brenda by a wide margin. She had many interesting tales of Wartime Liverpool and she met Stan as a 'teenager' at the Mitchell Memorial Hall part of the Liverpool City Mission. They married there in 1949. Their first child, Brian, was born in March 1950. Evidently it was a somewhat traumatic birth; Doris not was allowed to see her child for the first three days. Nevertheless they went on to have three daughters; Linda, Gaynor and Karen who were to form a very happy close knit family. Her eldest brother, Ronnie, who was profoundly deaf, left the family at an early stage to be raised by the Deaf Society Residential School. Eric was a highly skilled tool maker and Marjorie her elder sister and close friend lived locally. The youngest sibling, Brenda, was vivacious and socially successful member of Wirral Society before her untimely death at age 44yrs. Doris's remaining siblings died in their 60’s Doris’s most endearing and enduring friend was her sister-in-law Jean Burns until her early death some 42 years ago. Although it wasn't unexpected, Doris' daughter, Karen, had been suffering from MS since age 14; the death of Karen at age 50 was the cause of immeasurable grief to Stan and Doris. Doris never got over the loss of her close friends and relatives and to the end recalled various fond memories of them all.
Throughout these early happy and sad days Doris stayed in what was her deceased parents’ house 5 Porchester Road, part of the infamous Norris Green estate. The bulk of this housing stock was demolished in the 90's to make way, eventually, for an extremely attractive and imaginative estate. Sadly the estate suffered badly from the near feral nature of criminal elements of some of the community there. Thankfully, Doris was not to experience this as in 1992 she moved with Stan to their present bungalow in Metheringham, 10 miles south of Lincoln. She was very proud of both her bungalow and Lincoln itself for the last 25yrs of her life. Whilst Stan enjoyed venturing in to bell ringing in the local churches, Doris went to art classes. Metheringham has been both fortunate and kind for Doris and Stan. When Stan died in 2010 her world fell apart and her health deteriorated but not before she was befriended by Maureen the local taxi lady who was to be a focal point in her life. Maureen provided much more than a taxi service and Doris valued her support and friendship right up until the end. The end, when it came, was in the invaluable 'The Cottage' care home. 'The Cottage' staff were extremely compassionate and looked after Doris in extremely challenging conditions.
And so ends the story of the last of the Guy family, Doris Alice Burns (nee Guy)

We have taken the donations into the funeral home, there was a total of £174.60 and would just like to say thank you for this.

Narrisa Sketchley donated £20 in memory of Doris
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Gaynor Southerton wrote

I once read, I think in a card of condolence, "To live in the hearts left behind is not to die" Mum will always be in our hearts so will live forever. Night night, God Bless Mum xx

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Sarah Southerton wrote

I always think of Nan whenever I have a mint aero: that particular chocolate bar takes me back to a trip I took with her on the bus to see Auntie Lill - Nan bought me my first one on the way back, and I remember admiring the green foil it used to come in on the journey back to Porchester Road.

Food is a big part of my memories of Nan: being greeted with chips as we arrived late evening in Liverpool after a long train or car journey from Devon; walking around the Broadway market where she seemed to know everyone, and milk and biscuits before bed (a treat particular to staying at Nan's, whether in Liverpool or Metheringham!)

That's also true of Grandad - him buying us sweets when we went with him to get the paper at the corner shop, and his famous knack for making empire biscuits covered in chocolate and hundreds and thousands.

So it's perhaps fitting that one of my favourite photos is of them at the dining table in their beloved bungalow. It was where we would play the card game Newmarket for buttons, and their glass coffee table was where Linda and I would play pairs, peering underneath to find the matching cards and completely defeating the object of the game!

And then there were games in the garden. In Liverpool that included playing among the apple tree branches as granddad cut it down, and with the kids next door - on one occasion throwing a ball of play dough that got stuck on the roof of the extension! In Metheringham, that meant riding on bikes and scooters in the street. And in both places, the swing seat was a key fixture in the back garden, and it was also often a chance to catch up with cousins - whether Heather Louise and Jenni, or Hannah and Wendy.

I'll of course miss them both terribly but there are so many fond memories. But I can take great comfort in thinking that after seven years apart my Nan and Grandad have now been reunited.

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  • This is a lovely tribute. Such amazing memories

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Linda Southerton wrote

My beautiful Nana represents for me some of my happiest childhood memories. The summer weeks I used to spend with her and Grandad gave me some incredibly special moments and while they may both be gone, the memories they helped create will be with me forever. Lots and lots of love nana, you will be forever missed. xxxxxxx

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Narrisa Sketchley wrote

Although I never met Doris, Gaynor often told me happy stories. We all send our condolences.

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Mum's Art School Certificate - she was really proud of this and loved her job as window dresser

Mum's Art School Certificate - she was really proud of this and loved her job as window dresser

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Not sure how clear this will be.  Mum, Dad and Aunty Jean, cannot remember the name of the couple with them although possibly Mr Pitt? Can anyone enlighten?

Not sure how clear this will be. Mum, Dad and Aunty Jean, cannot remember the name of the couple with them although possibly Mr Pitt? Can anyone enlighten?

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Brian, Linda, Gaynor and Karen Norris Green Park

Brian, Linda, Gaynor and Karen Norris Green Park

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Mum, I miss you so much but you are at peace now. God Bless from your loving Daughter Gaynor and Granddaughters Sarah and Linda

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Mum I  think around her 90th birthday - a lovely photograph taken I believe by my Sister Linda

Mum I think around her 90th birthday - a lovely photograph taken I believe by my Sister Linda

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  • Yes I took this photo when Hannah and I took Mum out for afternoon tea (August 2016) which she really enjoyed.

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  • Love this photo Brian, I have this one at home. Makes me smile.x

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Doris with her husband, of over 60 years, Stan who sadly passed away in 2010

Doris with her husband, of over 60 years, Stan who sadly passed away in 2010

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  • I have always loved this picture

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  • A beautiful photo of Two beautiful people . Much love always, love niece Heather

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Doris's daughters: Gaynor, Karen (deceased) and Linda

Doris's daughters: Gaynor, Karen (deceased) and Linda

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  • Dresses made by Mum

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Sister-in-law Jean Burns (deceased), Son Brian, Doris and sister Marjorie (deceased)

Sister-in-law Jean Burns (deceased), Son Brian, Doris and sister Marjorie (deceased)

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  • Teignmouth Beach if I am not mistaken. We used to travel down overnight in convoy. This before the M5 I think, journey through the Wye Valley. I remember Dad

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  • I remember Dad trying to get as much fuel in the car from a petrol station in the middle of the night not knowing when we might find another garage open

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Stan in 1961

Stan in 1961

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Doris with her 3 girls at St Annes

Doris with her 3 girls at St Annes

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  • Dresses made by Mum I believe

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Doris in her younger years

Doris in her younger years

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