Pauline Annette TITHERLEY (29 Oct 1953 - 17 Sep 2016)

hi mamma is been a year since you past away hope you are looking down on me I miss you lots and lots goodbye never forgotten I love you ever so much xxxxxx

its been almost a year since you've been gone. I still think about every single day. I am doing well hope u are proud of me. I miss u lots. I love u lots.

I am going to miss your laugh your smile everything about you mamma cant believe you have gone I miss you so much fly fly fly to the sky don't look back your my hero no matter what I am going miss our talks our laughs and I am going to brave and strong for you mamma and going to get my self home then a hero comes a long that's you that hero's lays in you I hope a angel is watching over you I wish I could of be there more often I enjoyed it when you come to visit me in hospital I cry for you everyday when we both listen to our song together like I believe I can fly by r-Kelly like footprints in the sand that was your favourite one I miss you ever so much all I wish is you to come back to me mamma xxxxxxxx Lauren titherley

On the morning of Saturday the 17th September 2016, We all got that call no body likes, the call inform you that your Mum, Sister, Aunty, Mammar, and Great Mammar has sadly past away, peacefully in her sleep.

The world has now come to a compleat stand still, your heart has now been crushed, and your life is so empy and lost.

We cry, we sob, we seem to blame our selves, the words we say “If only”. But the time was here for our closest and most precious family member to leave our side, and let us lead the way for the next generation, for us to teach them what we was taught, to lead them the same as we was led, to encourage and love the same way we was, and at this moment, we are in so much sadness and pain, we feel and say
“We cant go on”.

But she will all ways be by our sides and in our hearts, we have all the amazing memories in which we will always look back on and cherish.

So for now it is only a good bye, and as Day by Day seems harder, Month by Month amd Year by Year, it will get easier.

We will always look back and smile, laugh and shed a tear, and by doing this thay will always be near, and there memories will always live on.

Pauline is my mother in law and i called her my Witch, and i am her Wizard.

I now have the role of husband and mother, to your one and only beautifull daughter Alison, who i love so greatly with all my life and forever, and i hope to be a great mother to her just as you was.

we had loads of laughs, joke, chats, and i have great and wonderfull memorys of you mum.

You will all ways be greatly missed, and you will away be in my heart.

So mum sleep tight and rest in peace, you are now free from pain and suffering, and with other members of familly, untill we meet again.

love you forever mum from.
Marvin your Wizard
xxx

Mum, I have so many memories and it's hard to know we're to start, when you was pregnant with me you got struck by lightning and uncle Bob came home to surprise you which put you into labour with me, you gave birth to me on 06/12/1972 and that's when all troubles started lol, we have lived in a few different places through the years, Bulwell Hall Estate, balloon woods, Arnold, Basford, Crabtree Farm Estate, Bulwell Hall Estate, Snapewood than I flew the nest and left home, when I moved out, you came to see me everyday for 8yrs we used to go shopping together have holidays at grandads chalet in Mablethorpe, go for days out, I gave you 3 beautiful granddaughters which you adored and spoilt you would do anything for me and them, than in 2013 you was given a great granddaughter, over the past few years you have stayed with us at the caravan which you always enjoyed, about 3weeks before you left us you had stayed with us at the caravan for 5days, in which we really enjoyed having you, we spoke about all the old times, Marvin took you home, and you had sometime with Jenna and your cat T, on the 15th September 2016 we surprised you by dropping in and giving you your DVD player, than I got a phone call on the 17th September 2016 to say you had passed away peacefully at home, I got in bed with you and cuddled you so much just wishing you would wake up, mum I'm so glad I got to dress you, the day of your funeral came 12th October 2016 and I came to see you again, I gave you a big long kiss and said my last goodbye, I helped to put your lid on and screw it on, the funeral went really well, myself, Marvin, Karl and Kelly walked you into the Crematorium with Ben and Trev carrying you, with Bob and Wendy walking in behind you, as we was walking in you had crying in the Chapel by Elvis Presley, I chose and I dedicated a song to you called Friends by David Essex, at the end of the funeral we had One pair of hands playing, while people from the back left first so us as a family could have a couple of minutes to ourselves with you to say our final goodbyes, your flowers was absolutely beautiful and everything worked like clockwork.

Mum you maybe gone but you will always be in heart and I have some very fond memories that will last forever, love and miss you always

Alison x

Pauline my old neighbour such a lovely friendly woman xx fly high sweetheart xx

Saying goodbye too you was one of the hardest things I've had too do in my life, mamma was a massive inspiration too the whole family, if it wasn't for this lady keeping us all strong and looking out for us all, none of us would be who we are today. You had a very kind heart but also protected every one of us when we needed it. We had many laughs and many tears. You may be gone but you'll never leave my heart. I'm sure we will meet again so for now, goodnight rest in peace

Well poll what you gone and done..left us heartbroken but left us with some very very fond memories. My first time I met you. You trying to teach me to drive told me to brake but I excellerated instead and nearly hit the wall.my first county match a Tuesday night against tranmere we won I think 5-0.lots of funny personal memories. But what I will miss most of all is our little phone calls..things that you told me you had forgot to do but you then recall them on the phone. and popping in for coffee bumping into you in bulwell. But mainly will miss you for being you and thank you for being like my big sis.love you poll night night sleep tight love ya xxxxx