Brian Frederick Castle (12 Nov 1954 - 26 Sep 2016)

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Location
Eltham Crematorium Crown Woods Way Eltham SE9 2AZ
Date
11th Oct 2016
Time
11.45am
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In loving memory of Brian Frederick Castle who sadly passed away on 26th September 2016.

Brian was born on 12th November 1954 at 16 Woodlands Park Road, Greenwich, where he lived with his parents Albert and Doris and his older sister Carol.

He attended Meridian Primary School and Charlton Secondary School.

In 1971 he joined Marshall Andrews Ltd as an apprentice Carpenter and Joiner. He passed his apprenticeship with credit and went on to work for Delta Metal Company and Babcock Power. In 1989 he joined City & Guilds Institute as a Maintenance Engineer. He was awarded Licensership of City & Guilds Institute (LCGI) in Carpentry and Joinery in 1993 of which he was very proud. He retired from City & Guilds in 2013.

During a holiday to the Isle of Wight in 1977 Brian met Carol Dobner and they married on the 26th August 1978 in St Crispin's Church, Bermondsey and 6 weeks later Brian was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes.

Brian and Carol had two daughters, Joanna born in 1980 and Michelle born in 1985. They lived in Cherry Garden Street, Bermondsey opposite Carol's mum and Dad and Brian enjoyed Sunday drinks at the Old Justice with Carol's Dad Bill and Uncle Bill. They moved to Stave Yard Road, Surrey Quays in 1997 and remained there.

Brian was an avid Charlton Athletic supporter, attending games at the Valley over many years with his Dad and mates. He passed his love of the Valley onto his youngest daughter Michelle to stop her from going to Millwall and they were proud season ticket holders for 10 years.

Brian was proud to walk both his daughters down the aisle. Joanna to Craig in 2005 and Michelle to Dan in 2015. Joanna and Craig gave Brian two grandsons Billy and Tommy. Brian was a very proud grandad and told everyone about his two little fellas.

Holidays were one of Brian's loves and every year him and Carol returned to the Isle of Wight and this has now become a family tradition. He also enjoyed holidays to Leysdown at Carol's mum and dad's chalet. Later Brian and Carol travelled further afield and Cyprus become their favourite holiday destination.

In 2009 diabetic problems started to arise and Brian battled with a lot of complications. From January this year Brian attended Alan Apley ward in St Thomas's hospital on a monthly basis. He became well known on the ward and the staff all looked after him well. This is where he finally passed away peacefully on Monday 26th September with Carol, his girls and family by his side.

Carol, Joanna and Michelle would like people to send flowers from Rene's Florist in Jamaica Road, Bermondsey or donate to Diabetes UK.

Carol Castle wrote

Yesterday was your birthday my love. The first one without you.
We chose that day to place you in your final resting place. In the memorial garden right next to my Dad overlooking Southwark Park. I know you would like being there with Dad and I can take some comfort from the fact that the 2 men I loved most in the world are together.

I will always miss you my darling but will visit you often.
God bless. Sweet dreams

All my love always
Your little lady
Carol
XX XX

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joanna king wrote

My favourite saying has always been “Dad will fix it!”

My dad loved to make things. When we were little Michelle and I were very lucky girls as Dad made us an array of toys. We had a cot for our babies, a wardrobe for Barbie clothes, a blackboard and easel and a dresser for our cups and saucers. He even made me a cot to sleep in at the chalet in Leysdown. Whatever we wanted he would turn his hand to. 
When Craig & I moved to our first home we had sliding wardrobe doors which dad wasted no time in getting rid of and replacing for us.

We then gave him the same job again in our house as we needed space when Billy was coming along.
All the children have something to remember Dad by. He made them chairs with their names on and Claudia and Olivia dolls houses. He made Billy the first chair and only a few weeks ago he made Tommy's.

My dad could always fix things, but this is one time in my life where dad can't fix it.The tools he used to make us happy cannot fix our broken hearts.
He did all these things for us over the years to make the memories we can now share in the future. Billy and Tommy can sit in their chairs for their breakfast together and remember that Grandad made things for them too!

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Never goodbye Daddy, just see you later. We will always have the Valley. Love you all the money in the world xxxx COME    ON YOU REDS!! ❤

Never goodbye Daddy, just see you later. We will always have the Valley. Love you all the money in the world xxxx COME ON YOU REDS!! ❤

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Diane & Keith Baker wrote

On Tuesday we had to say farewell to a very special man, you would have been surprised by how many family and friends came to say goodbye, although it will never be goodbye as you will be in our hearts and thoughts forever.

A special memory of the day was that you were the star of The Valley, as they opened their gates especially for you on your last journey.

We will never forget you Brian, you will stay in our hearts forever.

Rest in Peace our Brother in Law (Bruv)
Love always
Diane & Keith xx

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Carol Castle wrote

I had to say goodbye to you today my darling. I hope you would have liked the day. There we so many beautiful flowers, all red and white. You had your last trip to the Valley, Michelle always wanted to take you there one last time, she got her wish. There were so many people at the church, standing room only you would have said. Joanna spoke about you and how you always fixed everything for her and all of us. You would have been so proud of her. You were always so proud of both of your girls. Jo was right about one thing she said you couldn't mend our broken hearts and that is so true.
We had to finish the day with a rousing rendition of "Alice". It reminded everyone of you and left them all smiling. That's what you would have wanted, you loved a laugh.
I will never really say goodbye as you will always be in my thoughts and in my heart. I will just say what we always said "see you later mate".
All my love always and forever
Your little lady
Carol xxxx

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Iris & John Bradley wrote

The sun shone for you today Brian. The day we all said goodbye. You will be sadly missed but never forgotten.
Sleep tight. Love Iris & John x

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Denise Kelly MBE wrote

Brian they say that the good die young and in your case it is very true.
Sleep well and God bless x

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Dean & Vicky Payne wrote

Brian, you never failed to put smiles on our faces and we will remember you so fondly. You are greatly missed but the love and laughs you spread will live on forever. Sleep tight xx

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  • Lovely photo of a lovely couple - sleep tight Brian & R.I.P.

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Emma Armstrong wrote

You are greatly missed, such a wonderful person and was definitely taken too soon, thank you for being such an special part of my life love always Emma, James, George and Bethany xx

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Sally Allan wrote

Brian was such a lovely, funny, caring man. Sending lots of love to Carol and family xxxxx

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Kim and John McCarthy wrote

So, so sorry, Brian was such a lovely man gone far too soon.
Sending all our love to all the family .
From Kim and John xxx

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Connor McCarthy wrote

Brian you will be greatly missed taken too soon thinking of the family at this time xx

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Rachel Payne wrote

Brian. You will be greatly missed. You have been taken way too soon. Thank you for all of the good memories, Christmas Eve won't ever be the same without you. Forever in our hearts. Love you lots Rach xxxxxxxxxx

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