Michael Retallick (26 Oct 1937 - 12 Sep 2016)

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Location
The Church Of Assumption Foster Ave Beeston NG9 1AE
Date
30th Sep 2016
Time
11.30am
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Beeston Cemetery Wollaton Road Beeston NG9 2TD
Date
30th Sep 2016
Time
12.30pm

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In loving memory of Michael Retallick who sadly passed away on 12th September 2016.

Mike was born in Penzance in October of 1937. He went on to marry the love of his life Bernadette Foran in February of 1963. He leaves behind his three sons, Sean, Paul and Bryan and nine grandchildren all of which he was immensely proud.

Sadly, his beloved "Bernie" was stricken with Alzheimer's and was taken into care later in his life. But he remained the doting husband and would spend many hours at her side in the care home.

Some time ago, he wrote these words for me to share with you in the event of his death. I will share them now and also at his funeral.

Before reading it to me, he said "First of all Bryan, I want no sickly eulogy...just read this!"

"I Loved Bernadette. Over 50 years of marriage speaks for it's self. I've had a wonderful family. Three Great Sons and 9 Beautiful and Brilliant grandchildren. I'm Proud and love of all them.
As far as my life went, it's easy to say, but I did enjoy my work and over 50 years took me to over 50 countries. It wasn't always easy but the challenge adds that spark.
It did take me away from my family and when i came home...Out with the mower. Audon Avenue produced 16 bags of grass every trip!"

We would ask that instead of flowers, please donate to the Alzheimers Society. The link can be found at the top right hand of this page.

Kevin Worrell wrote

im sorry that I did not know Mike had passed away as I've been in the Middle Esst for a couple of years. I found out today that he has moved on.

Mike was my boss at Corning and day one in my new job, I felt completely comfortable around him. I have very fond memories of Mike behind his desk,,,, setting daily, new tasks for me.

My overwhelming memory of him was " what a lovely bloke" always complimemtary and a very good listener.

Over the years I have always thought of him with a great deal of fondness. I never heard him curse or raise his voice and I miss him,,, great guy,,, but I will always remember Mike on going,,, as he made a real difference for me.

Kindest regards too the enormous hole he has left,,, lovely man,,, he will be missed.

Regards

Kevin Worrell



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Ian Retallick wrote

Uncle Michael is a special man and we are grateful for his love and example. We love him and will miss him but will always remember his kindness, generosity and wisdom. The Saviour said "Be of good cheer for I have overcome the world" and so this is not an end for our beloved Uncle but a new and cheerful beginning. With Love from Ian, Carla, Claire, Philipp, Paul and Jess.

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Gwen Retallick donated £50 in memory of Michael

This message is sent in memory of you Mike, and all the Happy Times we had as a family, especially with your Brother - my Husband.
Just remember, I will never forget you, past, present and future.
God is with you now, so be at peace for ever. With Love, Gwen

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Offline donation: Tony, Yvonne, Ben and Bobby Connolly donated in memory of Michael
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Dudley and Susan De Vaux wrote

Dear Uncle Michael, we will miss seeing you on our visits to England. We will light a candle for you tomorrow, 30th September, at St Georges Cathedral in Cape Town. Auntie Bernie, Sean, Paul, Bryan and families, you are all in our thoughts. All our love, Susan, Dudley, Gareth and Amanda

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Dudley and Susan De Vaux wrote

Dear Uncle Michael we will miss seeing you on our visits to England. We will light a candle for you tomorrow, 30th September, at St Georges Cathedral in Cape Town. All our love,
Susan, Dudley, Gareth and Amanda,

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Dudley and Susan De Vaux wrote

We will miss our visits to you when we come to England Uncle Michael and will be lighting a candle for you tomorrow, 30th September, in St Georges Cathedral, Cape Town. With all our love, Susan, Dudley, Gareth and Amanda

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Claire Lloyd wrote

I am so sad that Mike has gone, I'd only got to know him as a neighbour over the last few years but he was a lovely man who clearly adored his dear wife Bernie. He talked about her often and especially about the happier times they'd shared before her illness. He was so proud of his family - his sons and grandchildren and had so many interesting stories to tell particularly about his time when working overseas. All his many gadgets used to make me smile - the only man of his age I know with a smart watch! It truly was an honour. RIP Mike - I'll miss you.

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  • Thank you Claire. Knowing there were people like you and his other neighbours around him made living so far away less stressful, for me and my brothers. Thank you for all you did for him. We will never forget it.

    Posted by Bryan on 3/10/2016 Report abuse
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Claire Lloyd donated £10 in memory of Michael

Donating in memory of my dear neighbour Mike. RIP Mike, we'll miss you. Claire, Andy, Grace and Harry

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Scott Martin wrote

Truly a full, happy and contented life was had, lived with purpose and based on having a strong foundation in over 50 years of marriage. Wonderful!

Both the “Words and pictures” say it all.

My thoughts and best wishes are with the whole family at this time not forgetting my dear Auntie Bernie.

Great memories.

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  • Thank you Scott. That means a lot. Love to you and yours.

    Posted by Bryan on 29/09/2016 Report abuse
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Linda & Peter Morley & Family donated £50 in memory of Michael

Happy memories of a special brother.
Linda.

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Sally, Rachel and Chloe Knowles donated £20 in memory of Michael

With love

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Sally Knowles wrote

It's been an absolute honour to look after your dad Bryan,when he has been to visit us on all his little trips to Blackpool over Christmas periods and throughout the last few years. A true gentleman. He was very proud of you xxx

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Eamonn Coady wrote

So sorry yo hear about Mike. I always remember him sitting in the sitting room in Bellfield with a small glass of something, a cigarette, the tv turned up,watching the totally alien game of cricket. As a child I thought this was very strange behaviour but now I can see that he was just glad to have us all outside, Bernie and Maura sorted out, and a bit of peace to watch England versus the West Indies. We are the oldies now. Better get used to it.

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Bryan Retallick wrote

Please join us after the funeral in the Commercial Inn function room for a drink and a bite to eat. It would be lovely to share some happy memories with you all.

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