Graham Bukata (20 Jul 1976 - 9 Jul 2016)

Hello Cucumber. Just wrote on mums so can't leave you out can I? You would not be happy if I did. We had a family get together a month or so ago, and obviously the BUKATA buffet was full steam ahead, your mum done well, as per usual. Was lovely and sunny but then decided to pelt it down with rain, but that didn't stop us. Milly's birthday today, not that you don't know! 15 already, how time flies aye? She would have had lots of cucumbers for her birthday presents LOL (or a crate of fosters - joking) Wish you was here, to tell your rubbish jokes, wind your mum, sister and wife up like you used to, even though they would probably give you a swift headbutt now (even though they did back then lol). When you would get on my Facebook and write weird things about donkeys, I'm glad I never deleted them, but you did make me look a weirdo, but we're all weirdo's. Well hope you are all having a good one up there, coz its boiling like gone of sardines down here LOL. Going to listen to I'm a fire starter (the prodigy) now so bye my fellow weirdo cousin. Miss and Love you loads.

Miss you G and the laughs we used to have. Wish you were still here! Nearly Christmas and another year without you winding everyone up. Have to drink the Fosters on my own now, and it just doesn't sit right (even though you would always have triple the cans whilst I would still be on my first one). Just watching the 'Kings Guards in training' which reminds me of you. You would be loving it and telling shouting at the TV telling them to do it right. You obviously know we now have a King as you're up there partying with the Queen and Phillip, putting the worlds to right, as well as being with my Mum and of course Grandad. Hope you're all having a fab time though (probably loads of arguments as well). Hope you have a lovely Christmas, just rubbish you are not here for it. Miss you and love you loads, catch up again soon. Lots of Love. xxxxxxx

Hello big cousin. Hope you are looking after my mother and our grandad up there. Well you are all probably playing cards, playing rubbish music and drinking. I'm not jel or anything. Just checking in though as normal. Hope youre all having a laugh and i miss you all so much, love you dearly xxxx

Hello you! Hope you had a lovely Xmas up there and didn’t drink all the fosters. Lol. Grandads up there as well now with you. Probably glad about that as you and him can talk your talks whilst mum just nods her way through bottles of wine aye? Bet you all had such a kushty one up there the three of you. Bet everyone else up there went to bed early as we all know what the three of you are like - taking of the place. You were probably playing prodigy (fire starter) whilst mums trying to put Tina turner or Diana Ross on and then grandads probably just sat with his whiskey and nuts - he’s probably trying to pick them out his teeth still now. Oh how I miss you all so much. Hope you had a cucumber platter for your nibbles whilst playing chase the ace! Well I’ll speak with you new year the three of you. Love you all!!!

Another birthday of mine gone, another one with you not there. Another one without you telling rubbish jokes (even though we laughed). Another one closer to seeing you. Just wish you were here, I miss you so much. So many memories made but so many memories that could have been made. Hope your smashing it up there and keeping mum in line. Well the pair of you probably have your own area as you both talk too much - especially after a few bevy’s. Love you g- always on my mind xxx

Hope your living it up up there. Another year of celebrations without you and mum. Always taking about you both and what you would be doing at the parties. Just isn’t the same though. Love you xx

Miss you G. Having beers and chinky. Anything i would do for running for the last fosters lol. Always on my mind, always forever in my soul and forever in my heart. your cucumber pal, see you soon xxxxxx

Thinking of the day, when you went away, what life to take, what a bond to break. One last morning, when this life is over, I know I'll see your face. Miss you G, miss our bingo scratch cards, even though neither of us would win, but we would always celebrate our loses with chinese and beer, and mornee would have that omlette thing. Then in the morning, it would be a race to the toilet, not just with us three but with the kids too. Thanks for letting me live with you and Mornee, I would say it was to help with kids, which it was, but it was so nice to actually spend time with you and mornee, even when you weren't there, me and Mornee has some fun (the Heat, its a film) Ah how I miss all them times. How i miss you, miss your loud piss taking voice. What I would do for you pissing my mum off in Tinas kitchen. well as you say we will be on the bus from New addington to join you. LOVE YOU xxxxxxx

To my loving uncle , not a day goes by I don't think about you ❤️
All the good memories I will never forget and the funny moments ?
I will never be able to learn capitals again and all the little facts I know know because of you ??
I love you more then any one could
ever imagine and I miss you so much ?

You are forever in my heart no one can ever replace you ❤️ R.i.p ?

In memory of Graham, larger than life and taken too soon. Thinking of you all. Clare, Dave and William xx

To help others fight too....

Four weeks you left us to chill above us I miss you so much little brother. Hope to hear from you later just let me know your happy ??

Still can't believe your gone. We all miss you so much. Rip, love you to the moon and back ❤ xxx

Still hasn't sunk in that you have gone and you will never be coming back. Miss you to the moon and back. RIP, love you xxx

Rest in peace mummy's little soldier boy xx

Rest in peace my little soldier. Will love you always mummy. Xx

With Love Mac, Michael, Caroline and Becky xx

RIP Graham xx