Thank you all for being here today. To see so many people who loved Dad and want to be here to say goodbye to him is just incredible.
Losing my Dad is one of the most difficult things I have gone through. As I am standing up here today, I realise how lucky I was to have him as my Dad. There are not words to express his influence in my life. It is through his example that I learned to be person I am today.
My Dad was hardworking, strong, loving, and gentle Man. Nothing was too much to do for anyone. His passion for Chelsea was still going strong and it’s a testament to him that at 71 he was still working as a match day steward after starting as a young lad.
Although it must have been hard for him when as a teenager with my best mate Sian we use to pester him to introduce us to certain players, which he always did and never moaned.
Although my Dad may never have said it out loud often I know that he was truly proud of us, his children and the way we all have grown up. He adores his grandchildren, Daniel the way you have grown into the adult you are today and am sad that Sophia and Luke will never know him the same way, but we will tell them all about you Dad, you’ve left me with enough good memories to share as they grow older without you being around.
One of the biggest lessons I learned from my Dad - the value of hard work. He woke up everyday, put on his shoes, and went to work to provide for our family. I could count on one hand how times my dad was sick. It reminds me of a boxing day match Dad made me walk to Stamford Bridge, the car wouldn’t start and rather than wake up the neighbours or letting down his friends and colleagues at Chelsea he decided we could walk!!!
As you can imagine I had a few words to say to him that day but I walked with him.
I’ve lost count of the times me and Emma would call Dad to pick us up from various nightclubs in the small hours of the morning even after we had both left home. As long as we were safe, Dad was more than happy to come and get us. I wish I had appreciated it more at the time.
I will cherish our last day together, you walking me down the aisle, our dance together, even though your knee was hurting you still beamed your lovely smile all day. There are no words to tell you what I am feeling inside, the shock, the anger, the hurt but I know as each day passes it will gradually subside.
As children when me and my sister and brother argued, I’ll always remember your words Dad, “you are family, you need to stick together and look after each other” I will Dad, I promise you there that we are all going to keep close and support each other.
Dad was always saying “I’m alright”, well Dad you’re not alright, you’re more than alright. You are my hero. Thank you, Dad, for being the most incredible father I could have ever wanted and know you’re now in heaven being an incredible Granddad to Amy and Joshua.
I love you, Papa, and I’ll miss you more than I can say.
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