Francis Colley (9 Jun 1925 - 12 Feb 2016)

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11th Mar 2016
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Dad was born in Newcastle Upon Tyne on the 9th of June 1925 to parents Sarah Jane (nee Skinner) and Foster Colley. Dad and his younger brothers Foster, Bill, Bob and Bert (who passed away in 2004) had childhoods blighted by deep poverty and entrenched social inequality especially during the Great Depression of 1929 to 1939. This early background shaped dad’s life.

In 1939 at the start of the Second World War dad left school aged 14. He joined the Home Guard after lying about his age and was briefly recruited into the navy before volunteering to work down coal mines as a ‘Bevin Boy’ for the war effort. Like others of his generation dad joined the British Communist Party in the early 1940s with the aim of improving the life chances of working people, campaigning for social equality and to fight Hitler’s fascism. Dad was an excellent public speaker and at age 16 was addressing large political rallies around the Newcastle area. He met his wife Muriel through the Communist Party. Speaking about Muriel at her funeral in 1996 dad said “I was seventeen when I met her. I would have walked barefoot over broken glass just to gain her friendship. She was an active rebel against the existence of a grossly inhumane society and the economic, political and social institutions which presided over it.”

Dad left the coal mines after the Second World War to work in a laboratory at the ‘bone yard’. This was a glue making plant operated by British Glues and Chemicals located near the River Tyne. Animal carcasses were rendered down to extract bones to make glue which created a highly noxious smell that wafted across the whole area which was known locally as “Lavender Bank”. My parents spent part of their early married life living in a flat near the bone yard where they sometimes hosted members of Joan Littlewood’s ‘Theatre Workshop’ group which dad joined for a while as an actor. They moved house several times and eventually bought their first home in Longbenton in Newcastle where their children Sarah and Robert were born and grew up.

Dad studied at night schools at Rutherford College, Newcastle on Tyne and achieved a National Certificate in Chemistry (1949) and First Class grades for Advanced Fuel Technology – Gaseous and Solid Fuels (1958 & 1959). He worked in the scientific department of the National Coal Board before changing role into technical training and sales training and gained promotions. He also gained additional professional qualifications in fuel technology and in sales training and marketing in the 1960s.

During the 1960s dad and mam owned an open-topped Sunbeam Alpine sports car and organized frequent family trips to the local beaches at Whitley Bay and further afield in Northumberland.

After resigning from the Communist Party dad remained active in the Trade Union Movement and as a union official made trips to the Soviet Union and Czechoslovakia in protest at the 1969 Soviet invasion of Czechoslovakia. Frank and Muriel remained interested in eastern block countries and organized family camping holidays to Yugoslavia, Romania, Czechoslovakia and Russia driving thousands of miles with children and masses of camping gear squashed into various small and ill-suited family cars which invariably broke down in remote places with no spare parts

In the 1960s dad and the family relocated from Newcastle to London when dad took up a new job at National Coal Board Head Office at Hobart House in Victoria. He eventually became head of sales training in the marketing department. Our family lived first at Kew and dad and mam then bought themselves a large house on Richmond Hill near Richmond Park – my mother also worked full time and was by then Head Teacher of a special-needs school in Ealing West London.

When Margaret Thatcher forced the closure of the National Coal Board in the 1980s dad took early retirement on a generous pension and he and my mother migrated to Noosa in Queensland, Australia to live nearer dad’s brothers Bert and Bill who had migrated to Australia several years previously. Bert built them two houses in the area including one located near a stunning rolling surf beach at Sunshine Beach. While dad always enjoyed visiting Australia and seeing family members he was not really a ‘surf beach’ kind of guy. My parents returned to live in the UK after a couple of years and moved to West Ealing and then Teddington.

After my mother’s death in 1996 my dad eventually moved to Rugby to live nearer his son Robert who by then was working at Rugby School. Dad settled into Rugby and made new contacts and friends in the later stages of his life.

He was active, independent and still living in his own home until his sudden death aged 90 after a short illness on 12th February 2016.

Sarah Colley March 2016.

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Rest in peace dad. Love Sarah

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Phil Merryweather wrote

So sorry to hear the news about Frank. We got to know both Frank and Muriel when they moved in opposite us in Connaught Road in Teddington and spent many happy times together.Jane enjoyed a glass of Chardonnay with him and he was always great company and full of stories when he came over for a meal. Our son Luke often used to call on him on his way home from school and Frank knew that he had to be up to date with his football knowledge, especially how Newcastle Utd were performing. On occasions they even had bacon an eggs together. Jane and I enjoyed our trips to Rugby where Frank would proudly take us to see Robert performing at his school. However I will not miss having to bump start those old Saabs down the road. Frank remains a true individual, is fondly remembered by us all here and count it a privilege to have known him

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  • Thanks Phil for sharing your memories of Frank. All the best.

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Frank with Sarah and Rob and John and Jack (visiting from Australia) at Blooms Garden Centre Rugby Sat 9th January - Photo by Sandra. Last photo of dad.

Frank with Sarah and Rob and John and Jack (visiting from Australia) at Blooms Garden Centre Rugby Sat 9th January - Photo by Sandra. Last photo of dad.

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Colley family get together by the Noosa River, Queensland, Australia in perhaps 2001

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Frank and the Aprile childrren, 2009

Frank and the Aprile childrren, 2009

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A letter Frank wrote to my Dad Bert in the 1990's. It speaks of their camping trip in Australia and shows Uncle Frank's wonderful sense of humor which is why I have kept it for so many years. Frank hated mosquitoes and any creepy crawlies, all of which are part of Australian life

A letter Frank wrote to my Dad Bert in the 1990's. It speaks of their camping trip in Australia and shows Uncle Frank's wonderful sense of humor which is why I have kept it for so many years. Frank hated mosquitoes and any creepy crawlies, all of which are part of Australian life

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Frank as a young boy in the backyard of 17 Highfield Tce, Walker, Newcastle around late 1930's

Frank as a young boy in the backyard of 17 Highfield Tce, Walker, Newcastle around late 1930's

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Bill, Sarah & Frank, Tewantin RSL, Queensland,  Australia, 1980's

Bill, Sarah & Frank, Tewantin RSL, Queensland, Australia, 1980's

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Roxanne & Jane with Frank near the Noosa River 1981

Roxanne & Jane with Frank near the Noosa River 1981

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Roxanne Aprile wrote

I first met Uncle Frank & Aunty Muriel when I was 15. They came to stay with us in Noosa, Queensland, Australia whilst on holidays from their jobs in England. Even though this was out very first meeting, I had grown to know both of them throughout my childhood. Dad who migrated to Australia in the early 1950's, always kept his family 'alive' to us. They used to record reel to reel tapes of them all singing songs and passing on messages of good hope. I remember these vivdly as a child and our family (Dad - Bert, mum, myself and my brothers Bill and Allan) would all gather around the reel to reel tape recorder to hear their voices and their singing. I used to write to Uncle Frank as a small child and he always took the time to write back to me. Our friendship and love grew from these early years. He was a lover of learning of poetry and of music.

As a teenager growing up in Australia, I used to sit and converse with Frank and Muriel and together with my Dad, they were instrumental in my own development as an adult. They showed me the importance of looking after others, about loving family, respecting others, about equality and about those who go without. I grew up being very socially aware and to this day I carry and live by these humanitarian beliefs. Pat (my husband) & I have also instilled these into our three children. Uncle Frank & Aunty Muriel were and remain my inspiration.

We had many wonderful times together and where many teenagers do not, or did not ever have time for their elders (or visa versa), we certainly did and our relationship was a very rich one as a result. I took Frank and Muriel riding on our horses, we went boating and joined camping, shopping and swimming adventures in Australia. We also enjoyed and laughed through the normal day to day routines together. I also got to know Sarah, visited her in Sydney and have kept in touch.

In 2009, Pat and I took 6 months long service leave from our jobs. Me as a high school teacher and Pat as a Civil Engineer. We took our three children Fraser 14, Campbell 12 & Bronte 9 out of school for six months and traveled with them. We wanted them to know 'where they came from' and our first stop was to visit Frank and Robert in Rugby. It was a wonderful time and our children have very fond memories of Uncle Frank who again, always had 'time' for us. We travelled through the UK, Europe and down to Cairo. Their eyes were certainly opened to many different social circumstances. They met Rob for the first time who fondly managed to pass on some celebratory habits and spent time with Dad's other brothers, Foster, wife Phyllis and family and Bob. Of course already knowing Bill in Australia. Our children still recall that trip vividly and it was a very important part of their development as young adults.

Sarah & Robert, our deepest condolences go to you both. Your lives have been enriched and shaped by two very amazing people. We need to keep in touch. Uncle Frank, I will miss our fortnightly phone calls, I will miss you just not being there anymore. Thankyou for the legacy you have left Pat, myself and our children.

Love always, your niece Rocky





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