Maggie - Margaret Mary Watson (7 Feb 1954 - 18 Feb 2016)
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In loving memory of "Maggie", Margaret Mary Watson who sadly passed away on 18th February 2016, aged 62 years.
Born Willsden London on 7th February 1954 – Died St. Michael's Hospice Basingstoke 18th Feb 2016
When Maggie received her diagnosis she was with James (one of our sons) and she took the news on board knowing that it was not going to be good news. Typically she was more worried about James than herself, this was her attitude throughout her illness, more concerned about others than herself. I cared and nursed Maggie for her final months, and as I have said to numerous people it was a privilege to nurse her, she was always positive and more interested in others than herself. When friends phoned to find out how she was she would always reply “fine, how are you”, even if she had just been sick and was uncomfortable. All sorts of words come to mind, such a brave, courageous, caring, modest woman I could go on but none do her justice, she was just Maggie.
When asked if she had a bucket list she said no and decided to start a resume of her life, it began “This is not a bucket list. I just wanted to list the things I have done that are important to me”. Sadly Maggie never had chance to finish it. Maggie had childhood measles which was pretty serious in those days, being barrier nursed, she remembered being in a glass room with nurses in masks and her Mum on the other side of the glass. Very little was mentioned about school days, but she remembers going to a college of further education where she basically spent the time “bumming around” (as she so eloquently put it), waiting to start nursing training, at St. Mary's Paddington. This is where she really came into her own, like her Mum she thoroughly enjoyed the training. Maggie made some great friends, who remained friends up until she died. She worked hard and played hard and had some great holidays. Maggie spent her career as a nurse then a midwife then a nursing sister and finally as a community carer, even after retiring she volunteered as a charity helper.
We got married in 1976 (it would have been our ruby wedding anniversary this year 2016). The real highlight of her life was having our daughter Alexis in 1982 after being told it was unlikely she would conceive. Then we were lucky enough to adopt two twin brothers, our sons James and John, she felt the family was now complete. Like all families we had our trials and tribulations, but she loved the children so much that she found it difficult at times having moved to Cyprus, being away from them. This was only amplified when she was presented with Grandchildren, who she doted on and was a marvellous “Nanny”. She took great delight in helping Alex when her twins were born, then looking after John's daughter when he was off on honeymoon. The sad thing is that they will not benefit from her wisdom, common sense and love. Luckily when James' wife discovered she was pregnant, they both insisted that she was present at the scan knowing that she was unlikely to see the birth, she was thrilled to be there. Maggie also took great delight in being a second Mum to her son and daughters-in-law Leo, Phili and Rachael.
Maggie as a wife, mum and “Nanny” will be greatly missed, and we will endeavour to keep her memory alive.
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