William Robert Lacey (29 Oct 1951 - 6 Dec 2024)

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Location
Thames View Crematorium Gravesend Road Shorne, Gravesend DA12 3JH
Date
13th Jan 2025
Time
10am
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In loving memory of William Lacey who sadly passed away on 6th December 2024.

William, affectionally known as Billy to his family & friends, "Boots" to his Army friends. A loving and dedicated Husband to Myra, Father to Claire, Dean & Tessa and a Grandad to seven grandchildren.

Born in Gravesend, Kent in October 1951, growing up Billy led a fruitful and exciting life shared with his brothers and sisters. Bill eventually enlisted into the British Army as a regular soldier and joined as a Gunner in the Royal Regiment Of Artillery in 1971. In the same year he met his soul mate and wife of 52 years, Myra.
On the 12th August 1972 Bill and Myra became Husband and Wife.

Sharing an exciting married life, they enjoyed postings to various places around the UK, Germany and began to dedicate their time to start raising a family at the same time dealing with operational postings to Northern Ireland during the height of the troubles.

Bill excelled in his role within the Royal Artillery and notably was selected as Number 1 on the gun that started the London Marathon, and as an Instructor at the Junior Leaders Regiment RA, 27 Reg RA, 39 later becoming 39 Heavy Reg, 132 Battery Bengal Rocket Troop to name a few. Bill "BDR LACEY" established a name for himself quickly securing a role in the O.P Troop working in target acquisition and fire control which is still today regarded as a vital specialist role requiring soldiers to be at the pinnacle of professionalism.

As well as proving to be an exceptional soldier, Bill also represented his regiment and also the British Army at sports in numerous disciplines such as Football, Basketball, Athletics, Fishing and Golf.

Leaving the Army after 22 years of dedicated service, Bill found employment at varoius organisations such as Fenwicks Of New Bond Street and later as a Senior Manager at Gravesham Borough Council. Loved and respected throughout his life and career Bill always proved himself to be someone who would be "What can i do for you", with no thought for himself.

Bills time as a civil servant came to an end when he retired and looked forward to spending his time with his wife Myra, but sadly Bill was to learn of his diagnosis which later became a struggle he so bravely fought while all the time being dignified, loyal and loving to his family and friends. Bill was diagnosed with COPD, Emphysema & Bronchiectasis and became heavily reliant on oxygen, ever the optimist Bill continued to lead a normal life as much as possible with the unwaivering support of his dedicated loving wife Myra who gave up every minute of every day to ensure together they were able to live a happy life.
In later years Bill was to learn of another diagnosis at he same time as the very first Covid 19 lockdown, this time cancer. Bill fought through everyday, attended hospital and dealt with the overbearing pain and sickness that so often accompanies an illness like cancer but through his strong will and courage and the support from Myra and the wider family was able to beat cancer and continue fighting the COPD.

Within just a few short years Bills COPD rapidly became worse causing BIll to fight infection after infection, 2 heart attacks and stays in hospital until finally this year November 2024 being admitted to Medway Maritime Hospital eventually passing away on the 6th December 2024 .

Bill will forever be known as one of the most inspirational, loving, honest men this world has ever known and has impacted lives in a way we struggle to put into words. Bill will always be missed, his jokes, his whistling, his smile and his love and dedication to his family and friends.

We ask that you join us in celebrating the most wonderful man we have ever known.

Rest In Peace Bill (Dad)
We love and miss you every day.

Please note, you are all welcome to join us at the wake held at The Gardeners Arms, Higham.

I am attending: The Funeral Neither
Pam and Andy Keilly wrote

What a true honour to have you in our lives Billy Boy. We all had so much fun over the years. When you and Myra visited us twice in Canada and the many trips we made back to England.

Below are a few verses to say what you meant to us.

What to do, what to say.
Billy Boy has passed away.

A true family man for all his life.
Cared for by his loving wife.

Myra by his side in good times and bad.
A loving marriage they both had.

3 children he had, 2 girls and 1 boy.
In his life they brought him so much joy.

His beloved Grandchildren he will really miss.
Now in heaven blow them all a big kiss.

Now free from pain it's time for a rest.
We will miss you COCKER, YOU WERE ONE OF THE BEST.

Pam and Andy

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R.I.P 😢 Thoughts with the family. A lovely person.

R.I.P 😢 Thoughts with the family. A lovely person.

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Jackie Hambilton wrote

I will miss you uncle Billy. Fond memories of you will forever stay in my heart. Love you lots xx❤️

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Bill having fun on his brother Brian's birthday presentx

Bill having fun on his brother Brian's birthday presentx

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24224656 BDR Lacey ♥️🫶🏼♥️ we are all so proud of you and for your service dad. Once a Gunner always a Gunner .......ubique 🙏🏼

24224656 BDR Lacey ♥️🫶🏼♥️ we are all so proud of you and for your service dad. Once a Gunner always a Gunner .......ubique 🙏🏼

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  • Great photo Dean. Billy was always away with the army while I was growing up. Always fond memories though when he was around.

    Posted by John on 21/12/2024 Report abuse
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Tracey and Steve Marshall wrote

My heart breaks for you all,myself and Steve have so many wonderful memories,
Sleep tight uncle bill x

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Hilary and Len Hicks wrote

We have fond memories of a great brother-in-law. Bill was always friendly, warm and full of fun! He has been taken far too young but glad he is now at peace and suffering no more.
Our love to Myra, Dean, Clare and Tessa 💔

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We love you xxx ♥️🫶🏼🫶🏼

We love you xxx ♥️🫶🏼🫶🏼

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Susan Mckevitt wrote

Will miss you Bill you leave behind a wonderful legacy in your 3 children and grandchildren R.I.P.💔💔

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Ann Fisher wrote

See ya "cocker" bye Bill

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Karon Hicks wrote

To my brother in law Bill you will.be surely missed .have drink with mum Margaret and Alan rip

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Myra Lacey wrote

My Bill,
My hero , my fighter , my friend.
Honest kind , always ready to help people .
You were funny, loved by all , never a bad word about anyone.
You suffered to long and so much , but you’re out of pain now.
Which is a blessing for us , I miss you , the house is empty without you .
All my love My.
My biggest hello , my saddest goodbye 💔xxxx

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  • Mum ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    Posted by Dean on 20/12/2024 Report abuse
  • Lovely words Myra. Billy was a wonderful man/uncle. Sending love to you and the family xx❤️

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Dean Lacey wrote

Here it is dad the poem you loved ♥️ I miss you so much.

I lay here today a soldier
I know some don’t understand
I will try to explain
So maybe you can
I served my country
For many a year
I retired long ago
The soldier still here

I put on my uniform
I wore it to foreign lands
The soldier I was
Is still in the man

I have been a husband, father, and friend
To some of you here
But I’ve been a soldier all along
Even after so many a year

My final salute
I render today
I’m still a soldier
I’m just on my way

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  • A soldier, a hero, a man all about his family until the very end 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

    Posted by Laura on 20/12/2024 Report abuse
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Laura Deller wrote

What can I say about my Pops??!! The man who showed me unconditional love as if I were his own... routinely put his foot in his mouth with his words 😂, but always with love. You were my Dad when I lost my Dad and you have left a huge hole in my heart. Always loved, forever missed. Rest in peace Pops 🙏🏻💕x

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  • RIP Bill you were an amazing man and will be very much missed. Sending love and hugs to your family at this very tough time xx

    Posted by Kathleen on 20/12/2024 Report abuse
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Barbara Lyons wrote

RIP Bill. In memory of our army days with you and Myra. Pete and Barbara Lyons

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Gemma Lacey wrote

I will always remember your infectious laugh, big smile, kind words and the happy memories growing up. You truly were one of the greatest. Rest in peace Uncle Bill ❤️

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