Paul Nigel Ingram (27 Jun 1970 - 5 Dec 2024)

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Paul NigelHospice in the Weald

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Paul NigelThe Brain Tumour Charity

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Kent & Sussex Crematorium Benhall Mill Road Tunbridge Wells TN2 5JJ
Date
9th Jan 2025
Time
1pm
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In loving memory of Paul Nigel Ingram who sadly passed away on 5th December 2024

I have set up this funding page in Memory of Paul Nigel Ingram.

Paul was Diagnosed with a Brain Tumour on the 21/08/2024. There was no signs, it happened so suddenly.
Paul was diagnosed with Grade 4 Glioblastoma Cancer of the Brain. It’s the most Aggressive and Fast Growing Cancer of the Brain. He was Given less than a year to live but he died within 15 weeks of diagnosis. To watch Paul deteriorate was the hardest and the most devastating time of my life. Paul was loved by so many people because he was the most caring, Kindest loving person and a true gentleman.

I have chosen the Brain Tumour Charity because it was charity close to Paul’s Heart. He was going to run the London marathon in April 2025 for the brain tumour charity.

I have chosen the hospice in the Weald because the support they have given us for me to care for Paul at home and which he passed away at home. They also gave me the gift of the legacy work they did with us so that I have a lasting gifts from Paul.

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Louise Ingram donated £150 in memory of Paul

In loving memory of my Husband Paul. I have lost the love of my life and my soulmate. It was an honour to be your wife. We adored each other so much. You made me the most important person in your life and for that I will love and adore you forever. We will be together forever. I will always be proud of you for Everything you achieved in the 23 years that we was together and married for 18 years of them. You gave me your heart & you took my heart with you. Everyone loved you because you are a true gentleman. You are my one in a million. You are by my side always. I love you my darling. I will always be your louloubug.

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Louise Ingram donated £150 in memory of Paul

In Loving Memory of My Husband Paul. I have lost my soulmate and the love of my life. It was an absolute honour to be your wife. We adored each other so much. You made me the most important person in your life and for that I will love and adore you forever. We will always be together forever. I will always be proud of you for Everything you achieved in the 23 years that we was together. We was married for 18 years of them. I will and always will be proud of you for everything that you accomplished. You gave me your heart and you took my heart with you. You was loved by everyone because you was a true gentleman and my one in a million. Fly High my Beautiful Husband. I know you are always by my side until we meet again. I Love you my Darling. I will always be your louloubug Always and forever.

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Lesley Larter donated £70 in memory of Paul

In Loving Memory of our son in law. We love you very much. Thank you for Loving our Daughter and looking after her. It was a privilege to have you in our family. And another brother for martin and Paul who loved you very much as well. We are going to miss you very much as well. We will always love you.

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  • Thank you so much mum and dad for your donation to this worth while cause for our beautiful Paul. Thank you for everything you have done. I am so proud to have brought him into our family and another brother to Martin and Paul. I know He loved you all so much. And was so proud of you all at his Funeral. You all did him Proud.

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Lesley Larter wrote

In Loving Memory of our Son In Law We Love you very much. Thank You for Loving our Daughter nd Looking AfterHer.It Was A Privilege to have you in our Family. And another Brother for Martin and Paul who Loved you very much as Well. Weare going to miss you very much we will always love you.

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Lesley Larter donated £70 in memory of Paul

In Loving Memory of Our Son in Law we Love You Very much.Thank you for looking After our Daughter and for Loveing her.it Was a privilege to have you in our family. And another brother for Martin and Paul who loved you very much as well. We are going to miss you very much. We will always love you.

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  • Thank you so much mum and dad for your donation to this worth while cause for our beautiful Paul. Thank you for everything you have done. I am so proud to have brought him into our family and another brother to Martin and Paul. I know He loved you all so much. And was so proud of you all at his Funeral. You all did him Proud.

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Moaning mem Ingram donated £20 in memory of Paul

In memory of my loving son

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Lydia and nats Crossley donated £20 in memory of Paul

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  • Thank you so much Lyd and Nats for your donation to this worthwhile cause for our beautiful Paul. Thank you for being in his life for 23 years. He thought so much of you both right up until the very end. You showed welcomed him into our group and forever I will be truly grateful. Our Beautiful Angel is flying high now.

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Lydia and nats Crossley donated £20 in memory of Paul

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  • Thank you so much Lyd and Nats for your donation to this worthwhile cause for our beautiful Paul. Thank you for being in his life for 23 years. He thought so much of you both right up until the very end. You showed welcomed him into our group and forever I will be truly grateful. Our Beautiful Angel is flying high now. He loved you both.

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Mary Buffong donated £20 in memory of Paul

Our office will never be the same. Paul made it a great place to be with his kindness, banter and the twinkle in his eye.
Sleep peacefully Paul 🙏

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  • Thank you so much Mary for your donation to this amazing Charity. It was so lovely to meet you. I can truly imagine that your office will never be the same again without Paul. He was my one in a million and I know how much you all cared about him.

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Mark Butcher wrote

A real gentleman, devoted family man, the only person since Bobby Ball to make braces look cool. I’ve enjoyed working with you off and on over the past 30 years, always a laugh, you quite possibly more punctual than me however. We will miss you greatly ,one of life’s lovely people. No doubt the pearly gates will have extra LED lights now, maybe a motion sensor.
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  • Thank you so much Mark and Helen for your donation to this amazing charity. You have both been a wonderful friend to us both. He really did make braces look really cool especially his sparky braces 😊. To hear you both say that every time he spoke about me to you both in your kitchen showed how much he truly loved me. I will cherish this forever ❤️❤️❤️

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Mark Butcher donated £30 in memory of Paul
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Graham and Denise Hillyer donated £20 in memory of Paul

Lovely kind loving person who will be sadly missed.

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  • Thank you Graham and Denise for your lovely donation to this amazing charity. Thank you so much for being there at the funeral. I am so glad you got to know my beautiful Paul while we was working together. He thought a lot of you.

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Sally & Paul Hurdle donated £20 in memory of Paul

Such a lovely person. We will miss you. Love to you Louise, you did him proud xxx

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  • Thank you so much Paul and Sally for your kind donation to this amazing charity. I will always remember the memories of you and Paul and Andy working together at the post office. And trying to cause mischief while I was working with you all. You were all such a very close bunch and I am proud to have been part of that. Thank you both for being so welcoming. We are lucky to have you both.

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Sally & Paul Hurdle donated £20 in memory of Paul

Such a lovely person, taken to soon.

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  • Thank you so much Paul and Sally for your kind donation to this amazing charity. I will always remember the memories of you and Paul and Andy working together at the post office. And trying to cause mischief while I was working with you all. You were all such a very close bunch and I am proud to have been part of that. Thank you both for being so welcoming. We are lucky to have you both.

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Fiona McAndrew wrote

Dear Louise, I am so sorry to read this about Paul this evening. He was always so kind, generous and fun loving at the fund raising events you and he helped with with Kelly H and her family. This is so cruel and unfair. You are all very much in my thoughts and prayers. With love, Fiona (McAndrew) xx

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  • Thank you so much Fiona for your beautiful message. He was a true gentleman and he would help anyone. He loved helping at the fundraising for the Pre-School. It was very close to our heart to help. I cannot begin to express how this all happened so quickly. Lots of love to you

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Fiona McAndrew donated £20 in memory of Paul

Dear Louise, I am so dreadfully sorry to read this message this evening about Paul. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. He was always so kind and caring at all the fundraising events that Kelly (Harper) helped to organise with yourselves and her family for the Preschool. You are all very much in my thoughts. Lots of love, Fiona (McAndrew) xx

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  • Thank you so much Fiona for your beautiful message. He was a true gentleman and he would help anyone. He loved helping at the fundraising for the Pre-School. It was very close to our heart to help. I cannot begin to express how this all happened so quickly. Thank you so much for your kind donation to the amazing charity. Lots of love to you.

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Steve Law donated in memory of Paul

Tomorrow we pay our respects to Paul, a good and kind man, taken suddenly and far too early. We can only give thanks for having Paul in our lives. I will remember Paul fondly and with great sadness. Thinking of Louise and Paul’s family and sending love especially on this difficult
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  • Thank you so much Steve for your kind donation to this amazing charity. I know that Paul would be proud to call you our friends. We enjoyed spending time with you both. He was taken away from us far too soon xxx

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Runo Hye donated in memory of Paul

Paul, such a great guy, funny and caring. One in a million, gone to soon. You will always be remembered and missed.

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  • Thank you so much Runo for donating to this amazing charity. It was a pleasure to meet you. And thank you for messaging me to make sure I am ok. Paul spoke very highly of you. He was definitely a one in a million and will be missed forever xxx

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Steve & Nikki Howe donated £30 in memory of Paul
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Rosemarie Peake donated £20 in memory of Paul

Paul was a lovely caring person, always putting others before himself.Sleeping peacefully ❤️

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  • Thank you so much Rosemarie for your kind donation for an amazing charity. Thank you for calling me before the funeral it meant the world to me. I will cherish fond memories of you and Greg and the times we all got together as a Royal Mail engineers family. He always did put others first. He is sleeping peacefully now with Greg. They will be smiling down at us both and they know you will help to get me through this xxx

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Lorna and Steve Law is attending the funeral
Steven and Hayley Vigar is attending the funeral
Shirley Jones is attending the funeral
Shirley Jones donated £20 in memory of Paul

A sad loss of a loving Husband and Father at such a young age.

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  • Thank you Aunty Shirley for your kind donation to this amazing charity. I am so sorry you was unable to attend Paul’s funeral. But I know you would have been there if you could have xxx

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