John Wilsher (20 Apr 1934 - 5 Oct 2024)

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Location
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Crabtree Rd, Hempshill Ln, Bulwell Nottingham NG6 8PF
Date
11th Nov 2024
Time
2pm
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John Philip Wilsher quietly passed away at his home in Toton, Nottingham, surrounded by his family on Saturday, October 5, 2024. Born in London, England on April 20th, 1934, John lived a rich and fulfilling life, grounded in his love for family and his deep faith in God. He will be lovingly remembered by his wife, Maureen, after recently celebrating their 62nd wedding anniversary and John’s 90th birthday.

In recent years, John faced the challenges of dementia, and “dodgy knees.” Yet, even amid these challenges, his gentle presence, loving words, and quiet pride remained. He loved sharing stories of being an evacuee during World War 2, where he was transported out to Newquay, Cornwall, and cared for by Aunty Flo and Uncle Clifford Bath until he went back home after the war to be reunited with his brother and his parents in Wood Green, London.

Growing up, John lived “over the back fence” from his lifelong love, Maureen, and they were married in 1962. He leaves behind a legacy of love through Maureen; children Christopher (Jacqui), Nicholas (Hazel), Sara (Christopher), Michael (Emma), Tania, and Ann-Marie; grandchildren Benjamin (Caity), Joshua (Jaclyn), Talmadge (Madeline), Caroline (Sean), Daniel, Ethan, Esther (Braeden), Samuel (Jessica), Joseph (Tenille), Nathanael (Samantha), Rachael, Nikki, Naomi (James), Lucy, Hyrum, Hannah, Jonathan (Alice), Jared and Adam; and 15 great-granddaughters; Isobel, Olivia, Ellie, Claire, Zoe, Rose, Lucy, Poppy, Holly, Layla, Annie, Kaylee, Ruth, Clara, and Freya.

John was predeceased by his parents, Philip and Evaline. His younger brother, Richard lives in Colchester with his wife, Sylvia and their family.

John served in Northern Ireland in the British Army Pay Corps as part of the National Service Program from 1952 to 1954. After that he returned to work for Lever Brothers, becoming the transport manager in the distribution department. Later in life he worked for the Royal Mail, where he made many more friends.
John and Maureen moved from London to Bradford, Yorkshire, then on to Hinckley, Leicestershire before settling in Nottingham where they raised their family. He loved his family and they were always his first priority. He was always gentle and loving with his grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and being surrounded by family always filled his soul with joy.

John loved helping people and teaching them about his love for his Saviour, Jesus Christ. This was evident in all of his service work within the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, where he held an assortment of responsibilities, including the Bishop of the Nottingham 2nd Ward and Nottingham Stake Patriarch. He will be remembered for his love for family, his devotion to God, and his warm, gentle hugs and kisses. He will be missed a great deal by his loving family and all his friends at church and in the community.

A Memorial Service will be held for friends and family at 2pm on Monday, 11th November at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints - Crabtree Rd, Hempshill Ln, Bulwell, Nottingham after a private interment at Chilwell Cemetery.

Freda Houlton donated £10 in memory of John

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Freda Houlton wrote

John you were a wonderful husband and father and a lovely neighbour and friend to us and our boys RIP John and sending much love to Maureen and all of your lovely family and friends

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Joy & David Tomlinson wrote

Such a wonderful man and a friend always. Remembering happy times we spent with you and Maureen. Memories that will never fade. Can hear your lovely kind voice in my head and will always. You always kept smiling and your love for your dear wife,Maureen, your children and everyone else shone from you continually.
We know you will still be watching out for everyone as you always did. God bless you John. ‘Till we meet again my friend.

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Janet and Les Kirk wrote

Thank you for being a wonderful fun loving father in law to our daughter Emma and grandfather to Naomi, Lucy, Hyrum and Hannah. We are so happy that you were also able to witness the marriage of Naomi & James to. John you have left Les and I with beautiful memories and attributes of your kind, loving, compassionate nature that we will forever hold dear to our hearts for the Heart Never Forgets those we love. 🤍 God bless you John until we meet again.

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Tracy Woodward wrote

Thank you for being a great example to me. You will be greatly missed.

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Nate Wilsher wrote

I didn't get to know you as much I probably should have. I missed out on so many of your stories. I hope to hear them someday when we meet on the other side.

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Dorothy Stephenson wrote

He was a gentle giant of a man with the sweetest disposition I don’t think he had a bad bone in his body his love for his fellow men showed in every

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Paul Lindsey wrote

What a great great man. Always so kind and caring even to a wayward youth. A great influence on me through my younger life.

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Mary Demirci donated £30 in memory of John

Sending love to Maureen and all of your children and great grandchildren. I’m sure they are comforted knowing they will see you again John.. but it’s never easy to lose someone that played a huge role within the family.. stay close to them all as always.. Love you for all the help and support you gave me in life ❤️♥️❤️

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Abbie Gundersen (Warde) wrote

Sending love to you alllat this time. I have many childhood memories of Bro Wilsher and his family growing up in Nottingham Stake. A lovely man that blessed the lives of many people xxxx

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Jared Beveridge wrote

I love you grandad, I have great memories at your home and whenever you around. Thanks for your example.

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Tania Bradley wrote

A wonderful father, you'll always have a cherished place in my heart. Thank you for the memories, thank you for being an amazing example, the father l never had. You will be missed dad, you will always be a legend in the hearts of many . 💓

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Hazel Wilsher wrote

Remembering so many sweet memories of a wonderful father who always put family first.
Looking forward to being reunited one day, in the eternities with all our ancestors.
Love you forever.
Nick and Hazel & family. xxxx

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