John Edward Arnold (6 May 1969 - 30 Sep 2024)

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Southend Crematorium 654 Sutton Road Southend on Sea SS2 5PX
Date
22nd Oct 2024
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12pm
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In loving memory of John Edward Arnold who sadly passed away on 30th September 2024

Charlotte Fordham wrote

I'm so saddened by John's sudden passing. He was my neighbor in Mistley for several years and he was such a charming and upbeat guy who would happily have a chat with me and my partner when we crossed paths. He was a friendly face during the covid days, when I was made redundant, and this year, we joked about each of our moving house woes and cheered each other on.

You are sorely missed and I wish all the best to your loved ones. Much love Charlotte and Joe

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  • Hi I'm John's sister, he often spoke about you. Thank you for the nice memories you have X

    Posted by Clair on 12/11/2024 Report abuse
  • Hi Charlotte.Im sue John's partner.I spoke to you when I dropped the popcorn in.Thankyou for being such a good neighbour to John and putting up with all his parties.Hope you're move went ok.He really was greatful to have you both as neighbours .sue x

    Posted by Suzanne on 13/11/2024 Report abuse
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Karen Parry donated in memory of John

We met many years ago at Sarah and Shaun’s wedding. I know how much Shaun thought of his big brother. RIP John. Love from Karen , Sion, Holly and Max xxx

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  • Thanks Karen xxx

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 23/10/2024 Report abuse
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How I like to remember the old boy.

How I like to remember the old boy.

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  • And this was also at a party

    Posted by Clair on 22/10/2024 Report abuse
  • He did like a party , love him x

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 22/10/2024 Report abuse
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My brothers x

My brothers x

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  • Love this pic x

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
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Mum and her first born John boy

Mum and her first born John boy

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  • His new car love him x

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
  • That's the bloody reason he got car obsessed x

    Posted by Clair on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
  • It was our parents fault the toy cars led onto bigger more expensive things, for John his true love was cars x

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  • Where was that taken, lovely pic x

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
  • Dad will know x

    Posted by Clair on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
  • This was taken at your grand dad's cottage at cock Clarks Purleigh

    Posted by Terrence on 23/10/2024 Report abuse
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The hair styles, thanks Mum

The hair styles, thanks Mum

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  • Love it x

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
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Our family Christmas was the best as kids, a white Christmas tree, decorating it together and unpacking the Christmas food hamper from the milkman

Our family Christmas was the best as kids, a white Christmas tree, decorating it together and unpacking the Christmas food hamper from the milkman

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  • John loved Christmas, not so much when he was older x

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
  • As a kid he certainly did, but as you've said getting older he started to hate them, depends on your surroundings I suppose. We had the best year's!

    Posted by Clair on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
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Dad and John

Dad and John

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  • Showed dad he laughed x

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
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Cherished memories

Cherished memories

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  • Dad had hair , lovely pic 😌

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
  • Lol

    Posted by Clair on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
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Clair Tear wrote

My big brother, many years you suffered with many different aspects of your life. You were never really happy but just ticked on, we had many conversations where people were not listening. One last goodbye tomorrow. You knew the risk going on that last holiday and made the wrong choice. Your actual family are all heartbroken 💔 we love you and always will. Look after Mum keep watching down on us.

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Alfie Arnold posted a picture
I wish I could have one last time of me and you non stop smiling, going to a car meet and making a racket as usual. I will cherish the memories we have, I’m gutted we couldn’t make anymore. Love and miss you so much x

I wish I could have one last time of me and you non stop smiling, going to a car meet and making a racket as usual. I will cherish the memories we have, I’m gutted we couldn’t make anymore. Love and miss you so much x

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  • Alfie cherish the moments and photos that speak a thousand words 💙 family are everything x

    Posted by Clair on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
  • Lovely photo alfie, I'm really sorry for your loss xx

    Posted by Louise on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
  • Lovely pic Alfie, John's still holding you tightly xx

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
  • Such a nice photo, he looks so much like you here Alfie, sending you hugs x

    Posted by Abbie on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
  • John loved this photo of the two of you x

    Posted by Suzanne on 21/10/2024 Report abuse
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Michelle Pankhurst wrote

John thankyou for making Sue so happy. So many lovely memories of the days out and the holidays with you,and the kids.You could make us all laugh with your expressions. Happy memories over so many years, this will help when a wave of sadness hits. Will miss you x

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  • So many good times and memories x

    Posted by Suzanne on 20/10/2024 Report abuse
  • I’ve got a lovely photo of Dave and John at my birthday party a few years ago xx

    Posted by Mitchell on 20/10/2024 Report abuse
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  • So many happy garden parties involving that bar! Good times xx

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Matilda Treffers wrote

Wasn’t just the other week we laughed about how we clashed over the years. Both of us being silly and stubborn , your face gleamed when you spoke about the things you had been doing and all the things you wanted to do , and how gratefully to the family you had making memories! I’m sorry we didn’t get to have a New Year’s Eve party but I’ll definitely raise a glass to you John !

Looking after your crazy little solo all those years ago was a blessing it brought me the chance to meet you and I’m forget greatful to you for making my dear friend sue and angels life brighter! You shine bright up there John ! 💫💫


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  • Forever greatful “

    Posted by Matilda on 20/10/2024 Report abuse
  • We definitely had some good times.He loved all the parties we had in his man cave x

    Posted by Suzanne on 20/10/2024 Report abuse
  • 🩷🩷

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Terrence Arnold donated £10 in memory of John

You will be with your mum soon

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  • Xxx

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 18/10/2024 Report abuse
  • Dad he already is, families need our final goodbyes x

    Posted by Clair on 18/10/2024 Report abuse
  • Sorry for your loss Terry, John never had enough nice things to say about you x

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Katy Woodgate posted a picture
Johnny Boy/ Johnny bravo/ Jigsaw John.   You played one of the most important  roles to me/us as children. Your worth goes beyond what you ever thought for yourself. You never knew the impact you had helping us grow. We adored you, like you adored us. 🎨

Johnny Boy/ Johnny bravo/ Jigsaw John. You played one of the most important roles to me/us as children. Your worth goes beyond what you ever thought for yourself. You never knew the impact you had helping us grow. We adored you, like you adored us. 🎨

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  • Love this photo of you both, He adored you all so much x

    Posted by Alfie on 18/10/2024 Report abuse
  • Nice pic x

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 18/10/2024 Report abuse
  • He really did adore you all, the memories at the bungalow and farmhouse were his happy times. Xx

    Posted by Clair on 18/10/2024 Report abuse
  • We all loved him so much xx so sorry to you all for your loss of John. If it wasn’t for John and his patience, I wouldn’t be able to do the art I do. Next year I’ll be an art teacher. All started off with johns love and guidance, sitting with me for hours drawing and encouraging me. 🎨 xxx

    Posted by Katy on 22/10/2024 Report abuse
  • He thought the world of you all, the routes later in life were hard for him. Even near the end he turned to you all again, which speaks volumes x

    Posted by Clair on 24/10/2024 Report abuse
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Vicki and Ken Nice donated £20 in memory of John

With love from vicki and Ken

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  • Xx

    Posted by Clair on 17/10/2024 Report abuse
  • Thankyou x

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 18/10/2024 Report abuse
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Vicki and Ken Nice wrote

We will miss you our heart goes out to your dad and all the family RIP love and hugs vicki and Ken xx

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  • Xx

    Posted by Clair on 17/10/2024 Report abuse
  • Thankyou xx

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Pip Hills donated £20 in memory of John

Well what can I say I've seen you grow from being a cheeky boy to a gentle giant. Can not believe where all them years have gone.sorry I didn't get to see you one more time.But you will always be in my heart 💔 xx

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  • Xx

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 16/10/2024 Report abuse
  • Xx

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I know how much you were hoping to see this in person, but didn’t get the time, so I took something you loved there to remember you. Miss you John.

I know how much you were hoping to see this in person, but didn’t get the time, so I took something you loved there to remember you. Miss you John.

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  • John was really looking forward to Disney,even if it was only for star wars.x

    Posted by Suzanne on 14/10/2024 Report abuse
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Barry Hague wrote

Rest in peace John, lovely bloke and we'll miss you. Far too soon x

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  • Xx

    Posted by Shaun Arnold on 18/10/2024 Report abuse
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