Carol Elizabeth White (30 Oct 1944 - 31 Aug 2024)

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Dementia First

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Location
Surrey & Sussex Crematorium Balcombe Road Crawley RH10 3NQ
Date
10th Oct 2024
Time
12pm
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Location
Reigate Hill Golf Club Gatton Bottom Redhill RH2 0TU
Date
10th Oct 2024
Time
1.30pm

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Peter, Paul, Matthew and Susie are saddened to share the news that Carol Elizabeth White passed away peacefully on 31st August 2024. She was an amazing wife, mother and grandmother to those she has left behind and will be sorely missed.

As you will all know, Carol loved to live life to the full and in recognition of her fun and caring nature we would be honoured if you could join us to celebrate her life and share in not only the memories we cherish of her but also the memories you hold for her.

The service will be held on Thursday 10th October at 12pm. St Richard’s Chapel, Surrey & Sussex Crematorium, Balcombe Road, RH10 3NQ. This will be followed by refreshments at Reigate Hill Golf Club, Gatton Bottom, RH2 0TU. We ask if you can confirm your attendance via the link below.

For those who are unable to attend in person, there will be a live stream to Carol’s service and this will be available until 16th October.

If you would like to live stream Carol's funeral service please click on the 'Wesley Media' link located on this page.

As this will be a celebration of Carol’s life, we ask that you dress accordingly and we would love to see a splash of colour.

We also request no flowers but donations can be made to Dementia First which is our chosen charity. Dementia First is a local charity that provides day care and respite for those suffering with dementia and Alzheimer’s and is somewhere that Carol visited regularly whilst she was still living at home.

Alternatively, there will be a QR code available on the day or you can send cash or cheques to Stoneman Funeral Service.

As a family, we look forward to seeing you there xx

Derek Savidge wrote

Dear Peter, Paul, Mathew and Susie
My heart felt condolences to all of you and your extended families, my childhood memories of all the "good times" that Carol was central in creating, are set like concrete in my heart.

Unfortunately I cant be with you today, but I will be joining via the Webcast, and will certainly be shedding my own tears.

Love you all
Derek xxx

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Keith Savidge wrote

Carol, or Auntie Carol as our family affectionately always knew her; was so much more than my best friend’s Mum; my Mum’s best friend; the Mother of my siblings’ best friends.

“Auntie” Carol stands out my life as someone uniquely special among everyone I’ve ever known; with so much time for people, so much generosity, empathy, and love to give. This all in a perfect combination that will always live with me and bring comfort; whenever in life’s busy noise, I stop to remember.

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Claire Fenton wrote

Dear Peter, Paul, Matthew and Susie,
I will be with you in spirit, even though I am unable to attend the celebration of Carol's life. My heartfelt condolences to all who knew and loved Carol.

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Joanne Buglass wrote

Dear Uncle Peter, Paul, Matthew & Susie


I am so sorry I am unable to attend my lovely Auntie Carol’s funeral but I will get up very early in San Diego and watch on line. Sending you all the biggest of hugs and lots of love, she was a very, very special lady

Joanne & Kevin
xxxx

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Our lovely Auntie xx

Our lovely Auntie xx

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Ann Mackenzie wrote

I have so many memories of my dear friend Carol, from youth club days, St Barnabus Church, pantomime, holidays, Brighton, isle of Wight, Spain in our single days.
Since then many meetings in Australia and England, with our respective families.
So much laughter and love.
Miss you so much my dearest best friend.
All my love
Ann ♥️


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La Thuile 2003. By this year the ski group had increased to 10. Many happy times together.

La Thuile 2003. By this year the ski group had increased to 10. Many happy times together.

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Jeremy and Penny Thornewill wrote

We send our deep condolences Peter over the loss of dear Carol.
We are in England and will be attending the funeral and it will be very special to catch up with you and your family.

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Irene and Andrew Laing wrote

Hi Peter, Paul, Matthew and Susie


Thank you for sending us the link to the funeral arrangements for Carol. We’ve made a note in the calendar.


We have lots of happy memories of being with Carol. She was my ‘surrogate Australian’ mother when Ruth and Robert were babies. She always, happily offered to look after Ruth especially so I could have some much needed time. I hardly ever had to ask for her help, she was always there. Carol was always cheerful and funny, we had lots of laughs together including when Paul and Matthew came to tea one day and cried when I dished up fish pie. I have forever after been called the ‘fish pie lady’. Wonder if you have forgiven me.

Susie, you and Ruth were ‘frenemies’, very different personalities, even so you spent many happy times together when babies and toddlers. I was freaked out at first when Carol used to mix up your main meal with dessert and spoon it to you. It didn’t do you any harm and saved Carol a lot of food spooning time - a good idea.

We used to go for dinner at your place and I was amazed to see how organised Carol always was including having the table laid out with full silver service before mid-day - she declared mornings were the best time to get things done.

Peter I’m glad you both came out to see us shortly after Carol was diagnosed with Dementia. Wonderful that we could have time together in Melbourne and at the olives and Peter you could have some time out and some fun with us.

It’s been a tough decade for you all. Hopefully you still have some energy in you to get back on with life.

Do come and visit, you know you will always be welcome.

Love

Irene

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