Dilys Harlow (née Lougher) (11 Dec 1935 - 12 Feb 2024)

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Location
Barham Crematorium Canterbury Road Barham CT4 6QU
Date
4th Mar 2024
Time
4pm
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Location
Barham Crematorium Canterbury Road Barham CT4 6QU
Date
4th Mar 2024
Time
4pm

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Royal Cinque Ports Golf Club Golf Road Deal CT14 6RF
Date
4th Mar 2024
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In loving memory of Dilys Helen Harlow (née Lougher), widow of Ray, who died peacefully on 12th February 2024, aged 88, after a long and fulfilling life.

Beloved mother of Simon and James. Much loved sister of Cecilia, and grandmother to Ellen, Katie, Max, Purdie, and Esme. We shall all miss her.

We would be pleased to see you at Dilys' funeral and memorial service on 4th March at 4pm until 5pm at Barham Crematorium, Canterbury Road, Barham, Kent CT4 6QU, and afterwards at Royal Cinque Ports Golf Club, Golf Road, Deal, Kent CT14 6RF.

Mum said she had had a very happy life and a long one so no one must be sad when she died (easier said than done Mum!) She was adamant that she did not want any mourning black, so dress as you feel comfortable, wear something that would make her smile or feel proud, or add some colour, if you can.

If you are unable to attend in person but would like to watch the live stream over the internet please contact Simon Harlow by email at srh21@email.com for details.

If you are planning to come to the wake at Royal Cinque Ports Golf Club we would be grateful if you could let us know so that we can arrange sufficient refreshments.

Family flowers only please. Donations if desired to Diabetes UK or Dementia UK (see the box on this webpage)

Jenny Murphy donated £100 in memory of Dilys

In loving memory of Dyllis, my godmother.

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Michael and Eileen Thomas donated £20 in memory of Dilys

Thankful to have known Dilys and worked alongside her for many years. She was always so kind and helpful. We had many laughs together.
Eileen Thomas

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Terracina Chapman donated £40 in memory of Dilys

In Loving Memory of Dilys, a dear friend and a truly lovely lady. With love from Terracina, Terry, Lisa and James xxxx

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Lisa Browne (nee Chapman) wrote

Rest in peace Auntie Dilys. Sorry I can't make the funeral but I will be thinking of you all. Love to Simon, James and Celia xx

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Ann Hannah donated £20 in memory of Dilys

I shall always be grateful to Dilys for her support when I joined RCPGC, and our games together on the weekends.

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Dorothy White donated in memory of Dilys

Many happy memories of playing Golf.

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victoria hopkins wrote

very fond memories of mrs harlow.🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️Now you have your wings fly, high watching over your family. I started later in south deal yet you was so kind and gentle towards me to help me catch up.

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Tristan Dhalla wrote

Fond memories of Mrs Harlow as my teacher at South Deal. RIP and best wishes to her family at this time!

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Daniel Allkins wrote

RIP Mrs Harlow. You taught me at South Deal in the 80s. Such a wonderful teacher and lovely lady x

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  • I am so glad to have shared friendship and grandchildren with dear Dilys. Always so welcoming and smiley I will think of her very fondly always.

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Sam Janssen wrote

Aww lovely lady she taught me at south deal x I only live a couple of doors away from her and she always spoke to me I must of made a good impression for her to remember me xx condolences to you all x

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  • RIP Mrs Harlow. You taught me at South Deal in the 80s. Such a wonderful teacher and lovely lady x

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Sarah Roberts (nee Williams) wrote

Lovely teacher . I remember her well. Sorry for your loss she will be missed . X

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Susan Kirk (nee Baker) wrote

RIP to a lovely teacher. Fond memories of one of the best teachers. Will surely be missed by so many. X

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Emma Vine (Nee Herbert) wrote

Fond memories of a lovely gentle Teacher at South Deal Primary. May she rest in peace. Sincere condolences go out to her family and friends xx

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Lorna McGregor wrote

Mrs Harlow taught me at South Deal school. Sorry to hear of her passing such a wonder lady x

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Ann Campling wrote

Rest in peace gentile lady. Working with you and knowing you was a pleasure. Love and condolences to your family.

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Roger Campling wrote

Lovely lady. I taught along side her for many years. She had a fabulous sense of humour making children and colleagues laugh.
May she rest in peace.

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