Thomas White (9 Dec 1975 - 28 Oct 2023)

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Surrey & Sussex Crematorium Balcombe Road Crawley RH10 3NQ
Date
22nd Nov 2023
Time
2.15pm
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Location
Red Lion Pub Castle St, Bletchingley, Redhill RH1 4NU
Date
22nd Nov 2023
Time
3.30pm

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In loving memory of Tom White who sadly passed away on 28th October 2023 after his battle with appendix cancer. Tom was an amazing strong family man, that took pride in guiding his two boys with his wisdom, to make sure he gave them the best start on their life’s journey. He was a loving husband, brother and son. Tom loved being out in the countryside this past year more so than ever, taking in the surroundings was his way of trying to cope with his terminal diagnosis. So in honour of Tom, rather than flowers, we would like to ask anyone who would like to donate to give to a gofundme for a bench that we are going to have made in Toms memory for the boys and our family to go and be with him. And we are going to make sure we find an amazing, perfect spot that Tom would have loved.. please find link above under ( donations) .

Anthony Komodikis wrote

I was Tom's barber for a long time and I would always look forward to seeing him whenever he booked in and occasionally when he would just pass by. I considered him more of a friend than a client.
We would speak for ages about everything. I know how much he loved his family and he was such a genuine nice guy, compassionate and very generous.

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. I wanted to let you know it was a real pleasure knowing Tom. I still think about him from time to time, as he is dearly missed and he still puts a smile on my face remembering the things he said.

My sincere condolences to the family and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Boyz 😊

Boyz 😊

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Naomi Dawson wrote

Sending love to all of Tom’s family and friends. I’m thinking of you all xxx

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Akil Kapasi wrote

I only had the pleasure of getting to know Tom through work but I always enjoyed our lunches. It gave us a chance to speak about life, Tom's family, hobbies, and pretty much anything not related to Recruitment! I always remember thinking that he was one of lifes good guys, and as the saying goes "only the good die young".

My thoughts are with Sarah, Alfie, and Oscar, as well as all of friends and colleagues. He touched everybody he knew and he will be dearly missed. Rest in Peace Buddy xx

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Having known Tom since we were both 18 camera phones weren’t much of a thing back in the early 1990s therefore I’ve uploaded an image that if he’s looking down on us all tomorrow this will definitely make him smile!! So many good times and fond memories x

Having known Tom since we were both 18 camera phones weren’t much of a thing back in the early 1990s therefore I’ve uploaded an image that if he’s looking down on us all tomorrow this will definitely make him smile!! So many good times and fond memories x

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Alex, Lucie, Ted and Bo Branczik wrote

Sending all the Whites our love and peace from Hong Kong. You carry Tom forwards, in the stories you tell, in the memories you share, in your everyday. Xxx

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Jolanta Szestakow wrote


Tom was one of the most kind and generous people I have known, and one that I will definitely never forget.
He was my mentor, my boss but most of all my friend. I feel so lucky to have known him.
I have always looked up to him, learned from him and have thought very highly of him. I owe so much of my knowledge to Tom and the opportunities he has given me.
I miss him so so much; not a day goes by when I don’t think about him.
I will treasure these memories with the rest of i3 forever.

My deepest condolences to Sarah, Alfie and Oscar – you were everything to him ❤️

All my love,

Jolanta ❤️

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Madeline Smith wrote

Totally heartbroken to lose Tom … I will always remember him as the most kind, caring and thoughtful, all-round top bloke. With the kindest smile! He was a genuine pleasure to work with. And a real integral part to this company – his loss has been felt, deeply, by all of us here at i3.
I am so grateful that I had the opportunity to know him, I really thought a lot of Tom and he taught me so much that I will carry throughout my career, and my life too. I do, and will, really miss him so much.
Deepest condolences to Sarah, Alfie and Oscar and all of Tom's friends and family. His family was everything to him.
Forever alive in our memories! All my love, Mads xxx

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Sorry for this one. It was on one of our un forgettable trips to Las Vegas. We all had a little too much to drink. Tom fell asleep and I thought it would be funny to lay a crisp on his head! Will miss our tricks, always❤️

Sorry for this one. It was on one of our un forgettable trips to Las Vegas. We all had a little too much to drink. Tom fell asleep and I thought it would be funny to lay a crisp on his head! Will miss our tricks, always❤️

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Jamie Neale wrote

I offer my sincere and deep condolences to Sarah, Alfie and Oscar and all Tom's friends and family for this terrible loss, I was devastated to hear the news. Tom was someone I really looked up to and I would have run through brick walls for him; I was lucky to have known Tom when I did and he taught me so much. He was a great mentor, friend and surrogate older brother in the time I knew him. I will miss him deeply and think of him often.

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After a day's tattooing, at the London convention. A great day, and a great memory. And the day I got to meet Alfie too. Thank you x

After a day's tattooing, at the London convention. A great day, and a great memory. And the day I got to meet Alfie too. Thank you x

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Dan Jackson wrote

Getting to know Tom, over the last few years, was truly a blessing. We spent hours together, as I tattooed him talking (non-stop 😂) about life, the universe and everything in between.
His family was the most important thing to him, and he spoke of you all, with such love and pride, that it blew me away.
I'll miss our chats. The serious and the silly. And I know he'll approve of what I'm doing with the house in Ireland. He'd love it here.
It's not often you feel such an instant connection with a person. But im sure everyone who knew him felt it too.
My love and best wishes go to Sarah and the boys. He lives through you.
I won't be there on Wednesday, as I'm flying. But I'll be thinking of him more on that day than I do every other.
I'll look forward to seeing you next month, Alfie.
All my love,
Dan ✌️ ❤️

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Reza Akbari wrote

Dear Sarah, Douglas, and the White family,

As we read these beautiful memories everyone is sharing about Tom, it profoundly highlights the devastating and challenging time you and the entire family are going through. Our thoughts are with you during this lifetime. May his cherished memories bring solace, and may he rest in peace.

Robin’s uncle, Grandmother and Grandfather.

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Douglas white and Tom White. Two beautiful brothers. I took this photo. We love you Tom. Mania

Douglas white and Tom White. Two beautiful brothers. I took this photo. We love you Tom. Mania

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I'll never forget your smile, your warm presence, and your kindness. Throughout the eleven years of being family, you were always well-organized, stylish, and dignified, either tending to the flowers and plants in the backyard or diligently working at your desk. Your sense of order and authority remains memorable. For our son, Rubin, I'll speak of Uncle Tom's beauties. Losing you was a significant blow to our family. You'll always be alive in our memories.

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I will never listen to ‘Prayer in C’ without thinking of you. 

Thank you for your time, generosity, lasting musical influences and treasured memories. I won’t forget you.

Thinking of your family and friends as they navigate this time and onwards.

Rest easy Boss xx

I will never listen to ‘Prayer in C’ without thinking of you. Thank you for your time, generosity, lasting musical influences and treasured memories. I won’t forget you. Thinking of your family and friends as they navigate this time and onwards. Rest easy Boss xx

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Claire Mollett wrote

Knowing Sarah for so long I know the sort of man Tom was and what a massive loss this will be for all the family, especially Sarah, Alfie and Oscar.
Thinking of you all x

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