Thomas White (9 Dec 1975 - 28 Oct 2023)
Tom and his family's bench
Funeral Director
- Location
- Red Lion Pub Castle St, Bletchingley, Redhill RH1 4NU
- Date
- 22nd Nov 2023
- Time
- 3.30pm
In loving memory of Tom White who sadly passed away on 28th October 2023 after his battle with appendix cancer. Tom was an amazing strong family man, that took pride in guiding his two boys with his wisdom, to make sure he gave them the best start on their life’s journey. He was a loving husband, brother and son. Tom loved being out in the countryside this past year more so than ever, taking in the surroundings was his way of trying to cope with his terminal diagnosis. So in honour of Tom, rather than flowers, we would like to ask anyone who would like to donate to give to a gofundme for a bench that we are going to have made in Toms memory for the boys and our family to go and be with him. And we are going to make sure we find an amazing, perfect spot that Tom would have loved.. please find link above under ( donations) .
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![Having known Tom since we were both 18 camera phones weren’t much of a thing back in the early 1990s therefore I’ve uploaded an image that if he’s looking down on us all tomorrow this will definitely make him smile!! So many good times and fond memories x](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/s3K9ne34Wj5HJiwMtPCtflFlIlg=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/b64cacbd-41eb-4181-b581-3c49816d1df5.jpeg)
Having known Tom since we were both 18 camera phones weren’t much of a thing back in the early 1990s therefore I’ve uploaded an image that if he’s looking down on us all tomorrow this will definitely make him smile!! So many good times and fond memories x
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![Sorry for this one. It was on one of our un forgettable trips to Las Vegas. We all had a little too much to drink. Tom fell asleep and I thought it would be funny to lay a crisp on his head! Will miss our tricks, always❤️](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/5kAziA1NECscQAgtaD0eDxaCUas=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/0d569025-a42c-4e5c-a7ee-131e413ca24a.png)
Sorry for this one. It was on one of our un forgettable trips to Las Vegas. We all had a little too much to drink. Tom fell asleep and I thought it would be funny to lay a crisp on his head! Will miss our tricks, always❤️
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![After a day's tattooing, at the London convention. A great day, and a great memory. And the day I got to meet Alfie too. Thank you x](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/34OfB1GUXACnKw-gArkkgm42x3M=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/46b11b65-b236-4cc8-b587-ba390d12cbd1.jpg)
After a day's tattooing, at the London convention. A great day, and a great memory. And the day I got to meet Alfie too. Thank you x
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is attending the funeral
is attending the funeral and the reception
is attending the funeral and the reception
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![I will never listen to ‘Prayer in C’ without thinking of you.
Thank you for your time, generosity, lasting musical influences and treasured memories. I won’t forget you.
Thinking of your family and friends as they navigate this time and onwards.
Rest easy Boss xx](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/zhh994_Om5glZkxO3KlznY9dA7k=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/9bc4c0aa-212b-4a17-aee6-d7edd2ae592e.jpeg)
I will never listen to ‘Prayer in C’ without thinking of you. Thank you for your time, generosity, lasting musical influences and treasured memories. I won’t forget you. Thinking of your family and friends as they navigate this time and onwards. Rest easy Boss xx
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![Having known Tom since we were both 18 camera phones weren’t much of a thing back in the early 1990s therefore I’ve uploaded an image that if he’s looking down on us all tomorrow this will definitely make him smile!! So many good times and fond memories x](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/s3K9ne34Wj5HJiwMtPCtflFlIlg=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/b64cacbd-41eb-4181-b581-3c49816d1df5.jpeg)
Having known Tom since we were both 18 camera phones weren’t much of a thing back in the early 1990s therefore I’ve uploaded an image that if he’s looking down on us all tomorrow this will definitely make him smile!! So many good times and fond memories x
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![Sorry for this one. It was on one of our un forgettable trips to Las Vegas. We all had a little too much to drink. Tom fell asleep and I thought it would be funny to lay a crisp on his head! Will miss our tricks, always❤️](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/5kAziA1NECscQAgtaD0eDxaCUas=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/0d569025-a42c-4e5c-a7ee-131e413ca24a.png)
Sorry for this one. It was on one of our un forgettable trips to Las Vegas. We all had a little too much to drink. Tom fell asleep and I thought it would be funny to lay a crisp on his head! Will miss our tricks, always❤️
![After a day's tattooing, at the London convention. A great day, and a great memory. And the day I got to meet Alfie too. Thank you x](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/34OfB1GUXACnKw-gArkkgm42x3M=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/46b11b65-b236-4cc8-b587-ba390d12cbd1.jpg)
After a day's tattooing, at the London convention. A great day, and a great memory. And the day I got to meet Alfie too. Thank you x
![Douglas white and Tom White. Two beautiful brothers. I took this photo. We love you Tom. Mania](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/eFw-IMmhFIcYc340QIVgcVweofs=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/00895add-ef0f-44e2-a21d-baff6213b2cb.jpeg)
Douglas white and Tom White. Two beautiful brothers. I took this photo. We love you Tom. Mania
![I will never listen to ‘Prayer in C’ without thinking of you.
Thank you for your time, generosity, lasting musical influences and treasured memories. I won’t forget you.
Thinking of your family and friends as they navigate this time and onwards.
Rest easy Boss xx](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/zhh994_Om5glZkxO3KlznY9dA7k=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/9bc4c0aa-212b-4a17-aee6-d7edd2ae592e.jpeg)
I will never listen to ‘Prayer in C’ without thinking of you. Thank you for your time, generosity, lasting musical influences and treasured memories. I won’t forget you. Thinking of your family and friends as they navigate this time and onwards. Rest easy Boss xx
![Always with you my bro.](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/dfp6vjGZQp-lV_lQ9pSfPci_xFo=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/de2b8163-a0f6-4478-aca7-dfdd84dface0.jpeg)
Always with you my bro.
![Gonna miss my bezzie. Forever in my heart and memories.❤️](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/RJjInYoGK5ioQLru7t_Ne7_Dv8k=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/4bddaa38-b884-41b6-9237-1474402d45cd.png)
Gonna miss my bezzie. Forever in my heart and memories.❤️
![An absolute legend, a great friend and businessman. Regrettably, I couldn't find a photo of us together, so I've included one he was obviously very chuffed with. Our nights out at the boxing matches will never be the same without him. Rest in Peace, my friend. X](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/bzzIhU-jYcZ9iDaZtPk-iPbW8Yc=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/61c078eb-bc19-46c5-a6b8-782542971a4e.jpeg)
An absolute legend, a great friend and businessman. Regrettably, I couldn't find a photo of us together, so I've included one he was obviously very chuffed with. Our nights out at the boxing matches will never be the same without him. Rest in Peace, my friend. X
![24 years of good times. My pal, my friend, my business partner. x](https://d24pb0tc2lc7uj.cloudfront.net/58P1T63i3ICD-XRx3n7Oa_0Q2Ww=/fit-in/800x600/public/assets/uploads/15577c47-af7c-49a2-a360-bdbaa8563f88.jpeg)
24 years of good times. My pal, my friend, my business partner. x
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